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This post has been edited by cutiepooh: Nov 2 2010, 01:49 PM

u are in a state of denial

Why did I have such a state????

reason why u break up?

Aiyar... u play that guy feeling again... Give him a hope at beginning and take it back....

Sad to hear

Why did u started out with him in the first place?
Love at first sight? Crush?

Initially, I told him not to rush me .. He is a kind of man in rushing gf to marry him. I met him mid of March, then april I accepted him and May I announced he is my officially bf. I brought him to meet my parents and friends. I gave him the contacts of my close friends and even my brother is trying to be his friend now too. He and me are the same type people. We always want to win. But for him, He is a very much stronger guy that I'd have ever seen in my life.

He did so much that made me feel uncomfortable. Everytime when we meet, he will ask me to have serious talk about our marriage. I told him we just met and I need more times to get along with you. There is nothing you can rush and hurry me to be your wife now I told him. Then he told me He is a business man, When he starts his business and purchase a new office, He has no time to marry me and have extra $$$$ to cover me.. I felt like "WTF" doing his business and no time to marry in future???

Then he called my brother and mum sometimes to check me, they like having so much of things that I didn't know at all. When I found out that I feel so angry coz I don't like the feeling of being checked. He told my brother how much he loves me and he did tell me how much love he put on me now is 100%. He expected me to return back the same. I told him before we started , I told him, don't rush me everything and I will spend my life and time to get along with you. I knew he is ready to commit with me, but the way he loves me is not the desire ways I wish to. I felt pressure. He always asked me not to do this and that. I asked him what happened to him??? Then he told me sorry sometimes coz his ex haunted him too much before but he just don't wish I will run like what his ex did to him before............

Gal, is he the one that you're planning to marry with?

How come you suddenly don't have feeling on him?

If no feeling, then how come you both started at the first place?

She just met him for 1 month and started dating.... and more obvious reason because he keep insisted her to be his gf, rather than she really likes him and want to be with him.

hmm...seems like my story with my ex

He was too pushy. It scares ppl off sometimes.

i saw everything u been there is so rushing O_o
u been 2gether for few months only

I am sorry that we couldn't work out for this moment.. I didn't play his heart. At the 1st play we met, we hang out we are both have the same click. I knew I like him and I did got feeling to him. But I don't know why it not keep for last forever!!!!!

I was giving him a chance to try out. I told him I can be your very close friend first and eventually an official bf. But the way he wanted me to be is overed what he has to be. Example, He acted like he is my husband and started to control me and asked me don't do this and that and corrected me want me to change to be like this and that and don't do that again....

alright, read your post.

Hmm....

Maybe he feels not secured enough? Try to make him believe that you will be there with him and no matter how, you are the person who going to "solve problems" and not just run away.

is a cycle, she accept him is to filled the emptiness that cause by the earlier ex that left her.

Big mistake big mistake

Nvm lor........ There is many guy still outside......

What past take as experince..... Btw, i thought u r the one wanna rush marry ler

Dont worry........ I always belief u, just that most guy always have the fear feeling...... The common mistake guy make.............................



He havent learn it.......

I think you were right to break up with him. Why so kan cheong?

Yes, I can love him if he doesn't do so much to disappoint me. He wanted me to trust him so much and I knew he is lack of securities so I did something what a gf shouldn't do at all ... He promised me things won't be happen a day but the thing really happened and it was fast until only 1 week to ruin my name now.....

Yes, Before I haven accept him, He called my friends and asked my friends why he did so much to me , sacrifice alot that I don't respond to him and be his gf. I don't know all these until my best friend she came to tell me, "your bf said he had spent so much on you and rushing us information and wanted me to be his gf. "My friends they all told my ex gave her's some times. She will definitely give you the best answer.

He is a guy who wants face lots!!!!!! If I want something from him, I must be a very good pussie cat but I never requested anything and not being a pussie cat so he felt I am stronger and call my mum and brother to say so many negative things and my brother and mum questioned me ..............

it is cos you know him not too much before you started with him.
so after both of you got together, you feel that actually both of you don't suits each other, that's why you find him a stranger to you.
it's sad to hear that the guy is so hurt now for this.
my advise is, you try again to know him and talk to him then only see how

Cutiepooh, maybe is the fate of u..........

Guess u take a long long rest lar.... Dont need so rush to have a BF..........................

go be single

Well, i don't believe both can go together only after a period of time to know each other.

