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wangpr
post Jun 3 2009, 01:21 AM

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QUOTE(Ichibanichi @ Jun 3 2009, 01:14 AM)
TS seem to have some history of lack truthfulness which put a dented mark to your parents heart.
However that's another story

TS
If you really think your bf have transformed to be a control freak that chain your freedom, then he should be. If i'm in your bf shoes, no way I would allow my gf to do photoshoot aka modelling. You may furious to blame me being childish or immature but your bf & me know that modelling world is very dark. The glamour life, the attraction, the fame will make one life gone haywire eventhough you plea that ur willheart as strong as a nun. Don't insist telling everyone that the photoshot activities just for amateur purpose but once the photo land onto a modelling agency and at the same time it strike the jackpot, it would be nightmare for your bf.
Secondly....not every guy have a very strong and supporting will to see their love one hanging out alone with another guy. Even though going out with few frens also make them think twice.

The best point about your bf is he love and care for you more after a hiccup

Hope your tiredness will lead you the joy of happiness in future.
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U must learn and u will learn one day.... Controlling and stopping a person interest will only lead to negative side...

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QUOTE(fire_angel @ Jun 3 2009, 01:16 AM)
Well, im his 1st Gf and he thinks is he more matured than me while i'm a baby~ He told me i'll forever be a baby in his eyes.
I'd prove to him i was independant to work n study and live my life without him strongly. But now we're back he still treat me like a baby.
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Guess all depend on u, chase and continue ur interest/hobby or sacrifice on sake of ur BF happiness

If i am on ur BF mind, i would let u go photoshoot, maybe sometimes accompany u go photoshoot if given permission...... Else, just let u be happy as long u r safe...... One thing, just scare u fall to the trap of bad guy.....

Ur BF heart is full of fear and scare, maybe he hear too much story or watch too much entertainment news


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QUOTE(Ichibanichi @ Jun 3 2009, 01:14 AM)
TS seem to have some history of lack truthfulness which put a dented mark to your parents heart.
However that's another story

TS
If you really think your bf have transformed to be a control freak that chain your freedom, then he should be. If i'm in your bf shoes, no way I would allow my gf to do photoshoot aka modelling. You may furious to blame me being childish or immature but your bf & me know that modelling world is very dark. The glamour life, the attraction, the fame will make one life gone haywire eventhough you plea that ur willheart as strong as a nun. Don't insist telling everyone that the photoshot activities just for amateur purpose but once the photo land onto a modelling agency and at the same time it strike the jackpot, it would be nightmare for your bf.
Secondly....not every guy have a very strong and supporting will to see their love one hanging out alone with another guy. Even though going out with few frens also make them think twice.

The best point about your bf is he love and care for you more after a hiccup

Hope your tiredness will lead you the joy of happiness in future.
*
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erm~ my shots are basically taken by students ( which are my friend) not modelling agencies. Im not thinking of Fame n etc.. its just like an interest
and to help my friends to improve their skills as well. Im happy that he loves me so much but this love is like He's Hot and He's COld he's yes and He's no~ The COLD is really COLD and long. While the Hot will only be a short period.

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post Jun 3 2009, 01:22 AM

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QUOTE(Ichibanichi @ Jun 3 2009, 01:14 AM)
TS seem to have some history of lack truthfulness which put a dented mark to your parents heart.
However that's another story

TS
If you really think your bf have transformed to be a control freak that chain your freedom, then he should be. If i'm in your bf shoes, no way I would allow my gf to do photoshoot aka modelling. You may furious to blame me being childish or immature but your bf & me know that modelling world is very dark. The glamour life, the attraction, the fame will make one life gone haywire eventhough you plea that ur willheart as strong as a nun. Don't insist telling everyone that the photoshot activities just for amateur purpose but once the photo land onto a modelling agency and at the same time it strike the jackpot, it would be nightmare for your bf.
Secondly....not every guy have a very strong and supporting will to see their love one hanging out alone with another guy. Even though going out with few frens also make them think twice.

The best point about your bf is he love and care for you more after a hiccup

Hope your tiredness will lead you the joy of happiness in future.
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I don think the problem is about modelling world dark , if her bf doesnt like shopping , i think that she wan shopping sure will make noise.

If you say modelling world dark and don allow her to try out her DREAM because of that , shows the BF lack trust in her . No trust no relationship . Tried being told off by someone to give up ur dream because it doesnt EARN MUCH or NOT GOOD before ? it sucks .

If not strong to see love one hanging out with another guy den next time when work how ? all girls company ? not strong for this shit den don paktor la .

No offense intended


QUOTE(fire_angel @ Jun 3 2009, 01:16 AM)
Well, im his 1st Gf and he thinks is he more matured than me << already wrong lol while i'm a baby~ He told me i'll forever be a baby in his eyes.
I'd prove to him i was independant to work n study and live my life without him strongly. But now we're back he still treat me like a baby.
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1st love .. no wonder so noob .
no offense intended .
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post Jun 3 2009, 01:25 AM

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QUOTE(wangpr @ Jun 3 2009, 01:21 AM)
U must learn and u will learn one day.... Controlling and stopping a person interest will only lead to negative side...

nod.gif
Guess all depend on u, chase and continue ur interest/hobby or sacrifice on sake of ur BF happiness

If i am on ur BF mind, i would let u go photoshoot, maybe sometimes accompany u go photoshoot if given permission...... Else, just let u be happy as long u r safe...... One thing, just scare u fall to the trap of bad guy.....

