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Quantum_thinking
post Dec 1 2010, 08:56 PM

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QUOTE(azliayob @ Nov 17 2010, 11:00 PM)
Me and my wife still sayang2 n manja2 even we now had 2 children. wub.gif

But, beware... we dont show in front of them our over manja or sayang2... not good for our children
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It is not good to show adult still have manja among themselves between children or it involves something not suitable for children's viewing?
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post Dec 14 2010, 07:42 PM

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QUOTE(furryfluffy @ Dec 14 2010, 09:27 AM)
personally, i dun quite like woman manja all the time... some to the point of mengada-ngada... shakehead.gif

i mean sometimes my partner can be very irritating by acting cute doh.gif
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It really depends on the partner. if he/she is not good, then let her know.

For me, i will let her know what act that makes her real cute, but i will really hate if she act cute for the sake of wanting something on a frequent basis.


QUOTE(liez @ Dec 14 2010, 12:04 PM)
my family...we fought through out all these years....there will hardly be peace in my family.... thats why the whole family break into pieces.... elder sis in foreign country, dad divorced and go with another woman, younger sis went to my grandma, i stay upper part of my house and my mum stay lower part.....and i try to avoid contact with any of them.
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Sorry for hearing that.
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post Dec 30 2010, 05:14 PM

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QUOTE(qarezma @ Dec 30 2010, 02:52 PM)
Whats wrong with that?
Of course not manja like kids, but some show of affection should be there, and u will be showing the same to yr kid oso.
Whenever hubby and I start hugging and smooching each other, my 11mo baby will quickly start makig his way towards us and join us in the hugging
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i see. Moderate kind of romance is still ok.


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post Jan 17 2011, 03:56 PM

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QUOTE(ijnek @ Jan 17 2011, 02:13 PM)
tak3shi:
i understand how u feel...very very frustrating and after tat, when u finally think it's time for u, she jus brush u off with 'i'm tired'.....super sianz...
i was once in this situation...it helps if u r able to divert ur attention away to other things...
for me, i started going to the gym and sometimes on my trainin days, i jus wan to rest n sleep instead of 'scoring'
so tat sort of solves my problem...

birth control method...
personally...we practise the withdrawal method.
been doing so for a long time and nvr failed...LoL...
but the risk is there.
wife dun like condom cos it makes her feel uncomfortable and irrates her private part...
mayb it's the latex....
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Do you also tell your wife to monitor her cycle to ensure even if there is an "accident", she won't get pregnant?
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post Jan 17 2011, 06:38 PM

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QUOTE(ijnek @ Jan 17 2011, 04:30 PM)
doubt so monitor her cycle...
but saya 100% perfect record, no intention to break it at all 100%...LoL

u know...sex cannot jus please ownself, must please her too.
pain is not pleasure....
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QUOTE(phythia79 @ Jan 17 2011, 04:38 PM)
Hmm...don't say like that..sometimes..we mommies too can't help it...of coz we have to see to the kids' needs first...even have to neglect our own needs wink.gif
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post Jan 18 2011, 02:04 PM

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QUOTE(Syd G @ Jan 18 2011, 01:09 PM)
You know why? Because babies are a handful. For the husbands to sit on their couch / in front PC waiting for us to peel fruits, manja2 etc while we battle with a screaming infant is a bit unrealistic.
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If like this, the wife should ask the husband to join the "battle" as well. tongue.gif

 

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