Been so long sifu still around mah?

did you managed to get your prey?

been there done that, im a casanova now.

paying tribute to the thread that actually worked for me.
4 years, still going strong. have ups and downs though.

Somebody pin this gem, it's a must read.

What if she says "date her not easy"? What's the next move?

I thought this was a pinned topic last time.

Anyway, pinned.

when asking a girl out, don't put the pressure of making the decision on her... girls hate to decide and hate men who can't decide, but like to be respected (you decide and then inform her, not decide and just expect her to get along).

instead of saying
"hey, can I go out with you for a movie this Saturday?"
say
"hey I'm going for this movie on Saturday, it'll be great if you can join"

It may sound the same but it's different. The former is 'asking for permission' and the latter is 'extending an invitation'. So ask yourself, is she your potential mom or potential girlfriend?

how bout "hey wanna watch a movie together this saturday?"

I'm doing 1,2,and 3 successfully but I'm really not sure on how to move to steps 4 and 5

If you're doing 1, 2 and 3 successfully - and by that should mean that she holds eye contact with you, she laughs at your jokes and she enjoys talking to you - then 4 and 5 should not be a problem. 5 especially should be quite easy

Going on a date maybe can but the touch barrier is the biggest prob so far
I dunno how to start

It's not just physical contact, it's physical proximity. Stand a little closer to her. Sit a little closer to her. Lean in a little bit more towards her. It's really not hard

Ohh if like that I think I have been doing that without knowing.
So now what shall I do now? I've just sorta makan with her and all but haven't really gone on a date

Then ask her out la

''Who says I wanna date you ...''
''Are you asking me out? I'm not easy to fall in love with ''

Flip the sentence, play with it. You're the leader, setting the tone
It's not so much about the structure, it's towards the vibe you're bringing on the table.
If you say whatever stuff in a mild, timid way, she's going to reject you no matter what.

You should establish the touch on the first date etc.
The longer you wait, the more she will you feel your weakness, because u just don't have the balls to initiate.
But it's always BEST let her to touch you first, because that's the indicator that you're ''allowed'' to bring things to next level.

Here is my case.

I have confessed to a girl and she didn't reject me eventually. We start to hang out on weekend. Do you think I have a chance? Not to mention about step 4

This post has been edited by ngph988: Oct 28 2015, 06:54 PM

Just do all 5 steps when you're with her. Including no. 4.