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TSSevenTwentyOne
post Feb 16 2011, 10:12 AM, updated 15y ago

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Fellows,

After watching The Social Network, a brilliant piece of movie directed by David Fincher (this is entirely a comment of my own), I was wondering whether with pure passion imbued with undying conviction on your own ideals, could you really or possibly succeed in life where all we know is money is the tool that moves the world around.

According to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs coined by Abraham Maslow himself, it is well understood that passion is located on the tip of the Pyramid of Needs which is known as Self Actualisation and before fulfilling that, one must first satisfy the other 4 elements below Self Actualisation, which are:

-) Esteem - understood by that school of thought as self confidence, personnel achievements, respect.

-) Love - As the tittle suggest, yes. The feeling of being loved and cared of.

-) Physiological - Those stuffs needed to survive, like air, food, place of shelter, education and security and of course Money

Hence, would you think that with only passion, yes, only passion, it is enough to bring wealth while in the same time achieving self actualisation, like how Zuck did, and to do it in country like Malaysia, with attention on being critical, pragmatic and realistic?

Debate's open for all and please ensure that only scholarly replies here, with proper citation and credits given. biggrin.gif

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QUOTE(SevenTwentyOne @ Feb 16 2011, 10:12 AM)
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SevenTwentyOne,

When you asked the WRONG question, you will NEVER get the RIGHT answer!!!

The CORRECT question should be

If you are NOT passionate about something, how could you DEVOTE 100% of your time and effort on IT?? Money can ONLY motivate a person so much...

Now, if you are REALLY passionate about something, why would you CARE whether you ACHIEVE anything out of it?? The JOURNEY is the REWARD.

It is OBVIOUS that you are NOT passionate about anything yet.

So, have you EVER do something just because you LOVE it?? And, you DO NOT CARE whether you get something out of it?? That is PASSION!!!

Dreamer

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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Feb 16 2011, 10:21 AM)
SevenTwentyOne,

When you asked the WRONG question, you will NEVER get the RIGHT answer!!!

The CORRECT question should be

If you are NOT passionate about something, how could you DEVOTE 100% of your time and effort on IT??  Money can ONLY motivate a person so much...

Now, if you are REALLY passionate about something, why would you CARE whether you ACHIEVE anything out of it??  The JOURNEY is the REWARD.

It is OBVIOUS that you are NOT passionate about anything yet.

So, have you EVER do something just because you LOVE it?? And, you DO NOT CARE whether you get something out of it??  That is PASSION!!!

Dreamer
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When you asked the WRONG question, you will NEVER get the RIGHT answer!!!

I believe my question is crystal clear; How to achieve wealth why maintaining your passion in doing things you want as practical as possible.

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If you are NOT passionate about something, how could you DEVOTE 100% of your time and effort on IT??  Money can ONLY motivate a person so much...

Yes, without passion, one wouldn't care to put his fullest of attention here. Well said.

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why would you CARE whether you ACHIEVE anything out of it??  The JOURNEY is the REWARD

This is not pragmatic enough, sir. Because if you having difficulties to put food on the table and fulfilling the basic of Maslow's, passion could be rather a superfluous dream only.

While for the rest, there is no Points of Informations as they are not relevant. However thanks a lot for your reply. Especially from a forummer of your calibre.

Regards,
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I haven't watch The Social Network.

Hmmm... It can be done.. Unfortunately, on our way to achieving self-actualization through material wealth, we often be easily sidetracked. It depends where your virtue are.

The virtue of self-actualization is 'truth', while the virtue of getting rich is 'win' where most of our d-needs are based upon (most of the time).

Truth is where you understand that there are things that transcends most dichotomies of life. From there you will gain the understanding of the 'wholeness' off things. It will also liberate yourself from many psychological constraint present in most of 'common' people.


Self-actualization also does not equates to wealth. Take for an example albert einstein (who according to the literature 'The farther reaches of human nature' is considered among those who are self-actualised), he is not that rich (in today's modern capitalistic sense). Passionate he is, but not extremely affluent, materially of financially.

But, of course, you have to get some level of wealth before you can gain self-actualization.

BTW, passion IS a need. It is a meta-need, which is higher than physical and social need.

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QUOTE(LuciferAmadeus @ Feb 16 2011, 12:52 PM)
I haven't watch The Social Network.

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Hmmm... It can be done.. Unfortunately, on our way to achieving self-actualization through material wealth, we often be easily sidetracked. It depends where your virtue are.