As long as there's good impression and affection happened in between, it stands a possibility to couple up.

And the aim to couple up is to adapt to each other and tolerate the goods and bads of boths'.

My two cents.

No no no no no..........

That is bad................

Frankly, I think he's a total ass. He exhibits classic symptoms of controlling behaviour. Not the kind of guy who'd make a good boyfriend, let alone husband. TS, you should be relieved that you got rid of him.

Is he still harassing you and your family and friends?

I know people like him and I also know women who go for people like him. I reckon he hit the nail on the head when he said he was a businessman because of the way he seems to organise his life in stages. He's starting a business and would therefore like to settle down before he has no time to court another. He is trying to use logic to force marriage upon you. What???

I didn't rush everything. He told me so much of things , I told him to plan, Wait and don't rush. We can plan, I knew I knew all I knew.. My parents and brother did scold me cause he is too love me. They asked me to forget about the past and marry him , coz they said he is a good guy and all of them love him ... It confused me now!!!!!!!!!
I truly understood why he feels no secure this time as his ex betrayed him and ran with another guy. More worst to left him a bad debt. but I don't mind at all, I told him, If anything you want to know don't look for my family and friends. Talk to me. and I very concentrating in my current jobs and I need to audit and always have meeting. I told him we can meet friday to sunday but monday to thursday just let me to have my own time to do my own things. He told my brother we were being met up with insufficient time. I don't have much time for him...

7 chai, I am not accepted him to fill my emptiness. I been thinking and no ex and past in my life to accept him. For the 1st month we really worked out very nice. All of my friends and family they can see it!!!!!! But whenever he did something to me my head somethings started to vivid and some scenes like showing before it made me feel stunned sometimes.. I got a mixed up feeling.... I tried not to run away and face it. I told him the truth and I told him sorry the way you wanted me to love you like what you are doing right now is can't make sense now. but I try to walk it out and will do things with u and to start our own story... It nothing much for my previous relation now 7chai...

I knew many guys outside. even my friends and colleagues they are chasing me now. But I didn't want to move further with them and I stop here right now that I don't want anybody now beside myself. I really want to make things clear and to start my new life....

I told him to break he not happy. I explained to him last week, I told him all the things and before with him I got a relation that he never knew , He told me he didn't mind and he still show his win win face coz a guy I understand.. I told him if things can make you feel better, treat like you dumb me now ok!!! I don't want in future you blame me and a good guy like you, rich, tall, sayang gf , many girls will come to you I am sure...

er to him thats how he plan out his life ma. nothing wrong ma. just that since she cant accept the way he plan his life then its good that they breakup.

Sweetie, now you say this is bad.

Later or sooner you will get what i mean.



p.s: smart people will never use "NO" to disagree with people's statement

i thought you are engaged? :

Well I disagree with this methodology simply because I've seen couples seperate after marrying out of convenience or because it was simply the next step to take. "Eh, we've been together so long, want to get married ah?". You don't find marriage, it finds you. How many times have you heard this question; "When do you want to get married?". Can you really time it? Marriage isn't supposed to be a process, unless you are a really traditional person.

I aint smart, i am humsap..... Humsap only say YES to "Make Love"

the man is fail.

cutiepooh is right to dump him.

no one has right to control anyone.

true but marriage are very subjective. sad to hear even till this day there is arranged marriage but it dont mean it will be doomed to fail right?

instead of him pushing for marriage im rather worried that he likes to contact her friends and family. i find that very disturbing.

Yes, So before started with him I did tell him the way u love me won't be received as what I should have love you .. but I can try to learn your life, your way to communicate, your way to eat and many.. But he still fails cause he rushed me in the 1st state and told me himself like this way. U know a girl like ur age is not a gold anymore, on the other hand, for a guy the age like me I am a gold metal. You should have happy with me and you should be frightening now" I felt like he was threatening me on something but I still smile @ him. I told him, a girl like me, I don't have much youth now I know and If I am a great girl I could be a mother with 2 kids now. The reason why I am still single, Coz I lost the one I love in my life and I couldn't have find back the feeling I should have for now .. But I am happy coz I can make it in finally that I accepted What I'd lost and to start my new life. The most important, I got a lovely family and friends. and I happy with my current job now. I told you honestly, even I don't have guy in my life I can still support myself and I can be happy even I am single..

