QUOTE(kmarc @ Mar 9 2012, 11:56 PM)
Thx for the prompt reply.
1) It is actually their lawyer, which they said could give better legal fees. I don't have any lawyer friends.

And yeah, there is no black and white document that the agreed date for the SPA is in July. If what their lawyer is doing is wrong and a breach of his duty, is there anyway I can "threaten" them or their lawyer (in a nice way) so that I get a better deal (see below) as this is clearly unfair to us?
I'm not sure how it works for you but normally, it is the purchaser who appoints his own lawyer and pays full scaled fees. That is 100% of the time. Vendor elects to tumpang purchaser's lawyer for redemption, discharge of charge/RnR and CKHT forms. Lawyer is deemed to be acting for the purchaser. If in this case, you're paying scaled fees but the lawyer is deemed to be acting for the vendor, then you've been taken for a ride, or you've agreed on a really bad deal on your part.
Having no lawyer friends is no excuse, sorry to say. Who needs lawyer friends? You need a professional lawyer who is there to take care of your interest, not to be your friend. You ought to have asked your friends and families to recommend you one. Throw a stone in a crowd and you'll hit a lawyer. There's so many of them around. A lot of them do conveyancing matters.
Now, since it's the vendor's lawyer, the question of breach of duty does not arise. He is after all acting in the best interest and instruction of the vendor, i.e. to delay until July. It's you who has been taken for a ride.
QUOTE(kmarc @ Mar 9 2012, 11:56 PM)
1) It is actually their lawyer, which they said could give better legal fees. I don't have any lawyer friends.
And yeah, there is no black and white document that the agreed date for the SPA is in July. If what their lawyer is doing is wrong and a breach of his duty, is there anyway I can "threaten" them or their lawyer (in a nice way) so that I get a better deal (see below) as this is clearly unfair to us?
2) I understand.[b[SIZE=7]] I myself thinks it is risky to do renovations and then seller decides not to sell. [/b][SIZE=7]However, do you think there can be a third option as I'm hoping the deal will go through? "Proceed as usual" won't work as they want to wait until a full 5 years. "Abort the transaction" would be a loss to us in terms of time and money spent. "
Agree to delay" would be unfair to us as we had put in the deposit, t[SIZE=7]hinking that everything will proceed as usual and we get the house in the usual time. Furthermore, we really like the house after looking at so many houses. Was thinking about the seller giving me some better deal e.g. monetary incentive to allow the SPA to be dated in July.....

Basically, what I'm asking is what I can do to make the deal go through which is fair for me as a buyer (with deposit being paid and the assumption that seller wants to wait until July 31).....
I've highlighted your own words there for you to dwell on. You put in 10% deposit on a house and there's no SPA to secure your right.
I see no middle part in this. On one end, you abort it. On the other hand - If you want to take the risk and start reno now, do keep your fingers crossed that there would be no glitches in between as the finish line is very much far ahead. I can't see how you can have any other agreement to "secure" your right bearing in mind that the SPA is the principal agreement that protects you and that 10% deposit which you have put in. If that is not dated and stamped, ,of what use are the side agreements? Where do you stand without the stamped SPA? Are you a purchaser? Are you a tenant? Think about it.
Good luck.
This post has been edited by dariofoo: Mar 10 2012, 01:52 AM