Hi guys, noobie here at dating. I haven date girls since i broke up with my ex 6 months ago... here now, recently the launching of Pikom PC FAIR at KLCC, i met a girl there, she was really cute , nervously and finally gotten her number. Asked her out one time on a date. A simple movie dinner one. Well, at that time i really fall for her. One time i confess to her via sms (probably too fast) she said need to noe each other more. And so yeah, i did. BUT, theres one problem. Now everytime whenever i ask her out. she would invite her fren to join in. Thats very unnecessary unless she doesnt like me. Well, she didnt reject me or anything. Just playing pretending as a friend. But everytime we hang out its always the three of us, she is a college student, staying at hostel with her roommate, thats why shes very clse with her. Actually the fact is, i really really like her, i care for her, be her driver -.-, ATM machine. Everything. Shes not using me or anything. I dont really see that. Im just doing it coz i like her, well maybe im being used or so -.-" , its been 3 weeks now since we've known each other. I must say i really get to know her a lot. Shes smarter than me, her english is way more advanced than me. Thats also one reason i like her, she can text me english. I cant read chinese nor write. Poor Guy, thats why i couldnt date any girls. Haha. Anyways, she also recently broke up with her ex, and still contacting.. well, her ex wanted to get her back by redeeming himself of his pastways he treated her. As for me, i wanted to be perfect and better than his bf but im not sure thats possible or not. I have a job, and its very hard for us to meet, plus she always stays at the dorm, rarely going out. Its just that, till now she still havent conveyed her feelings for me. I nvr really ask her how she feels about me but i do tell her how i feel vice versa for her everyday. I can do almost anything for girl like her, i even woke up in the morning to get congee for her when she was not feeling well, and the road trip was like 15km one way trip distance. Theres a lot of guys chasing her as well, and i guess she has feelings for another guy. I just wanted to know , am i wasting my efforts on her? Should i just give up? i spend more than 1k on the first week with her.. imagine including the 2 more weeks. What should i do? Pls correct me if im wrong , sorry for my bad english.

"..be her driver -.-, ATM machine. Everything. Shes not using me or anything. I dont really see that."

LOL

if money is no obstacle.. GO ON!! xD let her feel she needs someone like u =)

She didnt ask for it, i myself intentionally spend her. -.-

But i really feel she doesnt have any feelings for me, theres one time on her message, she wrote "i only like you as a fren" but i replied what about in the future. then she wud say " Dunno" . haizzz.. i think i need to take time..

1k a week, ur gonna die man. Unless u make 30k a month. And u said she has feelings for another. Its a definitely losing situation for u brah. Sorry.

Yeah, thats actually bleeding for my wallet. i said , it might be a guess. thats what i saw, and her fren told me la.. i might still have chance rite? but will i irritate her if i keep on texting her everyday? coz her finals are up and she needs to concentrate on her studies...

Give up la bro. Dont let this girl misuse ur feelings.

I am very poor now coz i got cheated by gal.. can u sponsor me some money to buy food.

Materialistic gal detected....

Nuclear Launch ........



This post has been edited by wangpr: Aug 30 2010, 01:43 AM

There's your mistake. Please refer here.

That's because now she's uncomfortable being with you alone, because of your mistake.

Dude, you just got rejected. Deal with it and move on.

forget her la..

belip me, she is not good..
i has experienced it...

but if you dont, whats the point in getting ur girl?
If u keep on texting her or so, in the end she will found out that u are actually chasing her...
Give up? No other way?

If you're paying for her, she doesn't even need to ask. You're obviously being used.

But isnt that what guys do whenever u ask a girl out?
Dont you feel ashame if she has to pay for you -.-"

You can always remain her friend. But yes, you should give up any hope of winning her heart.

And please, stop wasting money on her. I can already imagine what she says about you to her friends: "Eeyer, this guy ar, wanna kau me, I dowant, so desperado! But he drive me and spend me, so I accept lor LOL XD!!!1"

I feel more ashamed if i spent more than 1k in a single week for a girl i barely know

Please refer here.

Never make someone your priority, when they only make you an option.

why do u think guy need to pay for gal when u ask them out? ego?
y cant go dutch?

TS wana show how deep his pocket is!!

if like tat...a gal will wait until she c
the bottom of ur wallet then she will go away liao
if wad u wan is to show
like c show...c finish then close tv n go away