I really no face to accept any guys. My friends all told me to give them chances and I told them, can you all don't take chance to do this to me. Let me to rest and take a deep breathe....

Single.. yes I should have!!! I told my mum I am sorry. Coz they guy she loves I couldn't have accepted now....

I told my ex, We need more times to do things out together. I didn't blame him coz i knew he really loves me...

Yalor.... last time already told u, that u r too rush de.....And u make him fall to deep into the world of love....

so what is actually the problem now?

ya lor...
you guys just dated like a month or two and he's talking abt marriage??
that's way too fast..

I knew I am not young now. but still I wish I can spend my couple months to know him more. I respect his parents. I didn't ask his friend how he behaves and what kind of bad habits he got.. He is a regular smoker and drink at midnight. He goes some club because of business this one i understand. He go full body massage which let thai and china ladies touch all I am ok. Maybe I am a open minded lady. All I don't mind and I just wish him to give me some times not being possessive. and now I truly saw his real face. If I don't follow what he said, He will just take a key and slam a door leave the house. Business man is stress I understand but isn't we don't talk about working life when we meet and maybe we can share it when both are in better mood...

Ya, He plans alot. went to bridal shops, restaurant, hotels to ask for the package...

yes I thought to engage with him this X'mas. Is a good time to get along with him with couple months if he allows me to get to know him more. but he rushed his own happiness and then now I ran.... My bad...

He called my mum coz he loves me, he wanna cares for me and he wanna spend more time for me.....

agreed agreed...
i aso dun like ppl keep pushing and forcing..
hate it so much..

What an absolute douchebag.

You should have kicked him to the roadside the second he said this.

Some guy r wanna fast make the gal settle down............. like that is the best ways to test a gal is that gal is sincere or just play play..................

Hahahahaha

never date someone who is looking for a spouse

unless you are looking for a spouse

i believe people who date without the intention of marriage can end with a beautiful marriage compared to those who do

The hell? 3-4 months only talking about marriage? The guy is rushing too fast. I think you made the right decision calling things off

maybe separate for 2 months. to think over and try 2nd chance to accept him if he still loves me. coz I really don't feel to continue now and my brother did break off yesterday for his 8 year relations. I understood how my brother feels and I saw too much of breaking off it makes me feel love is so fragile... I am not qualified to console my brother , I even so afraid to see him cries coz I never want to cry front of my friends and family coz all the time I am the tough girl for them... but yesterday I shedded my tears coz I saw the broken heart person it will happen to my lovely brother. A guy plans to marry next year.. and I didn't sleep whole night from the pub accompanied with my brother....

He asked me to marry and I asked him to wait and plan, I need to get along with his family too...

That the unique part of guy......where it cant accept by certain gal...............

Gal that mostly cant accept is those gal who play too much in the past.....................

hmm ...

quite hard for 2 ppl to be together if they have different goals.

the boy wanna marry fast but girl wanna take it slow.

my opinion is, if the boy truly loves the girl, he will respect her wishes and take it slow.

the boy is being selfish.

I cannot kick him and all the time I have to smile. I think he is right for my age I am isn't a gold now, But I can be alone forever this is what I knew myself very clearly...

I never knew he is turning to be like this. coz when I 1st met him, He is a normal person, A guy just recovered from the 7 years broken off relation that he planned to marry his ex....

but my brother now is broken off, my brother wanna talk to him, it makes me in the middle I have to contact with him. The situation is so "Embarassing"

let me share my story.

oct 03 - got to know my ex-gf
jan 04 - couple up with my ex-gf

jul 06 - ex-gf moved into my room

jul 08 - ex-gf started cheating on me
sep 08 - ex-gf said wanna break up

15 nov 08 - i got to know my current-gf
22 nov 08 - ex-gf finally moved out of my room
23 nov 08 - i met up with my current-gf for the first time

8 dec 08 - coupled up with my current-gf


marriage? yes we did talk about that.

i am 28 this year, she is 23 this year. she said she wanna get married around age 27, 28.

i am fine with that.

Gal, i understand your feeling.

Once i also try to look for a guy who gives me the same feeling i had with the one i loved so much during my secondary school.

You know, because of this insistence, I denied so many great guys out there and till recently only I started to be more open minded.

Feeling doesn't last long, instead of saying a sense of "feeling", i would like to say good impression and what the person has that worth you to go after.

