My situation is like this....Im an IT guy....always serve other companies for servicing...

I met this girl working one of the companies im servicing....

Been frenz with her like 3 years now....just normal frenz nothing much...meaning to say we never hang out, we never really texting....only when servicing their company's pc stuff.

With the 5 steps noob showed in this thread, its her who showed this 1,2, and 4 stuff....over and over again for the last 3 years..whenever i went to her office, she never fail to give her full attention to me (whenever she's not bz)...i always play along and act cool....like she always good eye contact and always smile at me whenever she's talking to me....always touchy2 whenever she's got oppurtunity.. ..she's attractive to my eyes, but somehow i never see myself with her.......not because im too good, but the opposites, she's too good to be true to my eyes....and im really noob about this realtionship stuff.....just like 1st class noob

And one day, when i went to her office, she said to me that soon she will resign from her current company she's workin....she's letting me know because she dont want me to feel that im searching for her when she's gone...
This really just like i've been struck by lightning....somehow I felt like she's telling me something....to read between the lines......

All this years, i tried to denied that she attracted to me...but somehow i convince that she's really attracted to me....when she told me about her resignation, its felt like a timebomb.....

What you guys view on this? Thanks..


Sorry for the english, hopefully u guys can understand

First of all, you really ought to start your own thread about this.

Second of all, AIYO BRUDDER YOU BLIND AR GOT CHANCE IN FRONT OF YOU OSO DUNNO HOW TO TAKE FOR 3 YEARS ARE YOU KIDDING ME

...actually, slow down a bit. There are some girls who are just naturally flirty, and they just like flirting with guys who aren't that close to them and will probably never get close to them (e.g. the IT guy who only occasionally comes to service her PC). If she were really interested in you, then I think she would've been disappointed enough by your non-response that she would've given up within the 1st year. If she's still doing it after 3 years... that's a hint that she only flirts with you for fun.

Still, never try never know, right? You obviously like her, so go for it lah. Your opening is already there; just ask for her number, and say you're gonna ask her out. Then ask her out that very weekend. If she's just toying with you, she'll make all kinds of excuses. But as long as you anticipate that, it's not gonna hurt, right? So why not just do it?

dear ts,did u successful getting girls with the guide u post here???

Oh yes.

if a girl doesnt reply ur message or pm does it mean anything?

This post has been edited by red-supra: May 22 2013, 12:13 PM

chill... i dont see anything wrong with a guy confessing to a girl......... girl loves confession thooo....... 2cents......

oh wow!!!
He is doing everything to me.
Especially the physical contact
herm...
I wonder have he read this as well

mostly because she is not interested on you. True enough. Or maybe she is really busy?
but if the frequence of not replying your message is extremely high, i think it will be better you look for other girl or just let her go free for a while.

if she is in the mood she can chat with me for very long but if she chooses to ignore me it will last few days.

I have no problem letting girls know I am interested on her, the problem is how to get her interested in. Me

dear supra... i think that she doesnt crush on you. just take me myself as the example. when i was in good mood. i will reply those guys. just simply flirt with them or just normal chat. but when i am not in mood or even in normal time, i will choose to ignore them. If a girl really likes you, she wont act in this way.

okay, thanks for ur advice =)

It's not that it's wrong. It's that it doesn't work.

Only when it comes from a guy you already like.

followed the steps but still faild =( she now ignores me and blocked me on facebook

what if she just nice nice to you, take your present, when talk always like very kasar. (manly). and when i text her most of it not replied just like now. even in fb chat also not replied.

Well dude, she's not interested....~! I believe most of us learnt the hard way that includes me
The one is really interested in you WILL replied you back...and if unable to reply, she will get back to you and give you reason(s) why she not able to reply.....its the basic things actually, just some guys including you and me and others easily melts/stutter/dumb when it comes to girls/crush.....haha

damn it, i really thought she interested or something. i think she just being nice. it's a hard lesson. but god i really really liked her plus she just quit from our workplace. i don't mind if she didn't like me because i can see her everyday. but now. ugh it's so pain.. now can't see her & she didn't have a feelings . this is what you get when hopes so high

Hi all. I have a girl fren that we used to be good fren. After i break up she still there to cheer me. After a short period only i found she like girls. Kinda dissapointed here. But i still text her and trying to date her for dinner or hang out tgt. She sometime will reply my msg but sometime no.

For all the step mentioned. It seems happen. But im unsure she have any interest on guy or me at all. Got 1 time we hang out at genting, i manage to hold her hand walk tgt. If dinner we still share food tgt like she feed me and i feed her back. Chit chat and laugh tgt.

Am i think too much? Or should i continue?

She bi-sexual? She likes female? But still wanna continue with u?
You should talk to her properly... how long you know her? How often u guys contact now, u should know the answer.

I also unsure bout her. She dont talk much bout her behalf neither did i ask further. We been fren long time already. She rarely find me but most of the time i text her 1st. But wont last long like we chat face 2 face. Feel complicated. Couldnt read her at all.