ya hor. u r rite.. my waifu suddenly no wan sexing i so sadding.. that was like for entire month !! after tat oni know she got our baby liao

She is thin to begin with but she did gained a little weight. More chubby abit compare last year but overall still model figure..

Hi guys and girls here,
need to share something and get inputs, because i have no idea whats happening. My first thread anyway:)

Me and gf are both working adults, we had known each other and together for a year already. She is the happy go lucky kind of girl, many laughter and i love to make her smile and laugh. When we first started, we are very happy everyday, not much conflict, had a fair number of intimacy. Everything went well, though some argument becomes big, discover many conflicting personality, but the end of the day, we are really happy together when we are not arguing. There are laughters, smile everyday.

Lately, things start to change. Its been that way for few months already. I realise she reject MOST intimate approach, citing no mood. Fair enough. But even fonding, caressing she will also reject. Ok since if she dont like, i dun wish force too.

But this had been going on too long. I began to feel uneasy, and ask her. She says really no mood and dun wish give anymore.. But she say still got right? (yeah like once a month, which is very much less than when we first started). However i dun wish to force, if she no mood i also dun wish.

What is she thinking exactly? Our relation is still going good, still happy, laughter etc but when intimate things come into picture it became like non-existent anymore(even if she say still got give).

B4 u say she steering us to friendzone, i think its not the way even if i make it sounds like we are buddy everyday joke laugh etc. There is one time because i wish to avoid ME being reject approach for intimacy(horny moment) i say i dont want to stay overnight at her room, she got mad and want me to accompany her (just sleep beside) and we had an argument. Shes pretty and gorgeous fyi. How to stand if overnight?(or not stand)

b4 u say TS 2" and servis no good, its not the case also. We had fair share of ex-s before we met. She very satisfy*edited*

I dont know whats going on, damn confuse and hard to get on with it. I admit i am sexually active person but i did not want it daily or weekly. I can even live without making love with her but no fondling/caressing seems too much. What should i do?

also im not sure if i remember it correctly or not, i think she said she dont like sex with me.. Or just dont like sex. I think its not about premarriage things so she dunwan anymore and i should respect her put more effort in our relationship things blah blah. She just say dont feel like it. Ok great so she is potentially a wife that dont feel like making love.

Aiyoo, my friend. Mood needs to be created laa. That's the difference between guys and girls. For us guys, we can get off work, eat dinner at KFC, come home, change into boxer shorts and Pagoda T-shirt, watch some Akademi Fantasia, brush teeth, then feel horny and want some lovin'. Girls cannot. They need to be in the mood. They want to be in the mood with you.

So it's up to you to create the mood. Simplest way is to take her out for a nice romantic dinner, somewhere fancy where you both have to dress up, eat some really good food, maybe have a bottle of wine with it. Advanced techniques would require more imagination.

sign of preggy else breakup...if breakup find some spare if preggy bcome father day la...it's either this 2 things only.

Well I skip the worst part and focus of biology side effect.

there is many cause of less desire in sex, unstable hormone, emotional disturb, unstable haid timeline or maybe worst body problem.

Unstable hormone and haid timeline is more common problem  suffer by a lot female out there which lead to weight gain, skin problem and less active to sex. This can be settle by visit women specialist havea check.

Emotional disturb Is also another main cause of less desire for sex. There is many type out there like stress from work, sexual disturb, family problem, and etc which make her can't focus on such thing.
Female is very sensitive thing even small problem cause them a lot trouble and a lot of them will not share this with you, it will up to you to monitor it out.

About sleep together part, I only can advice you go find Mrs. 5 Before go to bed to reduced desire

Is it just sex or everything including dating, her general response etc?

Hi guys and girls here,
need to share something and get inputs, because i have no idea whats happening. My first thread anyway:)

Me and gf are both working adults, we had known each other and together for a year already. She is the happy go lucky kind of girl, many laughter and i love to make her smile and laugh. When we first started, we are very happy everyday, not much conflict, had a fair number of intimacy. Everything went well, though some argument becomes big, discover many conflicting personality, but the end of the day, we are really happy together when we are not arguing. There are laughters, smile everyday.

Lately, things start to change. Its been that way for few months already. I realise she reject MOST intimate approach, citing no mood. Fair enough. But even fonding, caressing she will also reject. Ok since if she dont like, i dun wish force too.

But this had been going on too long. I began to feel uneasy, and ask her. She says really no mood and dun wish give anymore.. But she say still got right? (yeah like once a month, which is very much less than when we first started). However i dun wish to force, if she no mood i also dun wish.

What is she thinking exactly? Our relation is still going good, still happy, laughter etc but when intimate things come into picture it became like non-existent anymore(even if she say still got give).

