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post Jul 20 2010, 04:04 PM

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QUOTE(FatalitY @ Jul 18 2010, 05:23 AM)
Omy....nicole ure still here? I already left this thread....no point trying to tell someone who's in denial. Life is not just about girls. Period.
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haha, i see your comment above, i feel agree and i come back again for here..lol...


Added on July 20, 2010, 4:22 pm
QUOTE(Helldiver @ Jul 19 2010, 05:05 PM)
No one here is wrong; stop picking on Evangelistica. No, I'm not on Evan's side nor am I on the other's.

Sure you guys might find him really annoying posting those "whining" threads and posts around CC, but have you guys tried to see things from his view point? Fine, you guys might be saying there's no point comforting Evangelistica but give him the cold harsh words upfront. This is true, but NOT every person is the SAME; he might take a few years to accept this "reality" that everyone speaks of in their own definitions and the other guy might just take a few months. I find it quite annoying sometimes, but I let it slide and try to understand him.

He has said before that he's changing, improving himself, before. That doesn't mean he can't speak his mind out. He's still in denial, perhaps, and he's just in the mood of not wanting people to go through what he has; this is common, nothing strange about it. Just let him do what he does, it's not like he's not allowed. If you are really finding him annoying and wasting CC, send a message to a moderator or an administrator.

And please, DO NOTE: I AM NOT SAYING YOU GUYS ARE WRONG AND EVANGELISTICA IS RIGHT. When people are in "denial" and others are not, it is common to feel that everything is right to those who are not in denial and whatever the person in denial is doing is wrong. smile.gif

Evangelistica: Just ignore whatever pisses you off in CC; don't reply to their posts if you feel it disses you. Maybe try not to be so general about certain things as well, like saying most people do this and that. smile.gif

Just my dua sen ^.^
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lol..it's not a problem when he feel depress and sharing with us but when people trying to comfort him, he scolded everyone... it's like the whole word fault...he keep saying this world how cruel it is, and why don't we just adapt the change then? The world change, so? doesn't mean people are that and we have become like them also, i still feel that personality is the most important..i think ts never meet with someone who personality damn crazy...that's why always feel looks is important..yes, i blv it too..but i don't think the whole world have the same thinking..Some more i believe ts have personality problem too when he keep trying convince the whole world everyone is like that...as a girl of me with average look, i look down those guys who irritating/trying to flirt always even not close....that kind of guys..seriously shit even if he damn handsome... notworthy.gif maybe ts think, wow, this girl trying to prove herself is better than others..maybe coz she have kind of face problem as well? LOL...anyway, doesn't matter, i blv everyone who trying to comfort him is not the same with others....life is too short to think so much...and been sincere with others is very very important too...good luck ts...

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QUOTE(Mooi @ Jul 20 2010, 09:08 PM)
I know exactly what u are talking about (and I am a girl, the more proactive and persistent one in the tarik-tali love game! wtf right?)

Sometimes u just end up falling for a guy who is (either) reserved or smart/ manipulative.. like u said, they give u the false hopes like if I am not ready now but think if we hang out more often, it might work.. blablabla then u are in love with him that u don't mind to keep giving each time more time and chances (comforting urself that u need not have to rush after all).. u are not sure when to give up bcoz it might promise a happy end to it.. It's always when it's completely over, u realize that nothing could have been saved to keep it, then u regret why the persistence back then!
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Heehee I'm also the more persistent or 'thick skinned' one when it comes to the chase. Maybe because I'm too impatient for the whole 'hinting and waiting around for the guy' thing XD . However, our kind is almost always labelled as 'desperate' wtfux.

Yes exactly!! It's also the same thing I went through a few years ago. To top it all off the guy unceremoniously dumped me after he got bored by avoiding me and when I confronted him he said that he has 'no more use for me in his life'. Wtf.

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Jul 20 2010, 04:04 PM)
haha, i see your comment above, i feel agree and i come back again for here..lol...


Added on July 20, 2010, 4:22 pm

lol..it's not a problem when he feel depress and sharing with us but when people trying to comfort him, he scolded everyone... it's like the whole word fault...he keep saying this world how cruel it is, and why don't we just adapt the change then? The world change, so? doesn't mean people are  that and we have become like them also, i still feel that personality is the most important..i think ts never meet with someone who personality damn crazy...that's why always feel looks is important..yes, i blv it too..but i don't think the whole world have the same thinking..Some more i believe ts have personality problem too when he keep trying convince the whole world everyone is like that...as a girl of me with average look, i look down those guys who irritating/trying to flirt always even not close....that kind of guys..seriously shit even if he damn handsome... notworthy.gif maybe ts think, wow, this girl trying to prove herself is better than others..maybe coz she have kind of face problem as well? LOL...anyway, doesn't matter, i blv everyone who trying to comfort him is not the same with others....life is too short to think so much...and been sincere with others is very very important too...good luck ts...
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I thought you're leaving already? are you damn hypocrit or somehow felt my sting and felt the urges to reply whatever. hahahahahahaha .... whistling.gif
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post Jul 20 2010, 10:33 PM

