TS, I shall be patient with you one more time.

Let me tell you about a guy I met once, back in college. He was a friend of a friend, studied in a different college, just came to visit his friend one day and met me and all his friend's friends.

He was a jerk. He had an arrogant smirk permanently pasted on his face, and an attitude of smug superiority to match. Every word he spoke reeked of how awesome he thought he was and how lame everything and everyone else is. In fact, most of what he talked about was insulting other people, ideas, things - basically everything. He was incredibly off-putting.

The girls in our group saw him for what he was instantly, and they all made excuses to leave within 5 minutes. I felt obligated to my friend to hang around him a while longer, and I lived to regret it. What struck me was how this guy and my friend - who, up until then, was a good friend - were the same. They both had the same "I'm cool and everyone else is lame, and that's what makes me cool" personality - they reinforced and fed off one another. So long as they both hung around each other, they would always be this way and never know obnoxious they were. It made me think less of my friend.

You remind me of him.

Sure, you'll protest and say "I'm not arrogant!" No, you're probably not. But if, as you say, you can't talk to a girl for 5 minutes without repelling her, then you have an attitude problem. It may not be the same as that guy. But no one here can tell you what it is, because they don't know you. And your friends won't be much help because they're the same as you.

Every one of your posts demonstrate that you are not aware of this. You keep thinking you're not handsome enough to get the girls, and therefore you blame the girls for only going after handsome guys.

It's easier to blame other people than to take a good hard look at yourself, isn't it?

how do u think they re handsome in the first place, by feedback of the gurls or by ur judgement?

This post has been edited by dattebayo: Oct 7 2009, 12:27 PM

TS, are you that desperate??

our eyes can tell. Our brain and the way we perceive might be different, but it usually works the same way.

when we see this pic, we straight away know this guy is=handsome, fit


And when we see this pic, we really


eventhou no human being are alike, we think differently, but most of our brain work the same way round.(thats why u see so many lowyatiers hitting babysiaoz, i think so far i nv seen ppl scold babysiaozz ugly, because our judment are pretty alike)

dude, we usually call people who are 21-24's called "old virgin" LOL
Do more homework, get your first blood before it too late..
well, a lot chicks attracted me as well.. muahaha

maybe you like men

hmm babysiaoz is the new /k/ princess oh?

i personally think brad pitt is faggot like,
the second pic is no-brainer

what's more important for a guy is his confidence and willingness to tackle problems, give u a handsome face like those korean drama characters but when facing small problems already start to whine, cry, b**** around, however handsome also no use, coz it cannot provide security sense to wimmenz.

Outings with girls in real life, facilitated via online method, may do the trick.

she is pretty

ok, maybe guys dont really understand how to determine handsome guys( since that is like, kinda gay)

Anyway, if u ask around girls to compare the 2 pics, 99% will agree brad pitt lengzai, maybe that 1% might like the fat-goth-wannabe-attention whore.

but u notice in the world got that 1%, so TS should find those 1%

hahah ok so babysiaoz is the new /k/ princess then.

where is ts pictar?

gip us fwenster facebook link !

7 days passed since thread opened. TS, found ur gf?

Dude, I'm 24 same as you and I'm still single as well. No doubt I agreed with you that school life is much easier to get a girl because you can see each other almost every day, you got plenty of choices. Once you are out of school/colleage, you'll be in office all the time and that depend on where you work and what you work as.

But all these things are actually depends on the people you hang out with. I'm same like you, I don't go clubbing, I seldom drink, even if I drink, I prefer wine than beer so clubbing is a no no for me. I stuck in front of computer most of the time and even I go out, I prefer to go drink a cup of nice coffee than walking here and there for window shopping.

Honestly, with my life, I really can't know much girl because the friends I hang out with all are the same, I can't know more people except those taken girls or male friends. To change this, what you have to do is like what others said, hang with the right group of people, you can know more through your colleague, friends, interest, etc. By knowing more people, your circle become bigger and you got the chance to hook up with a girl that might having the same interest as you.

As a man, it doesn't matter if you got your first love late, I saw a lot of girls that married to guy which is 5-15 years elder than herself, imagine that.

very true...

i got 1 leng chai friend..til nw,after breaking off with his ex, he is still single...
i am pretty sure it is because he cant find the right one..

so you see, leng chai or nt leng chai..all dudes face the same prob

This post has been edited by vivienne85: Oct 7 2009, 09:24 PM

^maybe he discovered his true orientation?

im 44 and still single

I'm 24 too, single also.

then how do u rate urself?

pls post some drills of yers

the answer is on his nick

Ugly or handsome, rich or poor, you still need game. The girl that you're attracted to would not know of your existence if you dont go over and say hi. Grow a pair and get a bigger social circle. Problem solved.