QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Oct 19 2011, 08:36 PM)
Well, based on what I've learnt during my abnormal psychology class on sexual disorders.
The disorder type is in the arousal stage of sex, where he's clearly unable to maintain erection - erectile disorder (ED).
Diabetes is a common cause for ED.
Is he taking any medications? It could be causing it.
Alcohol also affects the arousal stage. But I assume he's not drinking every time he's having sex.
Smoking can also lead to ED.
If its not physical, psychological factors are mostly something to do with cognitive thinking. Does he get non-sexual thoughts that affect his arousal? Is anything bugging him or troubling him?
Has he had any traumatic events when he was a child?
It could be anything affecting him. So it's still best if you look for professional help if you ask me. I think the main problem here is more to maintaining erection (ED) than duration of sex (PE).
QUOTE(hozyali @ Oct 21 2011, 10:29 AM)
I don't think pills ever help, the only thing is gives is the satisfaction to your mind that you have taken the pills and it will now work.
What actually works is the male's brain. When the guy is almost about to discharge, he should immediately move the brain to something else other than the girl or intercourse. Try this once, there is no side effects

and you will see the results.
I am married for 7 years, I can still go more than 25 to 30 minutes often

Hope it helps.
QUOTE(Valex @ Oct 22 2011, 02:36 AM)
i think he stress too...
stress can in deed cause such issue.
there are period where i hardly get myself harden for 1-2months due to stressness...
He says he does not have stress and nothing happened when he was a child...so it's called erectile disorder? is it the same as erectile dysfunction? he is not taking any medication, and he does not drink or smoke...
you are right... he has trouble maintaining erection...what i meant when i said duration is because he will lose erection when we change positions
maybe he is under stress and he doesn't know it

maybe gambir will help him to be more confident? or maybe i have to find a way to help him relax...