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post Apr 6 2010, 04:42 PM

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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 6 2010, 05:05 PM)
Hi.

Would like to share my real story..

im 22 year old... but im still single .. i havent had any serious bf b4.. time pass so quick..

i rmb when i was 18, almost all my school mates and course mate did have their first love... but that time, im not desperate to getting one.. but sometimes i will feel not happy and ask why my mr right yet to appear..

but after few years, and im 22.. i seen many of my frens same age wit me had married... and have their own bf.. almost every of my frens..

im pretty and tall.. (this one all that knew me, give the comment)  rclxms.gif and i have a stable career at my age..

and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise....

really...

there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy...

everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds..

but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf..

"have u ever got a real bf?'"

this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate...

i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust...

i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?"

and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this...

maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right?

i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss....

if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi...

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post Apr 6 2010, 04:47 PM

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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:05 PM)
Hi.

Would like to share my real story..
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there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy...

everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds..
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Problem is, you don't give yourself a chance, how are you going to find mister right? What like you have a list of conditions a guy have to fulfill? Throw that list away and burn it. Just go with your gut feeling la. You can't know what flying is like until you actually fly.
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post Apr 6 2010, 04:49 PM

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i think she's too busy filtering her 20'000 pm's from the 10 buayas and the 1000 dupe accounts.
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post Apr 6 2010, 04:50 PM

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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:05 PM)
Hi.

Would like to share my real story..

im 22 year old... but im still single .. i havent had any serious bf b4.. time pass so quick..

i rmb when i was 18, almost all my school mates and course mate did have their first love... but that time, im not desperate to getting one.. but sometimes i will feel not happy and ask why my mr right yet to appear..

but after few years, and im 22.. i seen many of my frens same age wit me had married... and have their own bf.. almost every of my frens..

im pretty and tall.. (this one all that knew me, give the comment)  rclxms.gif and i have a stable career at my age..

and all my frens thought i have a good bf oredi.. but when i told them that i havent has a bf b4 and now.. they are will suprise....

really...

there are guys approach me all the while, but i havent found any mr right yet... most of the guys approached me are quite immatured and some of them even married... or playboy...

everytime guys approach me i will take it slowly and treat it nothing.. and after a period, they will dismiss me... maybe they are not sincere and patience.. or maybe i got problem... with my deeds..

but now i felt uneasy when most of my relatives asked me about bf..

"have u ever got a real bf?'"

this kind of questions.. and it made me uneasy and desperate...

i hope i can find a good bf and hope he can be the one i can rely... and trust...

i rmb one guy did approach me is he thought that im an open minded girl.. "u know what i meant?"

and when he knew me deeply that im a conservative girl, he will find another gf... when i started to have a bit feel on him, he acted like this...

maybe all these are becox tat i havent met a real mr right?

i seldom go out with frens and mix around.. normally i will be at house during weekend or holiday.. i enjoy the time like this... and i hope this will ok for my future bf too.. i want to spend my freee time with my family... and i know that hardly a guy will accept this... thats y my scope of frens are not much .. most of them are girlss....

if got guys frens oso not my cup of tea.. or even yup, they also got gf oredi...

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So do something about it la.
Go out socialise.
If you're conservative then no choice you have to find a conservative guy la.
If you want to choose guys , guys also have every right to choose who they want to be with and if you're not their cup of tea, they will just find another one. Nothing wrong with that.

This post has been edited by Drian: Apr 6 2010, 04:50 PM
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O.o ... 22 years old den so cham jor say untill ....

i cant imagine what if a 40 y.o. still single
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post Apr 6 2010, 04:51 PM

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TS, are u one of those princessy little queens?
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post Apr 6 2010, 04:53 PM

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QUOTE(Tak3shi @ Apr 6 2010, 04:49 PM)
i think she's too busy filtering her 20'000 pm's from the 10 buayas and the 1000 dupe accounts.
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yes u r rite..

hehe... rclxms.gif


Added on April 6, 2010, 4:54 pm
QUOTE(BoboTheGrouch @ Apr 6 2010, 04:51 PM)
TS, are u one of those princessy little queens?
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wat u mean>?