Virtue, as definied in m-w.com as morality, valor, merit, chastity. Therefore basically they are the vicissitude of one's adopted way of portraying oneself to the other.

Hardworking is a virtue, but people can work all day and long while ignoring other more higher virtues, like loyalty to a being, henceforth this may also present one to be a man of virtue but ultimately a wicked one inside.

As quoted by Aristotle: "A man is at best of what he acts to be"

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The virtue of self-actualization is 'truth', while the virtue of getting rich is 'win' where most of our d-needs are based upon (most of the time).


Well said. rclxms.gif

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Truth is where you understand that there are things that transcends most dichotomies of life. From there you will gain the understanding of the 'wholeness' off things. It will also liberate yourself from many psychological constraint present in most of 'common' people.
Self-actualization also does not equates to wealth. Take for an example albert einstein (who according to the literature 'The farther reaches of human nature' is considered among those who are self-actualised), he is not that rich (in today's modern capitalistic sense). Passionate he is, but not extremely affluent, materially of financially.

But, of course, you have to get some level of wealth before you can gain self-actualization.

BTW, passion IS a need. It is a meta-need, which is higher than physical and social need.


Therefore, to be a self actualized person, one must encompasses all virtues and eradicate vices within. Like a brahmin. Wiki: Brahmin.

However my question here, LuciferAmadeus, "a man has to do what a man has to do". Hence, with passion + virtues, how does it allows one to even fulfill the basic needs, where the rule of thumb to survive here constitute of "every man for himself", in order to achieve wealth, without uncompromisable acts, in order to work out something brlilliant like how zuck did?

My say would be...well, he's a born prodigy. However, being scientific that is a load of bollocks, but how you wanna prove it?
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How do you measure success? A pile of money in your bank account or making an impact on the world?

Was Mother Theressa successful?

In the software world, what about people like Linus Thorvalds, Larry Wall, or even Richard M Stallman. People who did not seek to maximize the money they get from what they make. They've certainly left their mark in the computer world. But they did seek to turn it into a big pile of cash like what Marc Andreesson got. Not to say that doing so is bad or evil in anyway. But does refraining from doing so mark you as unsuccessful?

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Good thread. Looking forward to see how the discussion would turn out.
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QUOTE(dkk @ Feb 16 2011, 08:22 PM)
How do you measure success? A pile of money in your bank account or making an impact on the world?

But does refraining from doing so mark you as unsuccessful?
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dkk,

Definitely no. As defined in Maslow's, self actualisation and self attainment are the same thing, hence inter alia. Thereupon, it seems that it is definitely in sync with school of thoughts like Buddhism Buddhism.

The very essence of Buddhism is for one to become self attained, hence enlightenment of one's action, liberation of one's thought and ultimately cessation of suffering.

To cease from suffering, it is imperative to identify why, at first, one suffers.

Some people have loads of cash, but do they sleep well at night?

Hope that it rings a bell. However, a good try indeed. icon_rolleyes.gif

Regards,
721

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Well, i don't really understand what exactly a virtue is in philosophical sense, but i hope to be enlightened by this discussion.

QUOTE(SevenTwentyOne @ Feb 16 2011, 06:30 PM)
Hardworking is a virtue, but people can work all day and long while ignoring other more higher virtues, like loyalty to a being, henceforth this may also present one to be a man of virtue but ultimately a wicked one inside.
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'Win' can be achieved through hardworking, and so does 'truth'. Hardworking thus is only a tool, not a virtue.


QUOTE(SevenTwentyOne @ Feb 16 2011, 06:30 PM)
Therefore, to be a self actualized person, one must encompasses all virtues and eradicate vices within. Like a brahmin. Wiki: Brahmin.

However my question here, LuciferAmadeus, "a man has to do what a man has to do". Hence, with passion + virtues, how does it allows one to even fulfill the basic needs, where the rule of thumb to survive here constitute of "every man for himself", in order to achieve wealth, without uncompromisable acts, in order to work out something brlilliant like how zuck did?

My say would be...well, he's a born prodigy. However, being scientific that is a load of bollocks, but how you wanna prove it?
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That's why in self-actualization, one of the virtues is self-sufficiency. It is a must that you can take care of yourself. But, that does not mean that you have to be ridiculously wealthy to take care of yourself for 8 lifetimes. Enough that you gain to cater your needs in whatever realistic time frame foreseeable, and let the far future be determined not far before it.

