ok so u shared how u feel. but do u know how she feels? she is the one needing someone to actually go thru this with her and u are actually here, posting in a forum on what to do and insulting her outlook. this is not really something with a choice. you are the father, so be responsible. you might be miserable but she is the one suffering.

You've had sex with her three times. How about other men?

How do you confirm she did not sleep around and the possibility of finding you as a scapegoat?

Good luck.

It's not about pro-lifers vs pro-choicers. In this case, if TS and the girl choose to terminate the baby, abortion there is basically a form of birth control.

It's easy to say, I don't want this baby, therefore I choose to terminate this thing in my tummy. Fact is, there are other options out there. Giving up the baby for adoption is an option.

what an easy excuse from u... and what a jerk it made u...

go marry her..no excuse please..
u the one who make her suffer..
if u make abortion,she's the one who feel the pain..not u
plz be responsible..
dont give excuse of her appearence..
its just show the truth of who u are..
nowdays, many women are suffered from irresponsible man. bcoz of tht, u can always heard this slogan..
Lelaki Semuanya Sama..Dah Sedap Lepas tu Bubye...huhuhuh

You are not a nice person.

In the six lonely months in JB you can have her then blame it on the wine. Once is a mistake. Twice can be forgiven. Three times is intentional. You are just abusing the situation/relationship.

When you need it, you did not complain about her looks. When trouble comes, you speak the lingo of a sour grape. Anyway, what did you really do? Cover the face and hit the base. If that was the case you are not only desparate for a freebie but stupid enough not to take safety precaution.

If you had any conscience, it is very clear what needs to be done. You dont even need this thread. You are stupid enough to think that people will symphatise with you if you bad mouth her looks and character. Hello, wake up please. As member of the human race nobody will offer you sympathy. I just dont understand the reason for a staff and a mod to tolerate this thread.

Twenty years from now a stranger will come up to you and say you are the father. Think about that. Given your stupidity, perhaps there is mone than one stranger that will come up to you in future.

This post has been edited by faceless: Dec 10 2010, 10:06 AM

I with this line of thinking also, so many mistake being done and now expect the kid to pay for the mistake?
It is not easy raising children with love these days, what more if there is no love?

Suggest TS & girl seek professional advice!

oh 3 times and you think she is unattractive..

it was the worst excuse, please accept the consequence like a man..
you are not 18 or 19 idiot.. u r 30!!! damn it

That is an improper way to treat women saying :



I think ure not so interested with her but more interested in having sex with her , use CONDOM if so . Do not treat a woman like a toy to be played with . Now that she is in-pregnant with your child , u should b responsible to what u've did .

safe sex, TS?
lucky you just got a kid. Imagine if you get aids instead.

girl-dun marry her
child-born the baby
the baby-let other ppl adopt if u cannot take care of him/her
if mami wan raise the baby-at least send some money to her monthly la.

settle?

Unprotected sex , i wonder if he already gets it

oi,u say drunk.then f*c* 3 times.then be with her for 6 weeks.n u so dam stupid to knw she is pysicaly unattractive after all this hapen.if u saw about character maybe it takes 6 weeks.but y did u try on for a girl u find unattractive?
jz to use her temperorarily?
y nvr go chow kit.so much better 4 u wt.nw be responsible,have B*lls n go tok to her n settle this.hope u end up marry her.n she oso so stupid to trust a as**ol* like u.

Discuss with her regarding this pregnancy. We need to know what she thinks also. Obviously you don't want to live with her. What she thinks. Does she want this baby? Will she throw away the baby in river or dustbin?

If she don't want the pregnancy just go for abortion?
If she want to carry on with this pregnancy, talk to her regarding how to take care of the baby? With who the baby stay? You must share the burden in taking care of this baby as you are the father. you no need to marry but you can give her monthly allowance for taking care of the baby and visit your child every week and be a good father.

By the way, Can your ex-GF sue you for making her pregnant and refusing responsibility? just wondering.

nice one, you were drunk for 3 times when you screw her?
be a man dude

Isn't this called rape. When she is drunk you took opportunity. You are a criminal.

Wow.... what a nice topic here BUT i think this is wasting bandwidth lor.

ADMIN pls lock this thread la... the person who start this topic here is already gone to hiding i guess.

To all others forumer who read/reply here... enough is enough la... i guess he also create a drama here only.

Cheers

So very well said!!

Option One: Bite the bullet and man the fack up and take the responsibility.
Option Two: Walk away as thou as it is a day-in-day-out basis.

Yours truly can choose either one.

Regards, Joey

You know what they say... when you r drunk, everyone becomes pretty...

pity the girl... victimised... ts need to give support money for the child