QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 17 2009, 01:15 PM)
NO NO. Girls, please don't jual mahal for your own good. One of my cousins kena sth like this and it's all becoz girl jual mahal.
Story: Cousin liked a girl, let's call Lily. Lily was a very unpredictable person and seldom talks with people. Lily talks with cousin most so cousin tot he got chance. So he tried asking Lily out a few times but Lily didn't even agree to go even once.
Another girl, Mary, liked my cousin very much and showed it thru her actions and words. My cousin although still likes Lily, began to realise how good Mary was. After 1 mth, Lily saw cousin going out with Mary holding hands as a couple. She looked at them with shiny tears flowing down and suddenly she ran to a corner and cried. Mary went to look after her as Mary and cousin went after to see what happened. Lily bursted in greater tears asking cousin why he never pursued her more and why he accepted Mary. She said that all along, she was also very interested with cousin but just because she tried to jual mahal in the first few tries, she missed it.
MORAL: Girls who play mahal will get the above. Never play mahal unless the guy doesn't have any second choices.
Anyway I totally agree to the story, please appreciate people beside you. Guys & Girls, please don't always think that in the future you will meet a better guys or girls. Time fly, & your spring are limited. Don't wait till when you are near 30's (especially Girls) still very choosy for guys.
I have seen that some nice guys (good looking & kind) keep approach the girls, but saw that the girl never respond to guy kindness & approach, just treat him as a friend. Anyway try to look around nice guys is not all everywhere, so as girls. So please don't over demand your partner, you're not perfect as well, when someone which good enough, try lower down your requirement & accept him/she. Being a relationship doesn't mean you will get married with he/she. If anything don't go well, you can always go back to ground zero/break up.
I can see that especially Chinese who are so conservative, thinking being relationship mean must get married in future. You never know who suit you the best, unless you try being together.
Good Luck to every Guys & Girls.
This post has been edited by jacktai: Nov 18 2009, 05:06 PM