This phenomenon is attributed to the surplus of 34 million males in China and 20 million males in India as well as some Middle Eastern nations. In most other countries, females are more.

This post has been edited by samteng: Oct 10 2009, 03:44 PM

Nope, I was just testing the accuracy of my estimation.

Okay, this looks pretty disturbing. Any idea why the skewed birth ratio? Is it due to sex selective abortion?

In Malaysia, men are more. How unfortunate. It is unfortunate for girls also as many of the men who can't find wives would resort to crimes such as rape and molest.

Perhaps the surplus men need to be sent to Iraq in order to balance up the ratio.

This post has been edited by samteng: Oct 10 2009, 04:06 PM

Perhaps they should do likewise for women if the situation warrants it.

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Added on October 10, 2009, 4:19 pmMore men to build a legion of army to attack other nations. This is basically what the Bush administration did. One of the motives behind the war on Iraq is to control the population of men. The Iraq war alone caused the lives of 40,000 men. Not sure about the Afghan war. Maybe in the near future, US might strike Iran on the pretext of the uranium enrichment program. This will result in another colossal number of casualties.

This post has been edited by samteng: Oct 10 2009, 04:22 PM

My sound advice to TS. Go stay and work in Singapore and find a Singaporean girl. And I'm serious when I say this.

Reason being:

1) There are not many choices of girls here in Malaysia because according to our national statistics (go google up and you will find all sources say the exact same thing), there are less women here compared to men. Ratio is 1.07 man to 1.00 woman.

2) To further widen the already skewed gender ratio, many Malaysian women are being hooked away by Singaporean men as our women are more preferred than their female counterparts.

3) Having said this, more and more Singaporean women are finding it increasingly difficult to find bfs and husbands because many of their male counterparts are marrying foreign brides from Vietnam, China, Thailand, the Philippines and our women are not spared. For your knowledge, in last year 2008 there were 6000 registered marriages between Singaporean men and foreign brides. So where does this leave their female counterparts? Westerners? Guess the number is not significant enough.

4) The reason behind this intense preference for foreign brides among Singaporean men is because they are deemed by their women as incompetent and incapable. While the men deem their women as high flyers, career minded and materialistic. They are not willing accept men who are less qualified than them and stay home to take care of the family.

5) If TS has a university degree, is a professional and financially stable, then I guess there's no problem in finding a Singaporean gf. It does not matter whether you are a Malaysian or some 3rd world country citizen. As long as you have what it takes to get them, you will surely succeed.

This is more than just my 2 cents. Thank you.

This post has been edited by samteng: Nov 15 2009, 03:17 PM

Yes, I agree with TS to some extent but I beg to differ that SG girls would not cast an eye on you if you earn below S$3000. Well, it all depends on how old you are when you earn S$3000. Are you earning this much as a 25 years old or 35 years old? It makes a world of difference. If you are earning this amount at the age of 25 as a freshie or with 1 year of working experience then I'd say that it's quite a great achievement because the market pay rate for freshies in SG ranges from S$2500 to S$3500. So you wouldn't be considered as a lower bracket income earner.

In order to make USD6000 (or X 3.4 = MYR20400), hmm....I guess you will have to be a Cisco or SAP certified consultant with 5 years of working experience to attain that. That's if you are into IT line. If you aren't, then I guess you will need to be a freelancer in graphic design or event manager before you could make that much. If you are specialised in engineering then my take is, you have to work for an oil & gas company to rake in that much. And usually your employment type would be contractual (subject to renewal) instead of permanent.

I guess if TS wishes to pursue a 2nd diploma/degree in some course, it would be a good idea to study at a polytechnic in SG where the intake does not include guys who have been enlisted for NS for 2 years . You would be seeing more than 90% girls in all courses. The ages of the girls there would usually range from 17-19 years which is good since a guy can have a better chance of knowing girls who are way younger than him. Since they are still students, I guess their expectation on your salary would not be as high as S$3000 a month although I don't deny that some of them are pretty spoilt and materialistic sluts. The difference is, you are working and earning your own money while they are still taking money from their parents. You can even afford to support them partially and they would look up to you for that. That would separate you from the rest of their male counterparts who are also still depending on their parents for financial support.

Think about it and let me know your take. I rest my case for now.

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Added on November 15, 2009, 10:38 pmI mean either work part time in SG and study full time OR work full time and study part time. Whichever is more ideal.

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Added on November 16, 2009, 12:50 amOne more point worth considering is, our Malaysian government should make it mandatory that all guys of the future generations serve in NS and spare our girls from it. It should be a 1 year stint. This would give older guys the opportunity to look for younger girls in varsities while having less guys to compete with.

Secondly, to ease the gender ratio imbalance in this country, the govt should approve the establishment of more agencies that supply foreign brides from Vietnam, Thailand, China, and the Philippines. Make sure that these agencies don't charge exorbitant rates for the service rendered.

Thirdly, encourage more foreign women from 3rd world nations to take up permanent residency in this country but don't allow them to work as it will deprive the locals of job opportunities.

I know this is kinda far-fetched but the govt may want to consider employing such measure to satisfy the insatiable desperation of most men here.

PS: Perhaps the Ministry of Human Resource should have gone ahead to allow maids from China to work here without heeding the objection from MCA Wanita when UMNO Wanita did not give 2 hoots about it. After their contract is over, they should be free to look for husbands here.

This post has been edited by samteng: Nov 16 2009, 12:52 AM

This is by no means making TS envious or worry more. I'd just like to share a little bit of my 6-year long singlehood I had before it was finally over couple of months ago. I just hope that my search has ended there and then.

