i agree with greenlemontea...if you dun like her and get married, end up will divorce then u hurt her one more time. get to know her first then only decide but baby must definitely take responsible.

p.s. u think u r handsome?

Well then good luck in looking for a Hot looking model as your wife. I hope you will find a very pretty face and live your life happily ever after. But trust me, god will not give ppl like you a kind-hearted woman to be the mother of your child

why waste time talking to TS.. he will not take in any advice already as his mind is already set. he already knows what is his next step he wanna take.. he just needed ppl to support his view thats why he posted on LYN...

I am doubtful about the ever after thing. Age tends to take away beauty.

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Added on December 16, 2010, 10:41 amAgree.
He just wanted sympathy. He wants people to say something like "dump that ugly b i t c h"

This post has been edited by faceless: Dec 16 2010, 10:41 AM

Dont drink and screwdriving... Alchohol make u cant compare between gorilla and lenglui

That's what botox is for.

In all seriousness, keep the TS bashing to yourself. He already established the fact that he's an immature manchild whom ran to the forums to whine about his ugly babymama with big boobs.

I'm more interested in helping him help the mother and the child.

You can only help mum and child provided TS is listening to you.

I will take heed to this advise, "In all seriousness, keep the TS bashing to yourself."

do DNA test first la..confirm that is your baby..then decide to marry her or not..

All that bashing will make him listen less, dont you think so?

be a father man..
bad breath? use colgate..
unacctractive? then u can still sleep with her... thats mean shes ok


Alcohol = make lot problem
drink more learn more (MILO)

*be a responsible man..

This post has been edited by mav_850: Dec 16 2010, 11:22 AM

Now i really wonder when u gonna die in a accident? Seriously like u this kind of b@stard should go die for other girls sake.

I hate these people treat sex as a game like woooo~ so shiok~.

Regret have sex with her? oh c'mon after sex already then said regret?

Huge mistake? if u got think about "sex with a girl that u don't love its would be meaningless" then u wont suffer in this kind of stupid problem.

Lemme offer u a solution.

Go and Die for other girls sake.



"normally i've very good taste in women"

Oh really? so u said 1st time u was drunk and made a mistake has sex with her. Can u explain about 2nd 3rd times?

"standard dropped drastically on this one"?

Nope ur standard never drop. just u always have sex for fun.and who cares? as long as got a free sex for fun.

"I'm normally not very choosy"

That means u will go have sex with any girl if they wanted to? good luck to u bro i'm 100% sure will got plenty problems like this case will come to u.

"I guess i've already come to a final decision : GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION"

Now i come to a final wonder : "Would that child will take revenge on u?"

"I would like to give up the child for adoption to couples who have a solid financial background"

Wow..Why have to be "solid financial background"? plan to ask for $ when ur kid get rich?

1word to describe you - B@STARD.

This post has been edited by Dizzy_Destiny: Dec 18 2010, 07:37 PM

mod accidentally moved this from kopitiam? the TS dont sound worried oso

be careful brother maybe she want to cheat you...Just my opinion

If he never anyhow have sex with girls then he wont have any of problems like this.

Even she wanted to cheat him but still who ask him did has sex with her in the 1st place?

Just my two cent thought.

This post has been edited by Dizzy_Destiny: Dec 18 2010, 07:41 PM

Be responsible, but not by marriage. Discuss with her, and even if abortion is necessary, just be by her side when it happen.

A child is going to be a long term liability in financial term as well as taking care of them. If neither of you are prepared, better call it off than eye sore seeing you guys push him/her around like a ball. Seen it with a relative and sucks...

Tho he's most proly a troll but then again he has a point, everyone pointing finger at him but the girl oso stupid and just as much a fault. If you force him to marry her, you think the baby gonna and wife gonna live happy? Baby really stressed a relationship especially when finance is an issue.

If you ask me, I duno how to solve this oso, he edi said he has no love for the girl, so forcing oso no point, would make the situation much worse.

Let this be a lesson to girls out there, be smart and protect yourself, dun just let any tom, d*** and harry bed you, the consequences is damaging.

I bet you'll be forever haunted with this for the rest of your life if you're deciding to terminate your infant's life or to give it up for adoption. one day, when you're an old man, you'll probably be constantly reminded of him/her. For now, you yet to feel the guilt. Who knows maybe you'll feel guilty afterwards or when by the time you're old. Maybe, one day, he/she will be looking for his/her biological parents.

For your infant's sake, I would consider the adoption as the best option though. It's better to let a pair of parents who can't conceive who would shower your child with love and care, rather than having a father who wouldn't want him/her in the first place, just mainly because his/her physically unattractive mother.

Hmm its sure will be a lesson for the girls. but still..this lesson cost a litter bit expensive lol


If she were cheating hope for a cheap father then she deserves for the lesson

What about this retarded b@stard TS?

Well i hate these people treat sex as a game.

This post has been edited by Dizzy_Destiny: Dec 19 2010, 11:37 AM

this is a +1. Even in RWI these days there are so many kopitiam like posts annoys the crap out of me.

TS, 6weeks! i'm guessing it's 8weeks now. Abortion is illegal in M'sia and period for abortion is 12 weeks or less.

You'll probably have to discuss with her the options and the consequences, i can name some.

If she decides to have the child
- Are you going to marry her? If you marry her, how long do you think that marriage will last?
- If you aren't going to marry her what are the implications she will face as a single mother. Even if she gives up the child for abortion she'll face persecution for having a baby out of wedlock.
- Abortion, at this stage would also carry the risk of her damaging her womb and miscarrying in the future other than the fact that it's illegal.

I think we guys have it easier in that sense where we don't have to bear the brunt of our mistakes when it comes to situation such as these, so if i were in your shoes and made the mistake i'll try to share some of that responsibility.

Here's my bit if you really don't like the girl and see no way of making this work. I'd do this, tell your parents, talk to her parents, pray they don't scream their lungs out or find some way to make them sit down quietly while you explain the situation. Then say that since things are not working out, marriage is not a solution either, so if you're keeping the baby pretend to be her fiance the entire time during the pregnancy so she can save face, you can break up after she has the baby(You'll get slated as a bast@rd but at least that's taking responsibility). Consider having the baby up for adoption unless either set of parents want to keep it. I'd suggest the guy's side, less persecution from relatives, etc. I'd give you plus points for at least trying to find a solution rather than running away immediately.

To the rest of you, it's easy to gloat when you're not the one facing the problem how about a little karma sometime eh.

This post has been edited by Tak3shi: Dec 19 2010, 01:53 PM

Abortion is illegal in Malaysia unless stated otherwise.

No one should bring abortion up.