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Serious 24 and still never had a relationship, No gf until now, I am 24

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post Nov 17 2009, 01:05 PM

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QUOTE(samteng @ Nov 17 2009, 11:44 AM)
At least it shows that a girl is wanted rather than unwanted. Kena screwed upside down is a lesser evil compared to having nobody want to take a glance at her.

Yes, NO to rape, molest, and incest. but yes to jual mahal-ness and playing hard to get.
Good god. You have just written 4 incredibly insensitive, misogynistic, hateful, and downright f***ing sick posts in a row.

Reported. Go stand in a corner and think about what you've done.


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post Nov 17 2009, 01:53 PM

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Well, that's your twisted perception. Not to mention the foul language you use in this particular post albeit censored. Let the mod decide what's decent or indecent then. Perhaps your post should be reported as well.
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i have decided. warns handed out. please avoid insensitive postings.
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post Nov 18 2009, 11:39 AM

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QUOTE(samteng @ Nov 17 2009, 01:53 PM)
Well, that's your twisted perception. Not to mention the foul language you use in this particular post albeit censored. Let the mod decide what's decent or indecent then. Perhaps your post should be reported as well.
Pwned. laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif


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post Nov 18 2009, 02:08 PM

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To redracer2004,

You may want to read the below post from a SG forum to make yourself feel that you are not alone.

She's already 28 while you're only 24. Happy reading and cheers!

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post Nov 18 2009, 02:53 PM

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QUOTE(samteng @ Nov 18 2009, 02:08 PM)
To redracer2004,

You may want to read the below post from a SG forum to make yourself feel that you are not alone.

She's already 28 while you're only 24. Happy reading and cheers!

» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «

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Moral of the above story: Don't aim for an unachievable goal. For us SEAsians to get Japanese / Korean mates, it's near to impossible. Firstly, they are not as 'good and pure' as we think they are. Most people there are money minded. You can easily note from the various 'you know what' movies available on the net that comes from Japan. According to a friend of mine, Japanese people opt to these movies for income, meaning, they rather sacrifice themselves to exchange for money, so no money no talk.

And of course, one reason Japanese men want Japanese women more is because of their open-ness despite them being asians. I am not going to elaborate but you get what I mean.

I would say that, don't be choosy. She's 28 and she's too matured to even get a decent 30s guy to date with. I am not that choosy, it's just that the girls here are like her, also very choosy.



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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 18 2009, 02:53 PM)
Moral of the above story: Don't aim for an unachievable goal. For us SEAsians to get Japanese / Korean mates, it's near to impossible. Firstly, they are not as 'good and pure' as we think they are. Most people there are money minded. You can easily note from the various 'you know what' movies available on the net that comes from Japan. According to a friend of mine, Japanese people opt to these movies for income, meaning, they rather sacrifice themselves to exchange for money, so no money no talk.
So you judge all Japanese girls based on porn stars? Fail, dude. laugh.gif


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post Nov 18 2009, 04:10 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Nov 18 2009, 03:44 PM)
So you judge all Japanese girls based on porn stars? Fail, dude.  laugh.gif
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It's not that I want to but it's the fact. A few of my friends went to Japan once and it was crazy they told me. They have those p**n producing companies almost every corner of the cities. They heard from locals that the reason is because a lot of women couldn't afford / excel in studies so they can't find a decent job. Their only way to earn money good enough to make themselves a branded slave is through that. According to my friends, a lot of women are willing to do so rather than find some decent jobs because of how competitive living is over there. A little ramen stall under a tree would sell ramen at 600yen a bowl, around RM20 in Malaysia, and imagine their cost of living. That's why Japanese women are normally money minded just like any other high cost of living countries in the world. Malaysia is not to this extent yet and hopefully will not as I don't want to be a victim of money eating girls.
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 18 2009, 04:10 PM)
It's not that I want to but it's the fact. A few of my friends went to Japan once and it was crazy they told me. They have those p**n producing companies almost every corner of the cities. They heard from locals that the reason is because a lot of women couldn't afford / excel in studies so they can't find a decent job. Their only way to earn money good enough to make themselves a branded slave is through that. According to my friends, a lot of women are willing to do so rather than find some decent jobs because of how competitive living is over there. A little ramen stall under a tree would sell ramen at 600yen a bowl, around RM20 in Malaysia, and imagine their cost of living. That's why Japanese women are normally money minded just like any other high cost of living countries in the world. Malaysia is not to this extent yet and hopefully will not as I don't want to be a victim of money eating girls.
I don't know your friends and what they did there, but I've actually known some Japanese girls. You know what I learned? They're perfectly ordinary people. Met them during college, and they were all studying hard in their chosen fields and hoping to build successful careers - just like everyone else.