During my college years, I never even had the opportunity to choose a decent looking girl in my course as I was in a predominantly male IT course. So I had to resort to look for girls online. Talk about ICQ during that era. Friendster wasn't so popular then. So finally I found one but it was short-lived. Didn't last for more than 6 months due to some personal issues as well as parental objection that I was still a student and should concentrate on my studies and yada yada. Anyway, she wasn't the best I could find so I decided to keep my options open for fear that if I were to go steady with her, I would miss the good stuff that came along and wouldn't be able to change my mind that easily due to the commitment I would have made.

However, the good stuff did come along but most of them (if not all) were already taken and those who weren't taken were pretty vain and fussy pots. Talk about being b****y and slutty. During my 6-year long singlehood, I can say I did enjoy my freedom quite a great deal but could have done better. However, it would be much more ideal if I didn't have to wait that long before I could find the girl of my dreams. I have been working for 3 years plus and like what TS mentioned, most of the colleagues in the 3 companies (including my present one) I have worked at (men and women alike) are already either attached or married. What made me feel worse was, they are slightly older or around my age. That kinda made me regret for not seizing the opportunity during my tertiary years but then it wasn't so easy due to the intense competition in my campus. I didn't bother to compete with those pricks because I knew somehow I would lose out and be embarassed. Even if I did get a girl of my dreams back then, I knew I wouldn't be able to keep her for long anyway as I would need to deal with those bees who were around her. I saw a lot of breakup cases back in college so that kinda made me dread even more getting engaged in a relationship with those girls. And yeah, like what TS said, these gals would come crying to you asking you to be their listener and spare tyre so that they could get a rebound. So I tried my level best to comfort them and cheer them up but darn, all I did at the end of the day was reconcile them to their abusive and possessive jerky bfs. So ultimately, I felt like a sohai myself cuz little did I realise that they would only treat those guys who were willing to listen to them as mere FRIENDS and nothing more. You practically enter into the FRIENDSHIP zone when you lend those emotionally bruised girls your ear.

So finally I just had to resort to Friendster/Facebook to find the girl of my dreams and luckily I succeeded. I can foresee that more girls would start giving a damn about me now than before. Girls only come to you when you least expect and need them (probably they want you to regret your decision or some sh!t). But whenever you need them most, they distance themselves from you. This also explains why girls are somewhat attracted to attached/married men as espoused in one of the threads here. Talk about tried and tested goods. BF/Husband material. It is a bizzare society we are living in.

I hereby rest my case

This post has been edited by samteng: Nov 16 2009, 12:00 PM

The next best thing to do is quickly and simply grab a girl to be your gf. Don't care if she looks average of below average just to prove to the girls out there that at least you are wanted and not SAD = Single and Desperate. I can bet you that more girls will pay attention to you when you don't freaking need any.

An average looking girl can be used as a stepping stone to your ultimate dream girl I guess. Just like looking for jobs and changing cars...haha. Okay, I know this is kind of a cranky and whacky idea but I believe it might work. Belum cuba belum tau.

Which club got chun chicks ah? Can recommend ah? Is it Zouk? Velvet? Quattro?

Yes, and you must always follow your little brother. Sometimes he can be a better navigator...

If your little brother can stand up and make the first move, so can older brother.

Aiya, no need to be so susah lah. Just call in 100k foreign women from China, Thailand, Vietnam, and The Philippines gao dim jor.

It will ensure that there will be no more single men like TS around. However, it will cause many women to be single and let the gameshow begin. By then, love will be a man's game and it will be men's turn to play hard to get and jual mahal. See how desperate these girls can go. Probably to the extent of stealing husbands or being a 2nd/3rd wife or mistress.

Ya lor, but on the other hand they all don't want to appreciate the guys here and instead prefer to marry some ang moh to boost their ego like "owh, I've got a mat salleh hubby" that sort of crap.

So let it be lah and let this phenomenon teach those cocky Malaysian Chinese women a good lesson just like their Singaporean counterparts.

Having said this, there will be no more women complaining of being sexually harassed, getting unwanted attention, raped, and what not. There will be no more man-haters. No more girls going around telling their friends "no guys can be trusted cuz there are no more good guys left". And there will be no more bad guys for them to choose from even.

You will see a lot of woman-haters by women themselves who in the very beginning wanted to protect their own species against those horny males. Talk about singing a different tune.

Haha, you know when my female friends (those not so good looking ones) tell me that they are afraid to go out alone at night or even in the day for fear that they might get raped, I felt like telling them "don't worry lah, nobody will bother to rape you also". But better not lah, cuz scared kena gao gao

If they do that, I will say, takkan you want ppl to rape you meh? Siao za bo.

This post has been edited by samteng: Nov 17 2009, 11:27 AM

Well, that's your twisted perception. Not to mention the foul language you use in this particular post albeit censored. Let the mod decide what's decent or indecent then. Perhaps your post should be reported as well.

To redracer2004,

You may want to read the below post from a SG forum to make yourself feel that you are not alone.

She's already 28 while you're only 24. Happy reading and cheers!

Hi TS,

I'm just wondering if you have a sister or a very close female cousin? If yes, then I can safely conclude that there shouldn't be much problem relating well to girls.

I'm also curious to know that if you do have a sister/female cousin, is she also the jual mahal/play hard to get type?

This post has been edited by samteng: Nov 20 2009, 09:19 AM