If zuck uses his virtues to achieve wealth, then he has undermine the virtues and cares more about wealth. That is not a characteristics of a self-actualizer. The obsession with wealth is a neurotic tendency, because it may have developed from deprivation of lower needs from the lack of wealth in his life-history or it may have developed from inculcated culture. Self-actualizers should not have strong neurotic tendencies.

If that 'brilliant work' is born out of the obsession of wealth, then it is a neuroticism. If he gets wealth from the 'brilliant work' conceived out of the virtues (in this case 'passion' and 'perfection'), he got the fringe benefit of being a self-actualizer.

P/S: Passion is also one of self-actualizers' virtues.
P/SS: I'm discussing virtues in Maslowian's sense.

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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Feb 16 2011, 08:59 PM)
Good thread. Looking forward to see how the discussion would turn out.
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Added on February 17, 2011, 7:30 pm
QUOTE(LuciferAmadeus @ Feb 17 2011, 08:51 AM)
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'Win' can be achieved through hardworking, and so does 'truth'. Hardworking thus is only a tool, not a virtue.


Rightfully defined. However since hardworking-ness is only a tool, and as if all tools, it will be useful only when human, with proper thoughts and reasoning, hence intelligence make full use of it.

Still, tools are discovered by humans, either by works of experiences, observation of naturally occurring phenomena, like creating a light bulb when you see the faces of the Moon enlightening the face of the Earth at night.

It is the passion that are imbued within each human that allows him to make the fullest use of given intelligence to faithfully craft out a tool to be made useful, hence hardworking is a, and only a tool.

Still, what would be the higher virtues required for making a useful tool ?

Would it be:
-) Instinctive
-) Passion
-) Sharing

Personally, I think is the fusion of all. smile.gif


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That's why in self-actualization, one of the virtues is self-sufficiency. It is a must that you can take care of yourself. But, that does not mean that you have to be ridiculously wealthy to take care of yourself for 8 lifetimes. Enough that you gain to cater your needs in whatever realistic time frame foreseeable, and let the far future be determined not far before it.

If zuck uses his virtues to achieve wealth, then he has undermine the virtues and cares more about wealth. That is not a characteristics of a self-actualizer. The obsession with wealth is a neurotic tendency, because it may have developed from deprivation of lower needs from the lack of wealth in his life-history or it may have developed from inculcated culture. Self-actualizers should not have strong neurotic tendencies.

If that 'brilliant work' is born out of the obsession of wealth, then it is a neuroticism. If he gets wealth from the 'brilliant work' conceived out of the virtues (in this case 'passion' and 'perfection'), he got the fringe benefit of being a self-actualizer. 

P/S: Passion is also one of self-actualizers' virtues.
P/SS: I'm discussing virtues in Maslowian's sense.
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Wealth of monetary is wordly gratification, yes. Wealth of knowledge is a virtue. How about that? wink.gif

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QUOTE(SevenTwentyOne @ Feb 16 2011, 10:27 AM)
Dreamer,

I believe my question is crystal clear; How to achieve wealth why maintaining your passion in doing things you want as practical as possible.
Yes, without passion, one wouldn't care to put his fullest of attention here. Well said.
This is not pragmatic enough, sir. Because if you having difficulties to put food on the table and fulfilling the basic of Maslow's, passion could be rather a superfluous dream only.

While for the rest, there is no Points of Informations as they are not relevant. However thanks a lot for your reply. Especially from a forummer of your calibre.

Regards,
721
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SevenTwentyOne,

<<How to achieve wealth >>

Your question is NOT on how to put food on table. It is ON how to achieve wealth.

And, I had answered the QUESTION. Without PASSION, you cannot PUT in the EFFORT needed to achieve wealth and success.

Dreamer


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QUOTE(dkk @ Feb 16 2011, 08:22 PM)
How do you measure success? A pile of money in your bank account or making an impact on the world?

Was Mother Theressa successful?

In the software world, what about people like Linus Thorvalds, Larry Wall, or even Richard M Stallman. People who did not seek to maximize the money they get from what they make. They've certainly left their mark in the computer world. But they did seek to turn it into a big pile of cash like what Marc Andreesson got. Not to say that doing so is bad or evil in anyway. But does refraining from doing so mark you as unsuccessful?
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dkk,

It is VERY SIMPLE. If you are living in lifestyle that you are happy with and doing the things that you like, you are SUCCESSFUL.

