Hi guys, noobie here at dating. I haven date girls since i broke up with my ex 6 months ago... here now, recently the launching of Pikom PC FAIR at KLCC, i met a girl there, she was really cute , nervously and finally gotten her number. Asked her out one time on a date. A simple movie dinner one. Well, at that time i really fall for her. One time i confess to her via sms (probably too fast) she said need to noe each other more. And so yeah, i did. BUT, theres one problem. Now everytime whenever i ask her out. she would invite her fren to join in. Thats very unnecessary unless she doesnt like me. Well, she didnt reject me or anything. Just playing pretending as a friend. But everytime we hang out its always the three of us, she is a college student, staying at hostel with her roommate, thats why shes very clse with her. Actually the fact is, i really really like her, i care for her, be her driver -.-, ATM machine. Everything. Shes not using me or anything. I dont really see that. Im just doing it coz i like her, well maybe im being used or so -.-" , its been 3 weeks now since we've known each other. I must say i really get to know her a lot. Shes smarter than me, her english is way more advanced than me. Thats also one reason i like her, she can text me english. I cant read chinese nor write. Poor Guy, thats why i couldnt date any girls. Haha. Anyways, she also recently broke up with her ex, and still contacting.. well, her ex wanted to get her back by redeeming himself of his pastways he treated her. As for me, i wanted to be perfect and better than his bf but im not sure thats possible or not. I have a job, and its very hard for us to meet, plus she always stays at the dorm, rarely going out. Its just that, till now she still havent conveyed her feelings for me. I nvr really ask her how she feels about me but i do tell her how i feel vice versa for her everyday. I can do almost anything for girl like her, i even woke up in the morning to get congee for her when she was not feeling well, and the road trip was like 15km one way trip distance. Theres a lot of guys chasing her as well, and i guess she has feelings for another guy. I just wanted to know , am i wasting my efforts on her? Should i just give up? i spend more than 1k on the first week with her.. imagine including the 2 more weeks. What should i do? Pls correct me if im wrong , sorry for my bad english.

She didnt ask for it, i myself intentionally spend her. -.-

But i really feel she doesnt have any feelings for me, theres one time on her message, she wrote "i only like you as a fren" but i replied what about in the future. then she wud say " Dunno" . haizzz.. i think i need to take time..

Yeah, thats actually bleeding for my wallet. i said , it might be a guess. thats what i saw, and her fren told me la.. i might still have chance rite? but will i irritate her if i keep on texting her everyday? coz her finals are up and she needs to concentrate on her studies...

but if you dont, whats the point in getting ur girl?
If u keep on texting her or so, in the end she will found out that u are actually chasing her...
Give up? No other way?

But isnt that what guys do whenever u ask a girl out?
Dont you feel ashame if she has to pay for you -.-"

Not ego, but u kindly ask her out and consider her to pay meh? -.-
Imagine what her colleagues would think of me? a cheapskate? -.-

easy. just shop at vinnci, MNG, top men, cotton on , G2000 , Noir , Padini, Seed , Voir , and Zara.
One apparel item at one shop also enough ady.. -.-"

Then if dun like me... then how? -.-

we both are the same age.. 19...

Dinner at Jogoya, Dome, Chillis but jogoya was the best... she was awesomely cute back then.... Platinum seats... no diamond yet

Haha, but still enough lorr!! Actually shes quite poor de... her monthly allowance only rm200.. and have to work part time to get pocket money.. so i actually pity and then... u noe.. spend her lor.. hahaha but now wan pokai ady... so nvr ask her out quite some time.. hahaha...

Thats not true, she said she would pay me back if she got the money... thats okay wut.. but i consider it as a gift la...

My savings, i dont really go out mch, i told u i dont really date girls that mch.. so i might have some extra income in my account lar... haha.... and just got my paycheck that time..

This post has been edited by AccelTech: Aug 30 2010, 02:19 AM

Told you ady... not wasting ma.. she didnt ask for it... i just wanted to spend her oly ma.. but now reducing la since im almost dried out.. ugh.. need to eat maggi cup for this month... luckily her finals are up and needs time studying so no time asking her out...

walao, thats a tough answer.. so the next time i ask her out... i call her to pay for herself?

ahaha.. sorry..i dont have much experience on dating girls.. i tot money was the solution..


Told you, she needed pocket money , she got work in some of those shops b4, she told me she work like for 6 shops b4 at pavillion!! Impressed for her..

Just seeing whether shud i call it off or not la..
She really is not that bad lar in person...
But she really like branded stuffs.. thats really a big flaw there... haha.. -.-"

what do u mean by dutch? sorry dont seem to understand here.. travelling?

Yes, thats true.. too SMART..

Do you have a facebook account? hahahaha

I mean shes hardworking la.. she work to pay for her own stuff.. like clothes, bags, shoes.. i saw her wanted to buy them but canot afford so i just became mr.nice guy -.- and bought for her lor...

err.. are you serious? I mean really ma.. shes poor but still can shop classy.. and noe the latest updates of fashion.. isnt that geng?

What? So you're saying there are better girls out there and i shud keep moving on till i bump into the same situation as you?

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[quote=AccelTech,Aug 30 2010, 02:28 AM]
what do u mean by dutch? sorry dont seem to understand here.. travelling?
Yes, thats true.. too SMART..
Do you have a facebook account? hahahaha
I'm seeing someone!

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okies!

if ur old lappy got problem then send to me lor.. i give u discount.. but couldnt get a macbook for u.. haha....

I duno how to write or read chinese... i can only speak cantonese.. im a failure of a chinese guy... haha....