QUOTE(kalvinkhoo @ Aug 4 2014, 10:49 PM)
So basically engine oil is putting some weights on the piston which call lubricant?
No grade that I'm able to specified but just wanna understand some people change the grade. What can that effect the engine?
well yes and no.
to put it very layman, imagine yourself (the engine moving parts) swimming in a pool of molasses (heavy viscosity engine oil, such as 10w50 maybe), vs swimming in a pool of water (light viscosity engine oil, such as 0w20)
which do you think you'll swim easier/faster?
for grade, i am assuming you're solely referring to viscosity and not something like mineral/semi synthetic (and whatever crazy terms the Europeans like to call it such as companies from motul/liqui moly)/full synthetic or an engine oil's base stock (group III/IV/V etc)
with that said, the traditional believe is that heavier viscosity (oil film thicker) offers more protection, and going lighter viscosity is a risk.
That may very well be true in *most* application especially with API certification SL/SM and before.
with modern engines/engine oil specification/certification (API SN), one can have the same protection using a very thin viscosity EO, if not possibly better especially comparing say, API SN to API SL EO, or a full synthetic of a API certified/Licensed reputable brand against one with no certification and is all claims.
As a matter of fact, for fuel economy's sake, lighter viscosity EO (engine oil) such as 0w20 is being adopted by many manufacturers since 2008/2009 ish.
Honda is even pushing API/SAE to make 0w16 official to cater for their hybrid/earth dream engine vehicles

The only exception is probably high/extreme boosted turbo charged cars, and most probably one subjected to motor sports activities.
in which the very thin oil film strength may not withstand extreme temperatures the turbo charged engines subjects it to, especially when further pushed towards/beyond the engine's limits. (very common in motor sports)
in such cases, the only way you can determine an EO quality objectively is by doing used oil analysis (which i will cover more once i get my very first report lol)
if you're not into extremes/motorsport, just following your manufacturer's recommendation should be more than sufficient