Well I would have done the same thing as u. I would just enjoy to the max prior to the consumption of Postinor.
In the PPZ's context, he engaged in safe sex. just the condom expired on him too early.

You indeed have a weird way of consoling the person.
So PPZ now knows what he needs to do the next time....
if he gets a next time.. Just kidding...

Lol. I like how you describe it. It's actually very true. Haha.
Lots of people come here asking whether they should consume ECP or not but in the end, no pregnant also will get all sorts of other mental side effects, e.g. stress, which then again cause period to delay andden worry the hell out of themselves.

Everyone will react to it differently.
If her period still doesn't come in say 3 weeks, then get a pregnancy test kit.

No worries PPZ, i have used it for several times and it never fail on me. and just to add on, usually one week after your gf consumed the pills, she will most probably menstrual. if her period comes, most probably she will be safe from unwanted pregnant. For my own experiences, everytime i consume the pills, exact 7 days after my period will come.

izzit true that someone can only use Postinor not more than 3 times in a month? I heard from a pharmacist.

It's called EMERGENCY contraceptive pills for a reason. If you have to use it so many times in a month, there's probably something wrong with your contraceptive methods.

Obviously too much of it will have some sort of side effects.

sadly I have a friend who think this bill is considered birth control method, even the side effects alone should waken up the people already....such thinking is very dangerous

Agree, it is called EMERGENCY for a reason.

Actually it is more of an imbalance in your hormons thus the side effect.
If you want to consume quite often then resort to BCP or get an IUD inserted in.

Well just advise you fren that it is better to consume Birth control pills. tell her that it is good for her complexion and skin and she will be able to have sex freely. Do some read up on hormonal imbalance and pass it to your friend. then she will understand.

Hi, I had sex with someone foreigner 2 days ago, he used condom but when he wanted to come out he came out outside but I see some water came out from bottom edge of condom, I dnt know is it dangerous or not?
I'm 17 malaysian muslim, and I can buy these ECP pills myself , how can I buy and where?, and how much is this
urgent , thank you

well the liquid that you saw was most likely your own cum/water. if you are really worried, then you can get it from any pharmacy who has a pharmist. the easiest one will be the pharmacy in jusco. it will cost between 4 - 7 ringgit only.

Both of you will be producing body fluids. The 'water' you see could be from either one of you. How do you know it's from him?

Any pharmacy will have it.

that's why I'm not sure, can be possible that the water was for me ? and it was like 2 drops, and also he checked his condom and it wasn't broken, but I'm worry that maybe his water leaked from bottom of his condom, is this possible ?

---

Added on June 9, 2012, 7:51 pmreally thank you, I hope it was my own water, another thing ECP is just works after 3 days right, what pill should I take after 3 days to eliminate any chance or stop it, or what can I do after 3 days if I didn't take ECP?

This post has been edited by nurulll: Jun 9 2012, 07:51 PM

Condoms are pretty effective. I highly doubt that it failed you this time since it was not even broken.
Unless the condom was not fitted to your sexual partner's man part properly, then I don't think that there any chance of semen leaking the other way round. Besides, if the semen was leaked out thru the opening, the chances of one getting pregnant isn't high either.

What I would advice you to do now is stop stressing up over it, as the more you are worried, the more you will be messing up your hormones, which will lead to delay in period, then lead to more stress thinking that you are pregnant and in the end you are just stressing your own self out physically and mentally. Assuming you done it during your fertile period where chances of getting pregnant is higher, get a pregnancy test kit around the time your next period is about to be due, do the test if you still didn't get your period after few days.

Some people say the ECP is good till 5 days, but I'm not sure about this.

really thank you,I really need this now and so stressful, he didn't open the condom in front of me he opened it after finishing at another place far from me, just when he wanted to come he pulled out his sexual part and came outside of me in condom, but when he pulled out one drop came out with the condom, and he told just at the bottom of condom he felt some water which i'm not sure it was from him or me, and also the condom was fully inserted to him till the end of his sexual part so it was properly fitted ??, can I know when is exactly the fertile time ?, and I should get pregnancy test when my next period wants to start right?, what should I do if the test is positive to stop it ? and also can I know when the first signs of pregnancy will occur to me ,the earliest time ?

This post has been edited by nurulll: Jun 9 2012, 08:33 PM

Lol, he didn't even ejaculate inside you. I don't think you have anything to worry about at all. Just for your info, for sperm to travel all the way up to your cervix (the opening to your uterus where the eggs will eventually be waiting to be fertilized) is quite a tough job. Most of them will die before even reaching your uterus. Also, if not mistaken, sperm that comes in contact with air also doesn't work either. Hence, if he didn't ejaculate inside you and the condom didn't break somemore, high chance you are just stressing yourself out.

You should have learn about fertile period in Form 3 biology. Go back and refer to your book if you forgotten. Basically it's the time when ovulation occurs and eggs are produced. Eggs will only survive 24 hours whereas sperm survives for 72 hours. Ovulation usually occurs on the 14th day but every female is different as every menstrual cycle is different. So fertile period is usually from the 12-14th day of your menstrual cycle. Again, everyone is different and it's very hard to predict ovulation if you don't have a stable menstrual cycle.

You should do the pregnancy test about 3-5 days after your period is expected to be due, to get the most accurate result. If you're pregnant, it'll usually show positive results by then.

If the test comes out positive when you do it, then PM me.

Also, read up the net on menstrual cycle, fertile period, ovulation, sex and pregnancy. Fill yourself up with information. Sexual education in this country is horrible, so you have to do it yourself. If you wanna have sex, at least have the responsibility to know what will happen and how things work.

I want to thank you so much cause you gave me a really peace

I couldn't agree more....educate yourself more on how things works and what will happen and how it works for both gender. This way, it will keep you safe and also more assured of what you are doing.

Yup yup, that's the least we can do. Keep ourselves informed if we are going to have fun.
Just as the same as every other activities other than sex, we should know what the risks and consequences are and at least take the effort to understand how it works. It will make things a lot easier.

sorry madam, one thing i forgot to tell you, the day this happened to me was in the morning and from that night i had started my period for 7 days,does it any chance of pregnancy with this also ?

You mean you had sexual intercourse on the 7th day after your period started?

High chance pregnancy won't happen at all.

no I had sex right before period, I mean after sex in the morning on that day my period started right from that same day night, and lasted for 7 days and finished 2 days ago

This post has been edited by nurulll: Jun 14 2012, 08:56 PM