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Romance after birth
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merchant9
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Oct 26 2010, 10:51 AM
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After birth, many women will have depression and this is when hubby are needed to give extra care and attention to their wives who have carried the baby for 9 months and went through the pain of delivery.
I believe romance after baby is born is possible. No matter how little it is, as long as it is a small gesture from the hubby, the wife will be pleased and happy.
Women are not THAT demanding when in love with the right man.
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daphne1985
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Oct 26 2010, 11:15 AM
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QUOTE(merchant9 @ Oct 26 2010, 10:51 AM) After birth, many women will have depression and this is when hubby are needed to give extra care and attention to their wives who have carried the baby for 9 months and went through the pain of delivery. I believe romance after baby is born is possible. No matter how little it is, as long as it is a small gesture from the hubby, the wife will be pleased and happy. Women are not THAT demanding when in love with the right man. agree
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Syd G
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Oct 26 2010, 12:11 PM
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Mom. Servant of God.
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I guess I'm one of those weird wives who dont mind the husband working 3 jobs to support the family and spending slightly lesser time manja-manja with her and the kids?
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merchant9
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Oct 27 2010, 11:17 AM
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QUOTE(Syd G @ Oct 26 2010, 12:11 PM) I guess I'm one of those weird wives who dont mind the husband working 3 jobs to support the family and spending slightly lesser time manja-manja with her and the kids?  You are a strong woman!
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rourou
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Oct 27 2010, 04:00 PM
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honestly after a full day at work and then tend to baby when we get home we really don't get much of "us" time anymore if got extra time just wanna go to bed and zzzzz
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TSAwakened_Angel
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Oct 27 2010, 04:57 PM
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QUOTE(Syd G @ Oct 26 2010, 01:11 PM) I guess I'm one of those weird wives who dont mind the husband working 3 jobs to support the family and spending slightly lesser time manja-manja with her and the kids?  Guess you are the one who spent more time with LYN forumers than hubby
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Syd G
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Oct 27 2010, 05:02 PM
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Mom. Servant of God.
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QUOTE(Awakened_Angel @ Oct 27 2010, 04:57 PM) Guess you are the one who spent more time with LYN forumers than hubby Yeap. Only see him on weekends
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scoop7
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Oct 30 2010, 01:32 AM
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we are try to do it. fix one night per week to go dating - syiok
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TSAwakened_Angel
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Oct 30 2010, 09:57 AM
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QUOTE(Syd G @ Oct 27 2010, 06:02 PM) Yeap. Only see him on weekends  There`s two consequence for this..... 1) super miss each other 2) deteriotating affection
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Syd G
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Oct 30 2010, 09:58 AM
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Mom. Servant of God.
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QUOTE(Awakened_Angel @ Oct 30 2010, 09:57 AM) There`s two consequence for this..... 1) super miss each other 2) deteriotating affection Guess which one? 
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TSAwakened_Angel
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Oct 30 2010, 10:26 AM
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Sometimes, I face 2.... 2) is when she expect more affection from me and I failed to give as much as she expected then merajuk.... =_=
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Syd G
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Oct 30 2010, 10:35 AM
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Mom. Servant of God.
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QUOTE(Awakened_Angel @ Oct 30 2010, 10:26 AM) Sometimes, I face 2.... 2) is when she expect more affection from me and I failed to give as much as she expected then merajuk.... =_= I guess every relationship's different  . I personally value emotional support (trust, honesty, loyalty etc) more than physical support (hugs, time, sweet talks). As long as u guys can fulfill each other's needs, good enough
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Jutawan
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Nov 1 2010, 07:12 PM
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QUOTE(lazyserv @ Oct 9 2010, 10:21 AM) agree.. me n my wife didnt romance and sweet like last time, just only sweet once in awhile... since she is busy with my baby and i'm busy with my work.. when finish work go back also play with baby more then manja with wife  Go for 2nd time honeymoon lor... to boost up back the 'sayang' feeling...
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chloelingeelin
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Nov 9 2010, 11:11 AM
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after seeing the changes of my sister with the husband after the kid was born, i am literally terrified, they no longer manja and sweet talk, always argue over something and scold each other for not doing enough for the family, everyday only do thing for the kid only, scary.... I want to be forever lovey dovey with my husband, so still don't feel like having any kids eventhough age is catching up =P
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pigglet
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Nov 9 2010, 04:51 PM
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QUOTE(Awakened_Angel @ Oct 12 2010, 10:42 AM) none of the above...more of pc games..bt if u ask me i think this is consider okay..better than him go out fooling around..
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ryansia
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Nov 17 2010, 11:08 AM
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did anyone watch "i think i love my wife" by chris rock? i suggest you watch it if you don't.
i think it hits many parents including me and my wife.
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azliayob
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Nov 17 2010, 11:00 PM
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Me and my wife still sayang2 n manja2 even we now had 2 children. But, beware... we dont show in front of them our over manja or sayang2... not good for our children
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merchant9
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Nov 18 2010, 03:12 PM
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Yes, that's very good practice, for the kids to grow up in a loving family. Let's not scar their childhood.
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Quantum_thinking
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Dec 1 2010, 08:56 PM
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QUOTE(azliayob @ Nov 17 2010, 11:00 PM) Me and my wife still sayang2 n manja2 even we now had 2 children. But, beware... we dont show in front of them our over manja or sayang2... not good for our childrenIt is not good to show adult still have manja among themselves between children or it involves something not suitable for children's viewing?
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