Get out from under your coconut shell, mate. laugh.gif


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funniest thread ever read.....to find a girl is bloody easy.. go and chat in the net... there are many desperados out there..

warning- if you want to find a wife dont look for disco-going girls.. no need to say why...
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 17 2009, 01:15 PM)
NO NO. Girls, please don't jual mahal for your own good. One of my cousins kena sth like this and it's all becoz girl jual mahal.

Story: Cousin liked a girl, let's call Lily. Lily was a very unpredictable person and seldom talks with people. Lily talks with cousin most so cousin tot he got chance. So he tried asking Lily out a few times but Lily didn't even agree to go even once.

Another girl, Mary, liked my cousin very much and showed it thru her actions and words. My cousin although still likes Lily, began to realise how good Mary was. After 1 mth, Lily saw cousin going out with Mary holding hands as a couple. She looked at them with shiny tears flowing down and suddenly she ran to a corner and cried. Mary went to look after her as Mary and cousin went after to see what happened. Lily bursted in greater tears asking cousin why he never pursued her more and why he accepted Mary. She said that all along, she was also very interested with cousin but just because she tried to jual mahal in the first few tries, she missed it.

MORAL: Girls who play mahal will get the above. Never play mahal unless the guy doesn't have any second choices.
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Anyway I totally agree to the story, please appreciate people beside you. Guys & Girls, please don't always think that in the future you will meet a better guys or girls. Time fly, & your spring are limited. Don't wait till when you are near 30's (especially Girls) still very choosy for guys.

I have seen that some nice guys (good looking & kind) keep approach the girls, but saw that the girl never respond to guy kindness & approach, just treat him as a friend. Anyway try to look around nice guys is not all everywhere, so as girls. So please don't over demand your partner, you're not perfect as well, when someone which good enough, try lower down your requirement & accept him/she. Being a relationship doesn't mean you will get married with he/she. If anything don't go well, you can always go back to ground zero/break up.

I can see that especially Chinese who are so conservative, thinking being relationship mean must get married in future. You never know who suit you the best, unless you try being together.

Good Luck to every Guys & Girls.

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QUOTE(jacktai @ Nov 18 2009, 05:02 PM)
Anyway I totally agree to the story, please appreciate people beside you. Guys & Girls, please don't always think that in the future you will meet a better guys or girls. Time fly, & your spring are limited. Don't wait till when you are near 30's (especially Girls) still very choosy for guys.

I have seen that some nice guys (good looking & kind) keep approach the girls, but saw that the girl never respond to guy kindness & approach, just treat him as a friend. Anyway try to look around nice guys is not all everywhere, so as girls. So please don't over demand your partner, you not perfect as well, when someone which good enough, try lower down your requirement & accept him/she, being a relationship doesn't mean you will get married with he/she. If anything don't go well, you can always go back to ground zero/break up.

I can see that especially Chinese who are so conservative, thinking being relationship mean must get married in future. You never know who suit you the best, unless you try being together.

Good Luck to every Guys & Girls.
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Yup, the story really did touch my heart although I am a guy but I know that girls do jual mahal which is stupid. There are actually more details to the story, cousin actually tried to date Lily for at least 6 times but she never agreed. She will say not now, next time or busy, later, kind of crap. EVERY MALE IN THE WORLD WILL THINK SHE'S NOT INTERESTED but mana tau she's actually playing hard to get. She explained to cousin that she wanted to test cousin's endurance to see how determined is he to pursue her so she can judge how much she will be loved in the future. Now, it's too late. She can't turn back time anymore and I heard she's become over sensitive. Whenever a guy dates her out, she will immediately agree and ask him if he's going after her.
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 18 2009, 06:09 PM)
Yup, the story really did touch my heart although I am a guy but I know that girls do jual mahal which is stupid. There are actually more details to the story, cousin actually tried to date Lily for at least 6 times but she never agreed. She will say not now, next time or busy, later, kind of crap. EVERY MALE IN THE WORLD WILL THINK SHE'S NOT INTERESTED but mana tau she's actually playing hard to get. She explained to cousin that she wanted to test cousin's endurance to see how determined is he to pursue her so she can judge how much she will be loved in the future. Now, it's too late. She can't turn back time anymore and I heard she's become over sensitive. Whenever a guy dates her out,  she will immediately agree and ask him if he's going after her.
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Anyway life just like in drama, but sometime not as perfect as drama.

So please accept what you are. You are not always the one who controling the game.

So guys & girls please don't too much when come to relationship, it will only ruining the situation. Take the opportunity before you miss it, at least it will be you memory or experience.