YOU determine whether you are successful. YOU compare what you are and have versus what your goal is. If you are HAPPY and CONTENT, you are SUCCESSFUL.

Nobody else know whether you are successful except by detecting whether you are HAPPY.

Dreamer

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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Feb 17 2011, 11:14 PM)
dkk,

It is VERY SIMPLE.  If you are living in lifestyle that you are happy with and doing the things that you like, you are SUCCESSFUL.

YOU determine whether you are successful.  YOU compare what you are and have versus what your goal is.  If you are HAPPY and CONTENT, you are SUCCESSFUL.

Nobody else know whether you are successful except by detecting whether you are HAPPY.

Dreamer
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Actually, as long as you achieve what you want to achieve then you are succesful.
A successful person would then be simply categorized as one who constantly achieve their goals.
It has nothing to do with how you feel.


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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Feb 17 2011, 11:14 PM)
SevenTwentyOne,

<<How to achieve wealth >>

Your question is NOT on how to put food on table. It is ON how to achieve wealth.

And, I had answered the QUESTION.  Without PASSION, you cannot PUT in the EFFORT needed to achieve  wealth and success.


Dreamer,

According to your saying, would it all come under this precedent: Passion-->>Effort-->>Hardworking-->>Money-->>Wealth ?
If it is so, then you are indeed indicating the 5 levels contained in the Hierarchy Of Needs.

According to m-w.com, passion, other than the often capitalized usage in the biblical studies, are:
intense, driving, or overmastering feeling or conviction

Hence, if one needs to make things right first, conviction is needed, hence passion.
Good one indeed.

However still, this is still NOT enough to make a person to achieve something groundbreaking I believed, and I also thinks that my believe is nothing since it is not from a scholar, but still there is a missing piece of virtue that is ultimately needed to ensure not a conviction, but a FULL and UNDIVIDED one. Ideas are needed here, dreamer.

Regards, 721.

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QUOTE(SevenTwentyOne @ Feb 18 2011, 02:20 AM)
Dreamer,

According to your saying, would it all come under this precedent: Passion-->>Effort-->>Hardworking-->>Money-->>Wealth ?
If it is so, then you are indeed indicating the 5 levels contained in the Hierarchy Of Needs

According to m-w.com, passion, other than the often capitalized usage in the biblical studies, are:
intense, driving, or overmastering feeling or conviction

Hence, if one needs to make things right first, conviction is needed, hence passion.
Good one indeed.

However still, this is still NOT enough to make a person to achieve something groundbreaking I believed, and I also thinks that my believe is nothing since it is not from a scholar, but still there is a missing piece of virtue that is ultimately needed to ensure not a conviction, but a FULL and UNDIVIDED one. Ideas are needed here, dreamer.

Regards, 721.
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SevenTwentyOne,

Whether that is ENOUGH or NOT, that is a SEPARATE question. But, without PASSION, you will NEVER START and SUSTAIN your effort. Hence, you will not have a SHOT to achieve anything significant to begin with.

Do you UNDERSTAND something SIMPLE??

You could ONLY put in YOUR EFFORT and give your BEST SHOT. There is NEVER a guarantee that you will be successful. You could NEVER control all the external variables that determine the FINAL OUTCOME. But, if you do not give your BEST SHOT, your chance of succeeding is even lower.

Focus and execution. The rest is up to God / Karma.

Dreamer

P.S.: My statement is from the FIRST HAND OBSERVATION of my life and many of my friends and family members.

P.S.2: How old are you?? What have you done in your life?? There are things that I could tell you but until you experienced it yourself, you will not understand what I am talking about.


Added on February 18, 2011, 6:47 am
QUOTE(teongpeng @ Feb 17 2011, 11:29 PM)
Actually, as long as you achieve what you want to achieve then you are succesful.
A successful person would then be simply categorized as one who constantly achieve their goals.
It has nothing to do with how you feel.
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teongpeng,

The SECRET of Happiness is contentment.

Contentment = achieving goal.

They go together...

Dreamer

This post has been edited by dreamer101: Feb 18 2011, 08:06 AM
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QUOTE(SevenTwentyOne @ Feb 17 2011, 06:47 PM)
Rightfully defined. However since hardworking-ness is only a tool, and as if all tools, it will be useful only when human, with proper thoughts and reasoning, hence intelligence make full use of it.

