Serious 24 and still never had a relationship, No gf until now, I am 24
|
|
 Nov 7 2009, 05:22 PM
Return to original view | Post
#1
|
 
Junior Member
339 posts Joined: Jun 2008 From: Cheras, KL  
|
QUOTE(POYOZER @ Nov 7 2009, 04:54 PM) The circle of friends during working life is smaller compare to study life. So the probability to hit a perfect girl is lesser. Agree with POYOZER, When studying got girls but no money dating, When working got money but no girls to date... Life just confusing... |
|
|
|
|
|
Nov 8 2009, 09:33 PM
Return to original view | Post
#2
|
|
Junior Member
339 posts Joined: Jun 2008 From: Cheras, KL
|
QUOTE(rainbowemo @ Nov 8 2009, 09:29 PM) when working dun have time for a relationship... Anyway time is to be manage, unless you work 7 days a week from 10am- 10pm, then you may don't have time for dating.But anyway, we have rest day, so be fully ultilise the day you rest, date friend or the guy you interest. Or you like me even Sat & Sun the day I rest, I go attend class or study. So then you may out of time for dating. |
|
|
Nov 18 2009, 05:02 PM
Return to original view | Post
#3
|
|
Junior Member
339 posts Joined: Jun 2008 From: Cheras, KL
|
QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 17 2009, 01:15 PM) NO NO. Girls, please don't jual mahal for your own good. One of my cousins kena sth like this and it's all becoz girl jual mahal. Anyway I totally agree to the story, please appreciate people beside you. Guys & Girls, please don't always think that in the future you will meet a better guys or girls. Time fly, & your spring are limited. Don't wait till when you are near 30's (especially Girls) still very choosy for guys.Story: Cousin liked a girl, let's call Lily. Lily was a very unpredictable person and seldom talks with people. Lily talks with cousin most so cousin tot he got chance. So he tried asking Lily out a few times but Lily didn't even agree to go even once. Another girl, Mary, liked my cousin very much and showed it thru her actions and words. My cousin although still likes Lily, began to realise how good Mary was. After 1 mth, Lily saw cousin going out with Mary holding hands as a couple. She looked at them with shiny tears flowing down and suddenly she ran to a corner and cried. Mary went to look after her as Mary and cousin went after to see what happened. Lily bursted in greater tears asking cousin why he never pursued her more and why he accepted Mary. She said that all along, she was also very interested with cousin but just because she tried to jual mahal in the first few tries, she missed it. MORAL: Girls who play mahal will get the above. Never play mahal unless the guy doesn't have any second choices. I have seen that some nice guys (good looking & kind) keep approach the girls, but saw that the girl never respond to guy kindness & approach, just treat him as a friend. Anyway try to look around nice guys is not all everywhere, so as girls. So please don't over demand your partner, you're not perfect as well, when someone which good enough, try lower down your requirement & accept him/she. Being a relationship doesn't mean you will get married with he/she. If anything don't go well, you can always go back to ground zero/break up. I can see that especially Chinese who are so conservative, thinking being relationship mean must get married in future. You never know who suit you the best, unless you try being together. Good Luck to every Guys & Girls. This post has been edited by jacktai: Nov 18 2009, 05:06 PM |
|
|
Nov 18 2009, 05:24 PM
Return to original view | Post
#4
|
|
Junior Member
339 posts Joined: Jun 2008 From: Cheras, KL
|
QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 18 2009, 06:09 PM) Yup, the story really did touch my heart although I am a guy but I know that girls do jual mahal which is stupid. There are actually more details to the story, cousin actually tried to date Lily for at least 6 times but she never agreed. She will say not now, next time or busy, later, kind of crap. EVERY MALE IN THE WORLD WILL THINK SHE'S NOT INTERESTED but mana tau she's actually playing hard to get. She explained to cousin that she wanted to test cousin's endurance to see how determined is he to pursue her so she can judge how much she will be loved in the future. Now, it's too late. She can't turn back time anymore and I heard she's become over sensitive. Whenever a guy dates her out, she will immediately agree and ask him if he's going after her. Anyway life just like in drama, but sometime not as perfect as drama.So please accept what you are. You are not always the one who controling the game. So guys & girls please don't too much when come to relationship, it will only ruining the situation. Take the opportunity before you miss it, at least it will be you memory or experience. All the best. |
|
|
Nov 19 2009, 08:57 AM
Return to original view | Post
#5
|
|
Junior Member
339 posts Joined: Jun 2008 From: Cheras, KL
|
QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Nov 19 2009, 09:46 AM) But isn't that stupid to think this way? Don't tell me if a guy who stops at the first few tries when rejected doesn't love a girl as much as a guy who never stops trying even REJECTED gazillion of times?. If there are other choices around, why bother to be so persistent? Only when guys got not much choices tend to be persistent and that doesn't mean the guy will love the girl more. Guys just like predator, finding & hunting a target. When they found out that nice deer is really hard to caught, then target will switch to those smaller animal which more easy to caught, although it may not as good to that deer.So girls, don't be too jual mahal, guys approaches also have their limit. So please response before the guy fade up. Nice guys not always surrounding you. Same to guys, grab your opportunity, you may regret if you don't take that move. |
| Change to: |  0.0232sec
 0.92
 6 queries
 GZIP Disabled
Time is now: 30th November 2025 - 02:43 PM |
Quote