This post has been edited by cutebabe1988: Apr 6 2010, 04:54 PM
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post Apr 6 2010, 04:55 PM

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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:53 PM)
yes u r rite..

hehe... rclxms.gif


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wat u mean>?
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Princess mentality usually means that a girl who always want the guy to treat her in any circumstances.
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post Apr 6 2010, 04:55 PM

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im 23 yrs old this year and i'm having same problem with u...haihh

when i found 1, always kena bang wall.... /.\
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post Apr 6 2010, 04:56 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:55 PM)
Princess mentality usually means that a girl who always want the guy to treat her in any circumstances.
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ic.. emm.. not at all.. nod.gif
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post Apr 6 2010, 04:56 PM

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i think we have thing in common..lazy want to go out weekend..smile.gif..

just be patient..u still young..but if course finding a good bf nowadays quite tough..but actually by 22, you should have a bf already..at least you get to know him at least a year or 2 before you start getting serious, meaning considering will you continue further in your relationship...don't think about sex before marriage..

good luck in your life..lucky me got gf liao..hehe
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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:56 PM)
ic.. emm.. not at all..  nod.gif
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If you have not try to attempt one, how do you know whether a guy is good or not?

You need to try...
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post Apr 6 2010, 04:59 PM

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QUOTE(RO Player @ Apr 6 2010, 04:55 PM)
How u know?? Maybe you are one of many buayas.. sweat.gif

btw...quite pretty gal.  brows.gif
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nah.. din't lie leh.. rclxms.gif

just kidding.. but me a bit mature for 22 year old... i mean my look..

maybe im quite tall... tats y... ppl will thought im older than my age... tats y normally guys will approach me will be 30 something and somemore had married... yawn.gif


Added on April 6, 2010, 5:01 pm
QUOTE(kazama82 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:56 PM)
i think we have thing in common..lazy want to go out weekend..smile.gif..

just be patient..u still young..but if course finding a good bf nowadays quite tough..but actually by 22, you should have a bf already..at least you get to know him at least a year or 2 before you start getting serious, meaning considering will you continue further in your relationship...don't think about sex before marriage..

good luck in your life..lucky me got gf liao..hehe
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off course no premarital for me.. im a very conservative person in this situation... but i will not expect all the ladies will think like me... i love my self very much... and i want to give the most precious one to my husband, i mean my mr right in future...



This post has been edited by cutebabe1988: Apr 6 2010, 05:01 PM
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post Apr 6 2010, 05:06 PM

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matured guy don play phesbook yo.
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I would say you need to go out and socialise more. More friends more possibility. As you never have the first bf before, it's expected that you set the standard very high. Because everybody wants first time in everything to be perfect. So maybe you should try to lower the expectation a little bit, and see what happens. If you don't want to lower it, then no need to rush also, love will come one day.
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post Apr 6 2010, 05:09 PM

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Gimme your FB and Pix gurley.. brows.gif

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post Apr 6 2010, 05:12 PM

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Just b calm.. Dnt b any worry.. Well, i believe in fate.. Perhaps 1 day, there will b a man who will look in2 u n think ur attractive 2 him.. Just b patience.. Gud things always come abit late but its worth waiting.. Its ok if ur single, God hav already plan ur fate.. Trust in urself n chill out gurls..
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QUOTE(cutebabe1988 @ Apr 6 2010, 04:59 PM)
nah.. din't lie leh.. rclxms.gif

just kidding.. but me a bit mature for 22 year old... i mean my look..

maybe im quite tall... tats y... ppl will thought im older than my age... tats y normally guys will approach me will be 30 something and somemore had married... yawn.gif


Added on April 6, 2010, 5:01 pm
off course no premarital for me.. im a very conservative person in this situation... but i will not expect all the ladies will think like me... i love my self very much... and i want to give the most precious one to my husband, i mean my mr right in future...
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Bottomline, you're a conservative person. Which is why you don't go out much, which is why you can't get all the good guys, which is why you're wondering why you can't find the right guys.

The phrase "Nice guys finish last" doesn't just apply to guys, you know.

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