B4 u say she steering us to friendzone, i think its not the way even if i make it sounds like we are buddy everyday joke laugh etc. There is one time because i wish to avoid ME being reject approach for intimacy(horny moment) i say i dont want to stay overnight at her room, she got mad and want me to accompany her (just sleep beside) and we had an argument. Shes pretty and gorgeous fyi. How to stand if overnight?(or not stand)

b4 u say TS 2" and servis no good, its not the case also. We had fair share of ex-s before we met. She very satisfy*edited*

I dont know whats going on, damn confuse and hard to get on with it. I admit i am sexually active person but i did not want it daily or weekly. I can even live without making love with her but no fondling/caressing seems too much. What should i do?

also im not sure if i remember it correctly or not, i think she said she dont like sex with me.. Or just dont like sex. I think its not about premarriage things so she dunwan anymore and i should respect her put more effort in our relationship things blah blah. She just say dont feel like it. Ok great so she is potentially a wife that dont feel like making love.

Its a good advise.. sometime i did just that. Go shopping, what she like i will buy for her. Browse clothes and shoes with her, giving comment and she like how our interaction goes. She loves Japanese food so bring her there.

Then end of the day go back, just some hugging fondling then kena reject, says tired liao. If i cont the approach then she will snap back and says "why must have that?" "you do so much just for that?" "why cant we just sweet sweet without that?". Mind you im already not (dare) ask for sex, its just some intimate gesture also kena reject
Her period never miss! lucky! Cheers!!

but breakup......
From my observation her period never miss, and quite follow schedule. Hormone could be one of the culprit, but how do i convince her to female specialist woh. Because it seems like she is okay with her 'no sex' mood, and expect me to be same (wtf). She did not see it as a problem, which i can argue nothing as premarital sex is not that good to start with. If i make this proposal im afraid it will start another argument "why is that so important?" (of course she wouldnt know =,=).

Thing is, it started okay, but become very less this last few months. I am quite confuse and worried when she said she dont like sex(!!)
Erm.... not just sex. All intimate actions, fondling, passionate kissing etc etc. Dating and life everything is great as usual!

Its a good advise.. sometime i did just that. Go shopping, what she like i will buy for her. Browse clothes and shoes with her, giving comment and she like how our interaction goes. She loves Japanese food so bring her there.

I think im in the same situation with your gf sometime really need the mood le im currently staying with my bf so we see each other everyday but we only do once a month and for kiss is like 2-3 months once and whenever he hug me usually I will push him away because I always work so very tired and dun really feel to have intimate moments just want to have his accompany

sometime we girls just want bf accompany but bf always think those only...

sometime we girls just want bf accompany but bf always think those only...

You said you don't want to force... you can live without sex (sure boh?)
On the other hands, almost every complaint or point you made is about sex. Stay overnight, you also want sex (she might just want a company during the night, not a sex partner).

From what I read (I meant I read you), I think you want SEX badly.
Did I read you wrong?

Please tell your GF that you can't live without SEX. She must have SEX with you if she invites you stay overnight.
Tell her you want a break-up if you can't have SEX.
Just tell your GF what you need. Communicate with her. You may have surprises.

Good luck.

(P/S Just curious, have you told your GF that you desire more SEX? See what's her response.)

Talking sometimes is troublesome cause people tend to miss understand what you try to tell.

Try search article online with similar case like you and if the article hit 80 90% you experience you can consider forward her to read.

Refer to what you say , I see her still try to maintain the relation but something is causing trouble here. Any possible of new beauty product is taking currently?

TS may try of this so call "Spanish Fly".....
Maybe it will work..but i tot TS said can live without ahem ahem.....

sometime he will complain a bit lor but he still understanding lor coz Im tired and shopping and watch movie also 1-2 month once

Thanks for comment, i dont deny it. She knew it. In fact, there are a period of times where we stay together daily. And no we did not have sex every other night. I din even touch her. The reason i dont want to overnight with her, is because when my desire kicks in, most probably i will get rejected and be dejected. I just dont want things like that happen.

before someone quote me and says i contradict myself, again my request when im horny alrd downgrade to fondling, kissing, BUT NOT SEX okay?

Yeah no sex is really okay (though we used to had it and i love it), but touchie touchie also cant? OMG a model gf suddenly become E-mei nun? thats my problem now

I think im in the same situation with your gf sometime really need the mood le im currently staying with my bf so we see each other everyday but we only do once a month and for kiss is like 2-3 months once and whenever he hug me usually I will push him away because I always work so very tired and dun really feel to have intimate moments just want to have his accompany

sometime we girls just want bf accompany but bf always think those only...

Aiyoooooo.    Friend, this is not called romantic. You understand what is this thing called romantic? It's the thing that will get her in the mood. Clothes and shoes and Japanese food, while they may be things she likes, are not gonna get her in the mood.