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dear TS do u really want to confined in your current thoughts till u die?
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post Jul 21 2010, 01:24 AM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 20 2010, 10:22 PM)
I thought you're leaving already? are you damn hypocrit or somehow felt my sting and felt the urges to reply whatever. hahahahahahaha .... whistling.gif
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if u like to listen, now, i admit..yes i am..LOL...cheap guy.


Added on July 21, 2010, 1:27 am
QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Jul 21 2010, 01:24 AM)
if u like to listen, now, i admit..yes i am..LOL...cheap guy.
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oh ya, just based on ur point, u like to find people negative sides....u r such a jerk..LOL..so before saying the world is cruel..look at yourself in the mirror...shame of you... rclxms.gif

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post Jul 21 2010, 03:32 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Jul 20 2010, 04:04 PM)
haha, i see your comment above, i feel agree and i come back again for here..lol...


Added on July 20, 2010, 4:22 pm

lol..it's not a problem when he feel depress and sharing with us but when people trying to comfort him, he scolded everyone... it's like the whole word fault...he keep saying this world how cruel it is, and why don't we just adapt the change then? The world change, so? doesn't mean people are  that and we have become like them also, i still feel that personality is the most important..i think ts never meet with someone who personality damn crazy...that's why always feel looks is important..yes, i blv it too..but i don't think the whole world have the same thinking..Some more i believe ts have personality problem too when he keep trying convince the whole world everyone is like that...as a girl of me with average look, i look down those guys who irritating/trying to flirt always even not close....that kind of guys..seriously shit even if he damn handsome... notworthy.gif maybe ts think, wow, this girl trying to prove herself is better than others..maybe coz she have kind of face problem as well? LOL...anyway, doesn't matter, i blv everyone who trying to comfort him is not the same with others....life is too short to think so much...and been sincere with others is very very important too...good luck ts...
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Erhem.....*clears throat*. Neither did I say that TS is wrong, nor is he right. People are subjected to their own points of view, be it negative or positive, its up to their mind. Nobody in this world can have positive mind through out their life. But without negativity, positivism won't even exists. You want to talk about equilibrium, I can tell you bits and parts of it. If you do not know how bad defeat tastes, you won't treasure victory. If you do not feel emptiness, you will not appreciate company. Think, and think and think again about what I say. You can deny all you want and say Im crapping shiats, but believe it or not, I've already made you read, and made you think. Deny all you want.

In this case, TS,honestly, is a pessimists. Not to say I am not one either, but if you remain so much a pessimist, you won't move, you won't progress. Heck, going to the gym to buff up for girls? Lemme ask you then, what if the world has only 1 gender? So you won't buff up la? Don't you think that its just stupid(yet again, I reinstate, life is not all about girls) to just think that you do this for someone else? I go to the gym for myself. To look a little bit more better,and more healthy. I excersize to be a little bit more stronger so that I can help to carry things without hassle next time. The BONUS is only when at the right, time, a girl needs your help like carrying things, you have no problem helping her. DUH?!

What we're trying to tell is just, don't just think that the problem can be solved through one solution. YOUR mind is the one that thinks that there is only one solution to your problem. Now, do you see how powerful a mind can be? If your mind is stuck to only giving up and thinking that all girls are there to reject you, then you have created YOUR own WORLD where girls are against you. I am not saying I do not feel him. Heck, I have been rejected worst that you TS, WORST! than you. Im still standing, Im still living my life,still smiling and helping people to smile. What are you doing? Whining and whining. Do you think girls like guys who whine and whine? So much for going to the gym huh? Set you silly mind a little bit more broad. You wanna know something? I have tonnes of girls talking to me, even going out on dates(sorry to those quiet readers of mine, but just saying its casual outing,no jealous k?) Wanna know my secret? Simple, have CONFIDENCE. I don't think life is all about girls. They are just a bonus if the time is right. Otherwise, try building a future for yourself and an extra space if there is someone there wanting to share with you. If not, so be it la. Why such big deal? I know rejection is a pain in the ass. You think we don't face rejections? If just a mere rejection from a girl is enough to bring you down, then the next time if you are rejected from your proposal to marry a girl, what will you do? SUICIDE?