Still, tools are discovered by humans, either by works of experiences, observation of naturally occurring phenomena, like creating a light bulb when you see the faces of the Moon enlightening the face of the Earth at night.

It is the passion that are imbued within each human that allows him to make the fullest use of given intelligence to faithfully craft out a tool to be made useful, hence hardworking is a, and only a tool.

Still, what would be the higher virtues required for making a useful tool ?

Would it be:
-) Instinctive
-) Passion
-) Sharing

Personally, I think is the fusion of all.  smile.gif
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LoL... this is getting philosophical, and in no way I am good at it. Let's see...

Virtues, in my opinion, are the values that allow people to fully live their respective life harmoniously together, with the observable reality as the intermediary. (

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Hence, the virtues are:
1. Truth - that is the objective truth which does not contradict reality
2. Wholeness - that is choice that transcends dichotomies
3. Perfection - that is un-fractured and consistent nature of reality. (Edit: my explanation here doesn't make sense.. perfection is a virtue because mediocrity and flaw means we are not fully living our life)
4. Self-sufficiency - that is independence from the reliance to each other
5. Passion - that is the sense of purpose in living our life
6. Simplicity - that is allowing us to understand each other effortlessly

I think there are many more, but i have trouble finding/explaining it.


QUOTE(SevenTwentyOne @ Feb 17 2011, 06:47 PM)
Wealth of monetary is wordly gratification, yes. Wealth of knowledge is a virtue. How about that?  wink.gif
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Well, based on my definition of virtue, a virtue is a worldly gratification (if by worldly you mean earthly). There's nothing mystic about it. smile.gif
The difference is that excessive material wealth often is at the expense of another person (hence not a virtue) while wealth of knowledge can be achieved by everyone harmoniously (not at the expense of another).

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Hmm, wise words from dreamer 101.

Took me a little long to realise that the acquisition of wealth alone does not make you a happy and successful person.

There are too many people living their life not knowing or not pursuing their passion.
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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Feb 18 2011, 06:38 AM)
teongpeng,

The SECRET of Happiness is contentment.

Contentment = achieving goal.

They go together...

Dreamer
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First of all i wasnt talking about happiness. i was talking about the definination of success.

Second of all, contentment IS NOT about achieving goals. Contentment is about having no more goals to achieve.


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QUOTE(tiggert @ Feb 18 2011, 07:53 AM)
Hmm, wise words from dreamer 101.

Took me a little long to realise that the acquisition of wealth alone does not make you a happy and successful person.

There are too many people living their life not knowing or not pursuing their passion.
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Thus the purpose of this thread. We know that wealth does not lead to happiness. But the question is, can happiness/passion lead to wealth?

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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Feb 18 2011, 09:33 AM)
First of all i wasnt talking about happiness. i was talking about the definination of success.

Second of all, contentment IS NOT about achieving goals. Contentment is about having no more goals to achieve.


Added on February 18, 2011, 9:35 amThus the purpose of this thread. We know that wealth does not lead to happiness. But the question is, can happiness lead to wealth?
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teongpeng,

I am content NOW. It does not mean that I have no more goal to achieve in the FUTURE. But, I had achieved what I wanted to achieve NOW.

Past is gone. Future is uncertain. What you have is NOW. Live at the MOMENT.

Dreamer


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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Feb 18 2011, 06:38 AM)
You could ONLY put in YOUR EFFORT and give your BEST SHOT.  There is NEVER a guarantee that you will be successful.
This is correct. However as a practitioner of zen, you should also understand that success or achievement arent only revolved around getting a result. Look deeper, the very act of doing, the very act of putting in your best effort, is already a success because the journey is now the the goal. When your goal is just to do your best, and you did your best, you are already succesful in that goal. GUARANTEED.


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QUOTE(dreamer101 @ Feb 18 2011, 09:41 AM)
teongpeng,

I am content NOW.  It does not mean that I have no more goal to achieve in the FUTURE.  But, I had achieved what I wanted to achieve NOW.

Past is gone.  Future is uncertain.  What you have is NOW. Live at the MOMENT.

Dreamer
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You may be content now, but if you have future goals to achieve then you are no longer content. Can you understand this?

You can only be content if your goal is to act, thus when you are in action in the NOW, you are living your goal moment to moment.

If you can only be content based on what you have achieved in the past, then you are living in the past. Thats not zen.

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