Seems like most of you will say own up and take responsiblity for it. Before owning up and becoming responsible for it, it's probably fair for the TS to confront the girl and:-

1) Inform of his stand
i.e (want/don't want) the baby, (want/don't want) marry the girl

2) Ask the girl what is her stand
i.e (want/don't want) the baby

3) If the answer is to not want the baby, then it comes to a moral decision. Abortion or adoption? If the girl wants the baby, and TS don't want, TS should conduct DNA test. For all you know it's not even his...

4) TS would need to decide whether he wants to give child support if the kid is his.

Regardless, I wouldn't comment or judge on who's right and who's wrong. It's their life and it's a mutual decision for them to fornicate. Both are equally at fault for the result.

does your parents know bout this? what's their opinion on this? how about her parents?

why not you try to confirm whether the baby is yours? You are a jerk for not returning her calls. the girl may be suffering from mental stress right now due to the sudden pregnancy and no reply from you.

Also, what makes you think you can have an "E" cup, fresh breathe, pretty jaw, feminine etc girls? Who are you? do you look as good as your avatar pic shows? you are highly educated? you are sophistcated? you are fit with 6 - pack? you have the best breathe in the world? your face is to-die-for? you are holding a high position in a company? you earn a lot? in conclusion, are you the last fantastic man on earth? if not then why you condemn other ppl? I realy hate guys that judge girls by their outlook. Must be thin (but with E or F cup breast), pretty, talk softly, walk like model, etc, etc.

You said she's unattractive and don't have love, yet you had sex 3 times with her

Are you sure it is just a lust, or trying to make it work?

I guess your only solution is get married. Or you need to talk with her about this.

Pandai buat pandai la take care...

To be sure do a DNA Test that might help!

my advise, jus ignored dat lady...... this is typical hit n run cases.....

marry her, you are responsible man isn't. sometime responsibility must be put in priority.

why this not locked yet?
it's useless without TS replying

I guess the mod are sympathetic to TS cause.

If TS had not bad mouth the lady I am sure he will get some sympathy.

said that already sleep with her 3 times n 1st time when is when u drunk?2nd n 3rd time??hahahaha happy fathers day!be a man dewd!

orang mau jadi ayah pun susah!
u ada chance boleh jadi ayah, tapi nak lari lah, nak gugur lah...jaga jaga petir masa hujan wueh! kena lightning strike, sia sia jer!

LOL ya man cannot 'kang' but can get it up, now duwan.
but seriously....if really duwan, better dun, coz if force later also divorce.
Just tell her u pay for the upbringing of your child la...after checking if its yours. U need to b responsible sumhow.

At least give TS a chabce to reply first before closing. He hasnt log in in 7 days.

Not everyone logs in to LYN everyday like you guys.

WOW!
seems like i am not the only one having a bad day. someone out there is having an even nightmare day!

anyway, if i am you, seems this girl is too easy! get drunk and have sex. what a biatch!

dont get trapped. Get DNA test...CONFIRM everything. U said u had sex with her 3 days....is this consecutively or she sleep with other people?


DNA TEST and CONFIRM FIRST! Now adays girls are very dangerous and mischievous. Dont bear the burden of something you may not be contributing

FYI, i'm as good looking as my avatar . thanks for asking. normally i've very good taste in women, but somehow my standard dropped drastically on this one. I definitely can't marry this one! I can't live with her. Impossible!

I'm normally not very choosy but i have a fetish: I LOVE BIG BOOBS This criteria is not an option!

I guess i've already come to a final decision : GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION

May i request for advice on how to go about this process? Will the adopting parents identities remain anonymous? How does it work? Does the govt have such programs? I would like to give up the child for adoption to couples who have a solid financial background but r unable to have kids of their own due to obvious reasons.

Thanks so far to all who have replied. I appreciate all yer responses.

at least here is some one wants an adoption... huhuhuh

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1633069

If you choose not to marry the mother, then the decision is not yours to make. It's up to her whatever she wants to do with her baby since the child is not legally yours.

Well , juz another "oh tats me !!!" whore , juz b yourself and stop with the fussing urself lookin like someone else , no personality , it makes ppl laugh at u

Even , ur gonna b responsible to wad uve did , by not doing it urself , GOD will help u

Peace ~

I agree. The decision to put the baby up for adoption is the mother's since you don't want to marry her.

Have you even discussed with her what SHE wants to do instead of trying to weasel your a$$ out of your own mess???

I suggest you leave her go working in oversea..

I guess there is no end to you vanity. Have you not realised that the more you try to justify yourself the more you show your inconsistency.