What do you mean by healthy sex life?

if your bf cannot perform then only take pill .....if not take too much no good for health
let him rest first then only second round la...  

i have asked this question to my uncle, as he is a pharmacist, it is actually a legal drug, which is a prescription based drug that needs doctor's recommendation.

it does not give any side effects, however, need to check whether your bf got allergies towards certain medicines or not.

on the price side, i believe it cost RM30-RM45 per pop...

IMHO,he need doctor check up or some serious talk about past
in my fair share in expriences,this can be either physically or mentally problem
does he have bad exprience when erection occurs?
your mind can do pretty serious cover up as it expriences bad memories

just sharing thoughts

Doesn't look like it's due to obesity.

Has he gone to an endocrinologist to check his testosterone/estrogen levels? I think this can be done through blood test as well at those BP Labs.

Nah he's no where near obese.

There are government clinics that offer mental health doctors as well. But I'm not very sure about this as mental health is not very promoted over here in our country. People rather go pray to bomoh than look for a psychologist. So yea, I know there is that option but I don't know exactly how. If anyone knows how, it's a good time to share. You may wanna ask around in Health & Fitness subforum as well. People there are more knowledgeable.

Has it always been like this? Even when he masturbates himself?

Well, based on what I've learnt during my abnormal psychology class on sexual disorders.
The disorder type is in the arousal stage of sex, where he's clearly unable to maintain erection - erectile disorder (ED).

Diabetes is a common cause for ED.
Is he taking any medications? It could be causing it.
Alcohol also affects the arousal stage. But I assume he's not drinking every time he's having sex.
Smoking can also lead to ED.

If its not physical, psychological factors are mostly something to do with cognitive thinking. Does he get non-sexual thoughts that affect his arousal? Is anything bugging him or troubling him?

Has he had any traumatic events when he was a child?

It could be anything affecting him. So it's still best if you look for professional help if you ask me. I think the main problem here is more to maintaining erection (ED) than duration of sex (PE).

I don't think pills ever help, the only thing is gives is the satisfaction to your mind that you have taken the pills and it will now work.

What actually works is the male's brain. When the guy is almost about to discharge, he should immediately move the brain to something else other than the girl or intercourse. Try this once, there is no side effects and you will see the results.

I am married for 7 years, I can still go more than 25 to 30 minutes often

Hope it helps.

i think he stress too...
stress can in deed cause such issue.
there are period where i hardly get myself harden for 1-2months due to stressness...

My bf is longer lasting if do it more frequent~ think that maybe every ppl has diffrent situation and solution~ 

ask ur bf he masturbate a lot or not in past n now...

Wow, this sounds interesting 
Where can we get it in KL ?
This might be the main probs, since masturbate can cause week erection ( due to the distinctive grip & sensation compare with the real 'situatio' )

When changing position, ur bf will change from "Hard" become "Soft", is partially soft or fully soft?

Came across this thread.....with an amusing subject title (wondering what he wanted to have removed).

From my own experience, I think it is due to the unnecessary pressure we men put on ourselves to meet our own expectation to satisfy women and perform better on the bed.

When we first started even if I were to grade my own performance, it was subpar but nevertheless I was reassured that I was doing alright. Soon I stopped creating unnecessary expectation on myself, my performance improved and leap further when I started other physical activities like weight lifting and running. My stamina improved and I could last much longer too.

I believe and personally feel that physical exercises keep my comfortable cardiovascular activity level in a higher range, as in I can go aggressive longer without having to keep up with my breathing as my body is comfortable with my higher heart beat rate. I did not read any article on this but I believe that the body only have so much amount of blood. If my heart and my breathing is comfortable, my blood will stay where it should stay rather than retracting back to my heart to provide me more oxygen. Of course, I think anxiety and stress also provide unnecessary higher heart rate.

I did consider such options like you mentioned but I fear of the harm I put my body through so I never did.

Of course, initially the unnecessary pressure mainly came from watching such materials as I compared my own performance with what I now believe to be scripted  and probably edited to fulfill necessary screening hours.

Has anyone mentioned special massage that specifically focus on the male's part?

And of course the massage if to be done by the real professional.

My experience is that the massage does really help and the improvement on duration and erection after weeks of this massage treatment.

hi TS , can i know u and your bf have healthy and safe sex?

wat are the precautions and usually wat condom u boyfriend use?
thanks!

izzit safe to keep consuming pills?

thanks again