I'm with my ex now, don't ask me what our relationship is, i don't know. The only thing i know is: relationship is for both to work on.

Perhaps, you really need to take a rest.

dont be the middle man
just pass him the contact and ask him to be friends without you

+1 on that

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Added on August 4, 2009, 12:07 pmtotally agree on that...
no point in rushing it if you guys dont know each other long and well enough..

This post has been edited by vivienne85: Aug 4 2009, 12:07 PM

You are correct, couples can stay together because it makes sense. The question then becomes whether or not she can accept a marriage based mainly on understanding rather than feeling? I don't think the two should be mutually exclusive because as important an ingredient as love is, you still need to work on your marriage and this requires understanding, patience, compromise and a host of other spices. It seems to me that this guy is very much a person who is looking for a traditional wife i.e. someone that stays home, takes care of the house, cooks for him, etc. Can she accept this? It's subjective, you are right.

I find this technique rather disturbing as well. It's like he is desperate to make a good impression on them in hope that they will also pressure her to marry him. It's rather stupid to think that this is an effective tactic and yet many guys make the same mistake. When they argue with their gfs for example, they speak to the best friend/friends hoping for them to pressure her into accepting his apology.

seems from your reply to all lyn buddies here, i think you dont like him at all already.
then don't care bout what your friends or family says. just tell them you know what you're doing.
he cant get to control you, so he made ppl beside you to control you right... that is annoying.
also, he smoke, drink, and let other girls touch touch. NO WAY LE...

why is love so fragile?

Why is this happen to a couple who is planning to get married next year?

debbie can start a new thread "why is love so fragile"
lol

in life nothing is certain except for death

Yes debbies.. somemore I only want to care my brother now.. He needs more supports now. I hope he can be better. my ex is msn me and asked me don't be busy body that my brother broke off like he is knowing so much again.... hmmm my brother with his gf 8 years to compare of coz I knew better than him... He like saying something up to me, don't campur tangan.. is this a big biz guy like to behave all the time??? I care my brother coz both of them broken heart I just try to help but not pacthing .. haiz..

The problem with love is that it can cause inactivity. You think that because of love, you simply don't have to put any effort into your relationship anymore. The though of doing something different and keeping it fresh doesn't spring to mind until it's too late. Don't take "love" for granted is all I can say.

yea.. just like debbieyss said.
so many good guys out there. if this doesnt suits then let go.
don't let the guy scare you bout your age.. telling you that your age doesnt permits you to look around more n should just accept him.
if it is true love, even in coming 10years, it will not be late for you.. or anyone.

cheers~

he's yr bro le...
of cos u know him better than any1 else...
i think yr bro needs lots of support,esp from siblings...

the bolded part=

This post has been edited by vivienne85: Aug 4 2009, 12:24 PM

Err. My brother and father said guys smoke , drinks are normal now. hahaha they not being as conservative like before. I can accepted this , Coz I do smoke sometimes and Drink. but I never let guys to touch. But nevermind, I understand that his job requirement. and I can close one eye and open one eye in order to be his good wife. All I plan this to be and I only need a couple months to adapt myself .. I told him give me times, He forces me like times? how long. ok 3 days. I look at him. He said ok 3 weeks. I asked him why?? then he said ok 1 month, one month if u don't and can't tell me what reason I gotta tell you what to do.. I ended up with "................................"

My brother is a good man that I'd ever seen. He no eat, not partying, no smoke, not even change big cars and all his salary in to the sharing account with his gf. coz he wants to give the best wedding to his gf.. Eerrrr.. pity my brother and I can't do anything for them...

cutetiepooh, what's the story with your bro?

also, forget this guy liao already. :

a man who rushes forces you to marry her will never be good. :

Cutiepooh, I doubt this will ever get through to you. But I feel obliged to say it, and hope that you will listen.

He is not a good person.

Do you understand what "controlling behaviour" means? It means everything he does is not because he loves you. It's because he wants to own you. He wants a puppet whose strings he can pull, a pretty flower vase he can bring out and show to his friends and family, and she will always and only do everything he says.

He says things that insult and humiliate you? He says things that almost sound like threats? He keeps pressuring you into doing things you're not comfortable doing, being someone you're not? He gets violently angry when he doesn't get his way?

All of these are signs of controlling behaviour. There's even a name for it, because psychiatrists, therapists and counsellors for abused women see it all the time. He is sick in the head, and he is a real danger to any woman he gets his hands on.

