Hi, 1st time to be at this thread.
I remember when I was the heaviest, I'm 110kg.
Then, I joined gym
(for fun, at that time).
Later, got the semangat to lose some weights. I took 3in1 coffee + 4 or 5 scoops of Quaker's Oat every morning. And i skipped lunch, use up my lunch time to go to the gym.
(People eat, I gym.) For dinner, I took in a bit more rice, to avoid myself from get hungry at late night for supper. Then, at the same time lots of my
not-so-pro (but still more experienced than me lah) friend taught me. Here a bit there a bit.
Till recent few months, when i visit gym, i will first jog for full 20mins (with 1 or 2 rest in between).
Then, i do: Dumbbell Bench Press + Dumbell Shoulder Press + Barbell Curl + Preacher Curl + Pumping + Others
(What crap also do).
Sequence sometimes not same lah. If got strength, will do all. Sometimes too tired, cant finish all.
Each exercise do 3 sets, 1 set 8-12 times.
The best weight I achieved was about 93kg. I took me about a year. Now, cuz stop gym for 1 month already. I still do some simple training at home. Eg: Dumbell Shoulder Press + Pumping + Sit up etc. But still gained back a little weight, back to 95kg.

Waddefark?
Want to ask, if I look my side from the mirror, i definitely look
not-so-thick (as in big tummy) anymore. But from front, I can't see my waist getting smaller. May be not noticeable lah. I tried to add in Dumbbell Side Bend into my training. May be I'm impatient. But, i don't any noticeable improvement.
Any advice or any training to recommend?
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why? skipped meal, starve too long between meal, your body thought you are going to die, metabolism goes down, the next meal you take, they will tend to stored as much fat as they can as you are going to die soon. but luckily you still survive and gain 2kg back, ya 2kg fat! with such diet, eventhought your weight down to 70kg, you still looks like fat ass. go read more on what is proper diet. what is protein, carb, fat bla bla bla