Aug 4 2009, 06:13 PM
QUOTE(cutiepooh @ Aug 4 2009, 11:52 AM)
I knew I am not young now. but still I wish I can spend my couple months to know him more. I respect his parents. I didn't ask his friend how he behaves and what kind of bad habits he got.. He is a regular smoker and drink at midnight. He goes some club because of business this one i understand. He go full body massage which let thai and china ladies touch all I am ok. Maybe I am a open minded lady. All I don't mind and I just wish him to give me some times not being possessive. and now I truly saw his real face. If I don't follow what he said, He will just take a key and slam a door leave the house. Business man is stress I understand but isn't we don't talk about working life when we meet and maybe we can share it when both are in better mood...
Ya, He plans alot. went to bridal shops, restaurant, hotels to ask for the package...
yes I thought to engage with him this X'mas. Is a good time to get along with him with couple months if he allows me to get to know him more. but he rushed his own happiness and then now I ran.... My bad...
He called my mum coz he loves me, he wanna cares for me and he wanna spend more time for me.....
get to it girl, his just doing business with you. his preparing his "business" and now his felt that you break up with him will cause him loses in his "investment" for the pass few month time, that s y his trying hard to save back the his "whole heartly" prepared "business.... no offense but base on what you told us, this is the conclution i get get..... Ya, He plans alot. went to bridal shops, restaurant, hotels to ask for the package...
yes I thought to engage with him this X'mas. Is a good time to get along with him with couple months if he allows me to get to know him more. but he rushed his own happiness and then now I ran.... My bad...
He called my mum coz he loves me, he wanna cares for me and he wanna spend more time for me.....
a relation between boy and girl was never a business... commitment alone are not enuf.... true relation was about achieving a balance between you and he, giving and accept .... without calculating how much the giving <<< this is the main point bout a relation
in your case, the balance was not there.... his keep thinking that he gave a lot , so hoping in return that you too, will return him that much.... and that is business, not a relation... the weird feeling your having now is telling you that the balance is not there, therefore causing you massive suffering...
yes he might be hurt by other girl b4, but be reminded that now his facing YOU, a totally new girl which have nothing to do with his ex-gf.... so this guy, your bf, why bothering to be so kan ciong anyway ? this also prove that his not having total believe in you... he keep scare that you might do the same thing as his ex does, thus keep on trying to control you by knowing more bout you trough your family, and gain your family trust , hoping that your family will try to help him to control you....
QUOTE(@lice~~ @ Aug 4 2009, 02:38 PM)
TS,
Ur guy just totally like the Wong Hei's character in Burning Flame 3.. he will prepare n work out everything for his gal.. n his gal juz need to listen n obey him.. it's total like a boss n a staff.. anyway, i believe not much of gals will like tis kind of guy.. he is too over.. wat make me
is he distributing ur family n friends.. if i m u will straight away cut off everything n no 2nd chance for him.. imagine now u juz his gf he ady over possession wat abt when u r his wife?
true.... now his like this , so no need aspect he will control you less when you two get married. he will only control you more after you two get married and then you'll get a living hell which cause by marriage sicknessUr guy just totally like the Wong Hei's character in Burning Flame 3.. he will prepare n work out everything for his gal.. n his gal juz need to listen n obey him.. it's total like a boss n a staff.. anyway, i believe not much of gals will like tis kind of guy.. he is too over.. wat make me
is he distributing ur family n friends.. if i m u will straight away cut off everything n no 2nd chance for him.. imagine now u juz his gf he ady over possession wat abt when u r his wife?so you stil wan accept him bec or what ? you wanna stay with this kind of person for your entire life ? your call...
p/s : your BF is sick.... so, no need try to recover him cuz this is about himself/his own ,and you cant change a person....
This post has been edited by sammm33: Aug 4 2009, 06:16 PM
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