Don't contact him again. Delete and block his number from your phone. Tell your family and all your friends to do the same, and tell them why.

Then go find yourself a guy who will respect you.

I don't talk to him personal things beside my brother's things. Coz my brother calls him too .. I hope nothing bothering me right now as I only want my brother to be ok!!!!!

I told my mum the same. I told her nothing to be worried. U only need to sit in the wedding dinner watch me holding with the right guy I choose and announced to all ppls that I am married that is enough.. I did ask him isit your ex haunted you so much, then he said don't talk his ex. But I can feel his deep wound that his ex left him.. I just tried to ask him relax. all has past. He admited that he got too much sacrificings for his ex, and he is very hurt. I hope this is a good time to think what we wanna to have in the future.. He always said my age should watch out now...

cutiepooh, please listen to n00b13.

this man is trying to possess you.

Yes, my ex has the same situation as yours. He couldn't let go of his previous relationship and hence he doesn't have confidence in me.

that's the problem with most couple out there... but, actually if one has no confidence towards another, the other should try instill and help to build the confidence for him/her...

yeww.. so possessive. good move you made.

Yeah, that's what i'm doing now.

you have my full support Go Go Go, Full Charge!

Geeze you're relationship sounds like a surgical procedure. He must have some reallly attractive attributes (or just 1?) to have you hooked the way you are. It's as though he wants to get you "out of the way" before focusing on his business. I don't see why he can't do both and it becomes a matter of this or that. I have little doubt in my mind that you suffer the consequences should you decide to succumb to his demands.

That being said, what's with the perception that anyone who drinks and smokes is bad? Who says people who do so cannot be conservative. Those are habits, not personality traits. You can't cetegories people who drink and smoke under any specific demographic group. The very thought that you believe this stereotype leads me to believe that you are a traditionalist when it comes to marriage which is why you are considering doing his bidding. There is no right or wrong in this, only what you can tolerate. Some girls I know can live with the knowledge that their husbands go to nightclubs and as long as they don't see anything first hand, they live in ignorant bliss. Another woman I know has a husband who has a girlfriend and started another family. He splits his time between both women.

In short, whatever floats your boat.

I don't what had happened now.. Problem seems to be happened too fast from the start till the end now.....

hahahahaha YEW!!!!! u r like my style I always yew my friends

i totally agreed with what n00b13 said.

it's 50:50. either u will be happiness after marriage or suffering..


good luck TS.

think twice before u decide...

We must have something attracted to each other so we will accept each other to be gf/bf. At first he is a normal guy for me, as we always said, when times go by we will find out more things and how the one behave in their lives. Sometimes I really can't understand why he talked so much to my mum it made me felt more guilty .... He told my mum that he loves me cause I don't like other girls suck his $$$$$ and I am too independant too.

He prefer I become a soft-toy a good soft gf front of him, He said I am good in everything just I am being too "sombong" and not accept what he suggested and planned to me... but what I need to do I have done and What he should do I think he did too. I think broken off now is the best desicion and I hope he can really focus his job now 1st!!!! Cause I still treat him as a friend like before...

It wasn't that bad lar. Different POV only.

He's desperate to settle down.

TS,

Ur guy just totally like the Wong Hei's character in Burning Flame 3.. he will prepare n work out everything for his gal.. n his gal juz need to listen n obey him.. it's total like a boss n a staff.. anyway, i believe not much of gals will like tis kind of guy.. he is too over.. wat make me is he distributing ur family n friends.. if i m u will straight away cut off everything n no 2nd chance for him.. imagine now u juz his gf he ady over possession wat abt when u r his wife?

Lol. The guy is full ofhimself he has taken your feelings into consideration. Good riddance.

This is the most sensible thing you've said so far. It's obvious that the reason he's talked to your mom/friends is to get them to pressure you into accepting his marriage proposal. He comes across as a cunning and manipulative, though he hasn't made the smartest decisions.

Good riddance to bad rubbish. Trust me, you can do a lot better.

hi cutie. i'm sorry to hear about the break up. but it is understandable as you are trying to accept him and know him and be sure he is really the one for you since your relationship is more or less still in the early stages.

his rushing you and saying stuff that is not nice to hear just to achieve that goal is not acceptable. he should be considering your thoughts and feelings and go a slower pace since you're not sure yet.

a marriage is not about your family but mainly, it's about you. you're the one who has to live with him in a marriage. so don't worry, if you're sure he's not for you than you're doing the right thing.

but do give him credit that he had managed to please your family and has considered living with you for the rest of his life.

