Nite2 wet dreams..

I read through all 11 pages of your predicament. There are some good and some bad here.

The Good.

You're a normal guy whom is looking for affection and acceptance. These are very normal desires. Seems to me that you currently have a stable job that pays the bills too.

The Bad

Your method of courting is basically by virtue of 'purchasing affection'. Harsh as it may sound, if i took the element of money out of this equation what else would you have to fall back on? Are you able to honestly tell me, what else do you have?

In other words, this may hurt you:

What sets you apart from all the other guys that might want to chase her? Money? So along comes Mr. Entrepreneur of 4 companies. Now he's got a fatter wallet than you do.

You do things for her? such as buying congee and driving 15 km ?
Every guy does that for the person whom they currently have their eyes on. I don't buy this as unique. Personally I've driven further, done more for people both opposite and same gender and these are my standard friends. Next!

So what sets you apart? Are you able to tell me that?
As and when until you find something that sets you apart from the masses, i think you should hold off courting girls because as it stands right now, you buy their affection.
When they don't return the affection that you seek, you're going to feel like you've just lost a huge investment. Will your next thread me
"@)#!) girl waste my time and money investment" ?

Will it?

This post has been edited by Tatsumaki: Aug 30 2010, 06:56 AM

You should spend the 1K with professional women with good GFE experience while you go cheong.

apalah. 3 weeks and already want to go steady? easy come easy go you know. Let love grow la, dont simply fall in love.

Whoa man!!! You sendiri wan spend on her?? Fuiyoh!!! She has such high technique in getting what she wants... People becareful.. The Girl may be a sifu for some other girls or maybe guys..... Lol... SOrry mate.. I say You shud give up.. 1k can buy allot of games liao.. Or even go for hoiliday..

dik...knowing each other 3 weeks oni
what u expect? can't you be more patient?

hi ATM machine, LOL..
1K for a girl that you known for few weeks, haha
you must be fuxxing bloody rich.

Good luck to you. (: I also liked a girl in PC fair when I worked there.

i think ...


firstly, she bringsout her friend along cos she is being safe . She dont really trust you. To be honest this is normal as u merely know her for 3 weeks. I think she is the type that wants her bf to be her life partner so she going to be a little harder than some girls.



U r at advantage here, U see she is not avoiding you instead she is coming out with you even if her friend tags along. This means u have chance as she is ok with ur looks, maybe u r not boring to her and u r financially stable.



About her bf wanting her ... You need to understand that she used to have feelings for this guy and this maybe a threat . But let her see ur advantage. Are u richer than him or older than him . If this is true, u reflect being a more stable guy compared to him which is advantageous to u.

Anyway I disagree with some of forummer's claim that u r rejected . If she rejected you, the next time u asked her out she prolly gonna answer by saying sorry busy or some lame excuses and she prolly wont reply ur calls / smses.

Try doing something unusual ... perhaps drive out to seaside, or have some home cooked food.

TS, you're stupid. I've seen this mistake from most of my friend.

When got gf or girl they like. they go crazy like no brainer.

Seriously 1K for a girl you just meet?
You're meeting her everyday? Try restrict yourself seeing her. Every weekend might be good.

She haven't give you a confirm answer. Why you are spending so much money on her?

Believe me, all my friend like you end up in miserable ending.
Can't even last for a year.

You'll crash and burn.

Sounds like a high class escort in the making. Please tell me she is at least a hottie. If not, I'll have to reach out of this screen like Sadako and give you two smacks XD

PLAY HARD TO GET.

WORKS EVERY TIME.

No it doesn't. Not if she's playing hard to get on him.

This post has been edited by n00b13: Sep 4 2010, 11:06 PM

i think spending so much on her in d first week actually doesnt help u at all..doin dis kinda make it hard 2 know whether she likes u or likes ur money..instead u could have use those money to pump ur petrol to go c her more frequently to show tht u care for her..if she doesnt mind spending more time wif u, den u hav a chance i guess..