Just asking, how many of the parents here still sayang, manja with their partner?

e.g. Darlin.. I love you.. muak..... daddy... I want to eat... i`m hungry

In this issue I follow religion. My religion says husband first, kids after that.

So a lot of hugs and .

After birth? Hmmm.. not many already did that ba, romance after birth. All busy with kids

my wife confess to me that she felt negleted. Apart from BB still with our new businesses.

well most ppl will be busy with their kid

agree.. me n my wife didnt romance and sweet like last time, just only sweet once in awhile... since she is busy with my baby and i'm busy with my work.. when finish work go back also play with baby more then manja with wife

after give birth, u will manja ur baby more than your partner, the baby become constant attention seeker, no way u can run away

I will equally distribute my love one....

partner will get my 101% sayang after baby sleep

This the standard procedure. Wives, as humans, can feel the lack of attention too.

well mine is totally diff his pc is way important than the both of us =/

DOTA? Porn? Forum? FB?

Geek maybe

Ouch. Tell him that. Some men are dense like that

at times i doubt it is the religion that plays a role. Not doubting you Syd.
It is more of the individual themselves. Some individual have different way of showing their love to each other.

haha. well pigglet, i dont think you are the only one having this problem.
Heard tonz from my other friends on this matter also. PC, PS3 and even the cars/bikes

@TS: well wat you could do is...once in a while, just give your wife a peck on her cheek or give her a hug and tell her tat u love her...
then continue with your work or things that you are doing. To them, those small actions or words is all they are asking for.
Well especially when ur a daddy now, your kid would mean the world to you and your new business would have taken up ur time also.
so try it and share wit us if that helps...

And talk to your wife about this and how you felt when she told u tat. at least she can share her thought as well. .

ps: i do tat with my partner and escape with lots of my mistakes.

even after given birth to our 2nd child, we still do the 'thing'. Intimating each other is very important.. to release stress

how old is ur kids?

It's ok. We can agree to disagree

1 MONTHS up to today

post birth syndrom??

hmm..congratulation to ur new born, dont worry about the complaint from ur wife, i guess is just post birth syndrom..maybe..I tend to think negative thing after my delivery in the first few months...after that, back to normal already..

you need to give more encouragement and support during these times..

b4 my wife complained i've spent much time more than her+daughter
(at that time setting my i7+OC..so stress+stability test takes some time)

then i limit my time with my PC...
i admit that my care more on daughter,so at nite i'll make sure my doter by my side...but wat so funny my wife also want beside me..
she rather sleep not by our doter side.....

sayang both of 'em...hmmm

yup agree we bz with our daily routine..but still need spare some time with 'em
me still manage 2 do tat..going out 4 dinner..mandi ulu yam..heheheh

This post has been edited by huzzLEE_82: Oct 26 2010, 10:52 AM