Some of us are smaking TS to wake up. You really wanna see your mind? Read the above paragraph. That is how small your mind is now. Nothing but that. If you cannot even face a rejection from a girl, then don't even bother hoping for a girl to like you. Next time a girl says "nah, can't join you for dinner" you suicide? The next time a girl rejects going out with you, suicide? Next time a girl says " we're just friends" suicide? Friends then friends la! What's the big deal??? Life is not about YOU and only YOU. Life is all about YOU, making a difference in other ppls life. So be it if a girl does not treasure you. If its me, I'll treasure her nonetheless. But I won't deviate from my own personal goals in life.

If you still wanna live in your naive world, go ahead. You're just another reject product of a 30 years old dude. Sorry to say, but I am sure in many ppls mind, you're worthless,so what if you got a good paying 6 figure job? So what if you got the face of a super model but a mind of a douchebag who cannot even live life normally just because you are rejected by a girl. Then the monks how? Mass suicide edi in Shaolin. Oh....by now, if you wanna put TL;DR, go ahead and put.

I am just a hotelier, I have problem with my figure as Im skinny, and I have hair problem. Does it stop me from trying to prove to everyone that even the ugliest basturd in this world can still stand up and walk proud? Nope. I still treat girls the way they're specially made. You let your own mind believe that girls hate you and only treat you like a doormat. I don't. I take it as they're just needing help. After help so be it la. Why set your mind like that??? If you think that everyone is against you, explain why couples even exist?

QUOTE(Mooi @ Jul 20 2010, 09:08 PM)
I know exactly what u are talking about (and I am a girl, the more proactive and persistent one in the tarik-tali love game! wtf right?)

Sometimes u just end up falling for a guy who is (either) reserved or smart/ manipulative.. like u said, they give u the false hopes like if I am not ready now but think if we hang out more often, it might work.. blablabla then u are in love with him that u don't mind to keep giving each time more time and chances (comforting urself that u need not have to rush after all).. u are not sure when to give up bcoz it might promise a happy end to it.. It's always when it's completely over, u realize that nothing could have been saved to keep it, then u regret why the persistence back then!
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Persistence is one thing dear, but knowing if you have your own criteria in a guy is another. If a guy says that you should give him more time, then its your decision to give or not to give. I give the benefit of the doubt that if a girl needs time, I'll lay off, just take things as it is. If it happens, its my bonus, my reward for understanding her. If it doesn't, its not even a punishment. Truth hurts, but it doesn't kill you. If he doesn't see your persistence, others will. But....the question will be this then "Will you give that person who values your persistence a chance?" If you say no, then don't blame the guy for giving you false hope. You're no different than him.

QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 20 2010, 10:22 PM)
I thought you're leaving already? are you damn hypocrit or somehow felt my sting and felt the urges to reply whatever. hahahahahahaha .... whistling.gif
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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Jul 20 2010, 10:33 PM)
dear TS do u really want to confined in your current thoughts till u die?
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I think his mind is just so weak and too childish, honestly. I can summarize his mind into only 1 sentence "in my mind and my whole life, I only care about girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls rejecting me and my life suck cuz I can't get any girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls"

QUOTE(Mooi @ Jul 20 2010, 11:30 PM)
LOL me too! Really tak tahan with the whole "dropping hints to encourage and waiting for him to make the damn first move".. just want to cut all that crap and let him know that I am interested in him hehehe blah, at least we know what we want, we are self-assured and we go for it..

The chase is still going on.. wish me luck! tongue.gif
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I like your mentality. Don't just stick to one option. Know your limits. If you're determined to let that guy know you like him, you'll go all out, cuz you know he's worth the time and the chase.

But I guess the question that the world needs to ask themselves now is, will they even give a chance to let others treat them like how they wanted to? Go ponder.

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QUOTE(FatalitY @ Jul 21 2010, 03:32 AM)
Erhem.....*clears throat*. Neither did I say that TS is wrong, nor is he right. People are subjected to their own points of view, be it negative or positive, its up to their mind. Nobody in this world can have positive mind through out their life. But without negativity, positivism won't even exists. You want to talk about equilibrium, I can tell you bits and parts of it. If you do not know how bad defeat tastes, you won't treasure victory. If you do not feel emptiness, you will not appreciate company. Think, and think and think again about what I say. You can deny all you want and say Im crapping shiats, but believe it or not, I've already made you read, and made you think. Deny all you want.