All the best.
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 18 2009, 05:09 PM)
Yup, the story really did touch my heart although I am a guy but I know that girls do jual mahal which is stupid. There are actually more details to the story, cousin actually tried to date Lily for at least 6 times but she never agreed. She will say not now, next time or busy, later, kind of crap. EVERY MALE IN THE WORLD WILL THINK SHE'S NOT INTERESTED but mana tau she's actually playing hard to get. She explained to cousin that she wanted to test cousin's endurance to see how determined is he to pursue her so she can judge how much she will be loved in the future. Now, it's too late. She can't turn back time anymore and I heard she's become over sensitive. Whenever a guy dates her out,  she will immediately agree and ask him if he's going after her.
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All i can say is the gal Lily is too stupid.. sorry for being harsh.. we gal know when n how to jual mahal but she jz failed big time..


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Ok, group all your friends watch movie and eat buffet....sure damn
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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Nov 18 2009, 03:44 PM)
So you judge all Japanese girls based on porn stars? Fail, dude.  laugh.gif
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You can't blame him it is a stereotype mah. But than Japanese porn industry is twice the size of US despite having less people. shocking.gif

In reality the industry doesn't represent the general population. You know I used to be very crazy about Jpop so I used to think Tokyo streets is filled with hot chicks until I happened to pay a short visit in Tokyo. Yeah I was that crazy. I purposely book a JAL flight to US with an overnight transit in Tokyo. I even go clubbing there but going around in Japan is a nightmare. I almost missed my plane.
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QUOTE(samteng @ Nov 18 2009, 02:08 PM)
To redracer2004,

You may want to read the below post from a SG forum to make yourself feel that you are not alone.

She's already 28 while you're only 24. Happy reading and cheers!

» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «

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TV and comic is not a good way to generalize all koreans and japanese are awesome, look at Rain - before & after, and many other pop artists - before & after

QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 18 2009, 05:09 PM)
Yup, the story really did touch my heart although I am a guy but I know that girls do jual mahal which is stupid. There are actually more details to the story, cousin actually tried to date Lily for at least 6 times but she never agreed. She will say not now, next time or busy, later, kind of crap. EVERY MALE IN THE WORLD WILL THINK SHE'S NOT INTERESTED but mana tau she's actually playing hard to get. She explained to cousin that she wanted to test cousin's endurance to see how determined is he to pursue her so she can judge how much she will be loved in the future. Now, it's too late. She can't turn back time anymore and I heard she's become over sensitive. Whenever a guy dates her out,  she will immediately agree and ask him if he's going after her.
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normally it was her female siblings or even worse - her mom taught her to jual mahal
because for some women of dominant nature which also happens to have a very tolerable spouse, tends to think that every single women should behave like that when it comes to choosing partner.
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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Nov 18 2009, 08:50 PM)
TV and comic is not a good way to generalize all koreans and japanese are awesome, look at Rain - before & after, and many other pop artists - before & after
normally it was her female siblings or even worse - her mom taught her to jual mahal
because for some women of dominant nature which also happens to have a very tolerable spouse, tends to think that every single women should behave like that when it comes to choosing partner.
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But isn't that stupid to think this way? Don't tell me if a guy who stops at the first few tries when rejected doesn't love a girl as much as a guy who never stops trying even REJECTED gazillion of times?. If there are other choices around, why bother to be so persistent? Only when guys got not much choices tend to be persistent and that doesn't mean the guy will love the girl more.
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 19 2009, 09:46 AM)
But isn't that stupid to think this way? Don't tell me if a guy who stops at the first few tries when rejected doesn't love a girl as much as a guy who never stops trying even REJECTED gazillion of times?. If there are other choices around, why bother to be so persistent? Only when guys got not much choices tend to be persistent and that doesn't mean the guy will love the girl more.
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Guys just like predator, finding & hunting a target. When they found out that nice deer is really hard to caught, then target will switch to those smaller animal which more easy to caught, although it may not as good to that deer.

So girls, don't be too jual mahal, guys approaches also have their limit. So please response before the guy fade up. Nice guys not always surrounding you. Same to guys, grab your opportunity, you may regret if you don't take that move.
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 19 2009, 08:46 AM)
But isn't that stupid to think this way? Don't tell me if a guy who stops at the first few tries when rejected doesn't love a girl as much as a guy who never stops trying even REJECTED gazillion of times?. If there are other choices around, why bother to be so persistent? Only when guys got not much choices tend to be persistent and that doesn't mean the guy will love the girl more.
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some women tend to make their success story into doctrine mah
that is what I hate about them, coz they have mislead, and directly caused the suffering into other person

u know that most of the times women tend to receive great influence from their mother, sisters and friends.

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