Haha, first time I encounter such feelings like yours. I guess it's like LOVE just vanish into thin air?

so i said to break off is the best solution now as he is suffering too. He told my brother that I am the one to suffer his life now. Caused once I said break off, he didn't agree and he tried to patching it but it failed. and last wednesday he texted me when I was playing badminton after working with my colleagues. He asked to break off... coz he couldn't concentrate to do well in working times....

U got the same feeling like me meh????

I'm sorry but.. I actually LOL'ed.

however there are girls like this type of guy.. and feel so xin fu . because they no need to worry a thing as every thing is plan and they dun even need to think.
i am not this kind of guy , that y ex and me doesn't last.

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Added on August 4, 2009, 4:55 pmhowever there are girls like this type of guy.. and feel so xin fu . because they no need to worry a thing as every thing is plan and they dun even need to think.
i am not this kind of guy , that y ex and me doesn't last.

This post has been edited by juzdeal: Aug 4 2009, 04:55 PM

O.o what so suffering about making sure you marry the right person. He is too impatient. O.o and why is he so unprofessional. work is work. Work and personal business shouldn't mix.

Ai yo. Sui Teng what happened o why LOL ???

I also not sure cause he told my brother. He not tell me things, what's on his mind all I don't know. Peoples said we are lack of communications but I think we don't want to tell each other maybe...

don't wanna tell each other = lack of communication lo.

you sure you wanna let it go?

get to it girl, his just doing business with you. his preparing his "business" and now his felt that you break up with him will cause him loses in his "investment" for the pass few month time, that s y his trying hard to save back the his "whole heartly" prepared "business.... no offense but base on what you told us, this is the conclution i get get.....

a relation between boy and girl was never a business... commitment alone are not enuf.... true relation was about achieving a balance between you and he, giving and accept .... without calculating how much the giving <<< this is the main point bout a relation

in your case, the balance was not there.... his keep thinking that he gave a lot , so hoping in return that you too, will return him that much.... and that is business, not a relation... the weird feeling your having now is telling you that the balance is not there, therefore causing you massive suffering...

yes he might be hurt by other girl b4, but be reminded that now his facing YOU, a totally new girl which have nothing to do with his ex-gf.... so this guy, your bf, why bothering to be so kan ciong anyway ? this also prove that his not having total believe in you... he keep scare that you might do the same thing as his ex does, thus keep on trying to control you by knowing more bout you trough your family, and gain your family trust , hoping that your family will try to help him to control you....


true.... now his like this , so no need aspect he will control you less when you two get married. he will only control you more after you two get married and then you'll get a living hell which cause by marriage sickness

so you stil wan accept him bec or what ? you wanna stay with this kind of person for your entire life ? your call...

p/s : your BF is sick.... so, no need try to recover him cuz this is about himself/his own ,and you cant change a person....

This post has been edited by sammm33: Aug 4 2009, 06:16 PM

truth to say,im agree with other members,that the guy is being calculative,whats the rush of marriage if both doesnt knew each other well yet. To get to know a person,need time and share alot and go thru things together whether its happy times or sad times.

I also dono as he is too "sombong" sometimes... He thought he is doing so much to me but I never want to take it now... coz I knew if a day something happen just like today broken off.. I might owe him alot.

Whatever he did he thought I don't know. He thought he can tell my brother everythings and share things with him without my knowledges. He forgot that the one he talked to still my sibling, my only brother in my life. I knew he did so much but luckily I never taken it. Just like my car insurance needed to be renewed. He paid me 1st and I returned to him, he took but in few days he gave back to my brother .. and I saw the sms he forwarded to my brother that what is time to tell me the $$$ ... means He wanna do so much for me show me he is the bf can pay me all these.. luckily I returned all to him and I asked my brother don't ever let me know what you both tried to do behind me which I don't like it....

I appreciated what my ex did for me, but I am not a kinda girl will take advantages and suck his blood then dumb him.. I never thought to do this to him.. but he seemed doing so much....

This post has been edited by cutiepooh: Aug 4 2009, 09:26 PM

Just one comment from me
You're not a simple girl

lol, he thinks you're a bride for sale a?

what's with the rushing?