In this case, TS,honestly, is a pessimists. Not to say I am not one either, but if you remain so much a pessimist, you won't move, you won't progress. Heck, going to the gym to buff up for girls? Lemme ask you then, what if the world has only 1 gender? So you won't buff up la? Don't you think that its just stupid(yet again, I reinstate, life is not all about girls) to just think that you do this for someone else? I go to the gym for myself. To look a little bit more better,and more healthy. I excersize to be a little bit more stronger so that I can help to carry things without hassle next time. The BONUS is only when at the right, time, a girl needs your help like carrying things, you have no problem helping her. DUH?!

What we're trying to tell is just, don't just think that the problem can be solved through one solution. YOUR mind is the one that thinks that there is only one solution to your problem. Now, do you see how powerful a mind can be? If your mind is stuck to only giving up and thinking that all girls are there to reject you, then you have created YOUR own WORLD where girls are against you. I am not saying I do not feel him. Heck, I have been rejected worst that you TS, WORST! than you. Im still standing, Im still living my life,still smiling and helping people to smile. What are you doing? Whining and whining. Do you think girls like guys who whine and whine? So much for going to the gym huh? Set you silly mind a little bit more broad. You wanna know something? I have tonnes of girls talking to me, even going out on dates(sorry to those quiet readers of mine, but just saying its casual outing,no jealous k?) Wanna know my secret? Simple, have CONFIDENCE. I don't think life is all about girls. They are just a bonus if the time is right. Otherwise, try building a future for yourself and an extra space if there is someone there wanting to share with you. If not, so be it la. Why such  big deal? I know rejection is a pain in the ass. You think we don't face rejections? If just a mere rejection from a girl is enough to bring you down, then the next time if you are rejected from your proposal to marry a girl, what will you do? SUICIDE?

Some of us are smaking TS to wake up. You really wanna see your mind? Read the above paragraph. That is how small your mind is now. Nothing but that. If you cannot even face a rejection from a girl, then don't even bother hoping for a girl to like you. Next time a girl says "nah, can't join you for dinner" you suicide? The next time a girl rejects going out with you, suicide? Next time a girl says " we're just friends" suicide? Friends then friends la! What's the big deal??? Life is not about YOU and only YOU. Life is all about YOU, making a difference in other ppls life. So be it if a girl does not treasure you. If its me, I'll treasure her nonetheless. But I won't deviate from my own personal goals in life.

If you still wanna live in your naive world, go ahead. You're just another reject product of a 30 years old dude. Sorry to say, but I am sure in many ppls mind, you're worthless,so what if you got a good paying 6 figure job? So what if you got the face of a super model but a mind of a douchebag who cannot even live life normally just because you are rejected by a girl. Then the monks how? Mass suicide edi in Shaolin. Oh....by now, if you wanna put TL;DR, go ahead and put.

I am just a hotelier, I have problem with my figure as Im skinny, and I have hair problem. Does it stop me from trying to prove to everyone that even the ugliest basturd in this world can still stand up and walk proud? Nope. I still treat girls the way they're specially made. You let your own mind believe that girls hate you and only treat you like a doormat. I don't. I take it as they're just needing help. After help so be it la. Why set your mind like that??? If you think that everyone is against you, explain why couples even exist?
Persistence is one thing dear, but knowing if you have your own criteria in a guy is another. If a guy says that you should give him more time, then its your decision to give or not to give. I give the benefit of the doubt that if a girl needs time, I'll lay off, just take things as it is. If it happens, its my bonus, my reward for understanding her. If it doesn't, its not even a punishment. Truth hurts, but it doesn't kill you. If he doesn't see your persistence, others will. But....the question will be this then "Will you give that person who values your persistence a chance?" If you say no, then don't blame the guy for giving you false hope. You're no different than him.
I think his mind is just so weak and too childish, honestly. I can summarize his mind into only 1 sentence "in my mind and my whole life, I only care about girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls rejecting me and my life suck cuz I can't get any girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls girls"
I like your mentality. Don't just stick to one option. Know your limits. If you're determined to let that guy know you like him, you'll go all out, cuz you know he's worth the time and the chase.

But I guess the question that the world needs to ask themselves now is, will they even give a chance to let others treat them like how they wanted to? Go ponder.
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Yet fatatity, you're still replying. i tot u left my "useless" whine already. hypocrit. whistling.gif whistling.gif
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post Jul 21 2010, 07:29 PM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 21 2010, 09:37 AM)
Yet fatatity, you're still replying. i tot u left my "useless" whine already. hypocrit. whistling.gif  whistling.gif
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haha, do you know what i feel about you now, those 'hypocrit' u talking..u must feeling they are saying right....LOL.........u can't even find something to argue our statement.....good try~ rclxms.gif
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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 6 2010, 12:15 PM)
To those unlucky fuglies who got rejected, you might think that when you been rejected by someone you admire a lot or "love" for all I care, you think that "I will try again and again until he/she accepts me". Well I tell you this, persistance is one thing but complete anoyying is another.

