QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:05 PM)
Hi.
Would like to share my real story..
im 22 year old... but im still single .. i havent had any serious bf b4.. time pass so quick..
i rmb when i was 18, almost all my school mates and course mate did have their first love... but that time, im not desperate to getting one.. but sometimes i will feel not happy and ask why my mr right yet to appear..
but after few years, and im 22.. i seen many of my frens same age wit me had married... and have their own bf.. almost every of my frens..
im pretty and tall.. (this one all that knew me, give the comment)

and i have a stable career at my age..
and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise....
really...
there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy...
everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds..
but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf..
"have u ever got a real bf?'"
this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate...
i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust...
i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?"
and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this...
maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right?
i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss....
if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi...

The problem could be your expectation are too high, or even impossible.. But i understand how you feel.
You cant find your Mr.Right because you feel all of them are not good or understands you, am i correct?
That is because you love yourself too much that you think you cant find someone that is exactly the same like you.
You are 22 and you think you are too old and its time to get married? If that is what you think then you might as well dont find a bf because you are just getting one for the sake of getting one.
Im 29 and im still single and dont exactly see a problem, but im a guy btw

The problem may not lies in other ppl but your ownself..
You said most guys are immature but are you? or you just think you are matured but your not?
And how do you measure maturity?
Maturity are not something physical (unless you mean those 6Cs) and its very objective and differ for every person.
For eg, a guy that likes to joke can be viewed as immature and also as matured viewed by different person.
You are doing it correct by treating them slowly, but how do you mean "slowly" ?
What reaction or hint do you give to them?
Its not entirely your fault (because i dont know the whole story) but most guys are just using "hit and go" tactic to chase girl.
Meaning guy see girl, guy flirt girl, girl take bait, guy gets girl....This is if the girl takes the bait..
If the girl doesnt take the bait then the guy will move on to other target and continue the same thing.
For the bolded part you should change abit, go out meet more friends, mix around.. No harm knowing more friends.
Last but not least, if you think the guys around your age are too immature then you can try older guys in 30's

And dont give up choosing the correct Mr.Right