1. You might have this idiotic self concious in the back of your thick head saying "He/she is playing hard to get (jual mahal)".
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2. You have this idiotic concept of persistance is somehow noble and show her your sincerity.
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3. No is NO. Simple as that!
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4. Persistance is annoyying.
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5. You can't force someone to like you.
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6. Don't push him/her to the max.
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Hate me all you can, I know I speak the truth. Don't live in denial.
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Although hard to digest, sadly its true. I did this blind-chasing thingy without considering her feelings and now we both not even friends anymore. sad.gif To those who sniping at TS, why? What he said its true. "Unwanted persistence is annoyying, and loathing" (quoting TS).
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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Jul 21 2010, 07:29 PM)
haha, do you know what i feel about you now, those 'hypocrit' u talking..u must feeling they are saying right....LOL.........u can't even find something to argue our statement.....good try~ rclxms.gif
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http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1471764

Bwahahahahahahaha... hahahahahahahhaa wuekkk..

and YOU called me whine hahahaha...

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a quick question to TS,

how many times u face this rejection of persistance?

it worked for me last time, and also not worked for me..
so its a normal to be rejected by girl, try it again to other girl.

all u have to do is push-pull game. u cant push her all time. u need to play pull game here. women somehow cant get enough when u do pull-game.
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QUOTE(Max_07s @ Jul 23 2010, 05:24 PM)
a quick question to TS,

how many times u face this rejection of persistance?

it worked for me last time, and also not worked for me..
so its a normal to be rejected by girl, try it again to other girl.

all u have to do is push-pull game. u cant push her all time. u need to play pull game here. women somehow cant get enough when u do pull-game.
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Rejected? all the time. Rejected after persistence, 3 or 4 times (i really want that girl) but all ended up she loath me even more. Some girls like to be chased, if she loves to be chased by the guy anyway. If she don't like it, almost like a rapist stalking his victim.
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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 23 2010, 04:02 PM)
http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1471764

Bwahahahahahahaha... hahahahahahahhaa wuekkk..

and YOU called me whine hahahaha...

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Wow.....hahaha
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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 23 2010, 05:52 PM)
Rejected? all the time. Rejected after persistence, 3 or 4 times (i really want that girl) but all ended up she loath me even more. Some girls like to be chased, if she loves to be chased by the guy anyway. If she don't like it, almost like a rapist stalking his victim.
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oh my god............i really never see some guy like u..............please forget it lar..or either you close this thread...no wonder everyone running from you..............yes, i rememeber what i write last time..but ..i never join kopitiam anymore...........u seriously having problem with yourself....come on..u r 30 years you old..still act young..i want to vormit....my shell company..i done..you don't worry, my tortise also at home d...like you? can't even solve any problem also beside complaining..take your mirror and look once at yourself... doh.gif i really feel lucky that i never meet a real person like u in my life...i consider lucky for this..u keep trying to argue with me back, if others, stop for long time d...u are really cheap...cheap and cheap..like never go to school before...
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QUOTE(shinjite @ Jul 23 2010, 07:43 PM)
Wow.....hahaha
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hahaha.. i know.. btw shinjite im thinkin about selling my 4870. you want? hehehe..
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I sudah aim GTX460 bro~~hahaha
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post Jul 24 2010, 01:31 PM

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QUOTE(shinjite @ Jul 24 2010, 01:01 PM)
I sudah aim GTX460 bro~~hahaha
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Wooo.. well done.. GTX 460 ftw!!! rclxms.gif

ok offtrack a bit hehe... tongue.gif
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post Jul 24 2010, 10:39 PM

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relax guys, don't fight for such issues

anyway, based on my experience, don't chase somebody so fast

i made such mistake so many times to many girls in secondary school

First
Talk , chat , sms the girl once a while

Second
Understand what she likes. Use sweet talks little by little and grow a little too upon time being

Third
Quite some people will think that "eh today she talks to me ler, maybe she likes me already" or "eh today she smiled at me wo" or "eh todae she sms me wo for asking bout the hw" then directly will consult online people bout whether to confess or not

when see comments like "don't confess yet" , u won bother to listen

but when u saw people comment " u shud go, we support u", then u feel damn freaking excited and go confess

Lastly, Failed...


sometimes, chasing a girl and win her heart take a longer time than we thought, for me if simplify all advices into 1, i think it will be "don rush things so fast"

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