Ur BF heart is full of fear and scare, maybe he hear too much story or watch too much entertainment news
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Well, he's super conservative even more than my MUM !!! She likes him cuz she thinks he can control me n changed me . Indeed im changed but its not bcuz of him. It's bcuz i did it for myself. Its been long i'd never declared that im back with my ex...Im afraid duno when he'll break up with me again~~ he broke up with me 3 times...hope no more number 4....
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post Jun 3 2009, 01:28 AM

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QUOTE(fire_angel @ Jun 3 2009, 01:25 AM)
Well, he's super conservative even more than my MUM !!! She likes him cuz she thinks he can control me n changed me . Indeed im changed but its not bcuz of him. It's bcuz i did it for myself. Its been long i'd never declared that im back with my ex...Im afraid duno when he'll break up with me again~~ he broke up with me 3 times...hope no more number 4....
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how old are you ?
its good that you change to a better person for urself , but always remember in a relationship , alwiz keep ur own identity . never change ur identity for someone else , u might make up one day not knowing who you are anymore .

time for bed kthxbai
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Controlling, will strain the relationship

But i guess, it all downs to dialogue
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post Jun 3 2009, 01:33 AM

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QUOTE(zacharyyeo @ Jun 3 2009, 01:28 AM)
how old are you ?
its good that you change to a better person for urself , but always remember in a relationship , alwiz keep ur own identity . never change ur identity for someone else , u might make up one day not knowing who you are anymore .

time for bed kthxbai
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Oh the changed way isnt the identity but Principe and goals~ im 19 but when i chose him, i know he's a good guy n i'll regret to leave him. Love is blind and for me, break up is not something to simply say . Im here just to express my feelings and sort out ways to build our hearts back together
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post Jun 3 2009, 01:40 AM

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QUOTE(fire_angel @ Jun 3 2009, 01:25 AM)
Well, he's super conservative even more than my MUM !!! She likes him cuz she thinks he can control me n changed me . Indeed im changed but its not bcuz of him. It's bcuz i did it for myself. Its been long i'd never declared that im back with my ex...Im afraid duno when he'll break up with me again~~ he broke up with me 3 times...hope no more number 4....
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OMG........ tell ur BF, ur love cannot simply break up than come back, then break up....

If he dont apreciate it, let other guy appreciate u more than him.......

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post Jun 3 2009, 01:49 AM

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QUOTE(fire_angel @ Jun 3 2009, 01:33 AM)
Oh the changed way isnt the identity but Principe and goals~ im 19 but when i chose him, i know he's a good guy n i'll regret to leave him. Love is blind and for me, break up is not something to simply say . Im here just to express my feelings and sort out ways to build our hearts back together
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The word "break up" is equivalent to WMD of your heart, and should never be used as a joke

It is good to see you that find ways to mend that problem
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post Jun 3 2009, 01:52 AM

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he said break up is to teach me a lesson for not obeying him~
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post Jun 3 2009, 01:56 AM

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QUOTE(fire_angel @ Jun 3 2009, 01:21 AM)
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erm~ my shots are basically taken by students ( which are my friend)  not modelling agencies. Im not thinking of Fame n etc.. its just like an interest
and to help my friends to improve their skills as well. Im happy that he loves me so much but this love is like He's Hot and He's COld he's yes and He's no~ The COLD is really COLD and long. While the Hot will only be a short period.
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Hot and Cold attitude is the gift from god to make opposite sex more interesting.

Make good use of it.
A correct usage bring more happiness. Wrong use.....you know i know the consequence
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post Jun 3 2009, 02:13 AM

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QUOTE(fire_angel @ Jun 3 2009, 01:52 AM)
he said break up is to teach me a lesson for not obeying him~
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I laughing non stop at this statement...... It prooof that guy IQ is -100

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post Jun 3 2009, 02:16 AM

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QUOTE(fire_angel @ Jun 3 2009, 01:52 AM)
he said break up is to teach me a lesson for not obeying him~
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This is no child's play, infact his word, is not productive at all
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QUOTE(wangpr @ Jun 3 2009, 02:13 AM)
I laughing non stop at this statement...... It prooof  that guy IQ is -100

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FUnny mer?? Its like mother teaching daughter a lesson~~ Hmmmm

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post Jun 3 2009, 02:20 AM

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QUOTE(fire_angel @ Jun 3 2009, 02:16 AM)
FUnny mer?? Its like mother teaching daughter a lesson~~ Hmmmm
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More like a threat
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post Jun 3 2009, 02:22 AM

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QUOTE(fire_angel @ Jun 3 2009, 01:52 AM)
he said break up is to teach me a lesson for not obeying him~
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You should teach him a lesson by giving him a cold shoulder. Let him panic awhile and see what will he do.

Don't let a guy take control of your life. Its yours. Do what you enjoy best.
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post Jun 3 2009, 02:37 AM

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QUOTE(Siilver @ Jun 3 2009, 02:22 AM)
You should teach him a lesson by giving him a cold shoulder. Let him panic awhile and see what will he do.

Don't let a guy take control of your life. Its yours. Do what you enjoy best.
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Hmm actully now im being cold to him as im busy with things and kinda weird feeling... I Lost my heart n interest~
But all i know its just temporary and soon i'll find it back...

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QUOTE(fire_angel @ Jun 3 2009, 02:37 AM)
Hmm actully now im being cold to him as im busy with things and kinda weird feeling... I Lost my heart n interest~
But all i know its just temporary and soon i'll find it back...
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Okay, answer me honestly.

Do you see a yourself marrying him or at least having a long term relationship with him?

If you don't, best you end it now. Once and for all.
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jun 3 2009, 02:20 AM)
More like a threat
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Hmmm~~~ I threaten him also last time.. :" If he dont let me come find him i'll go his house "
He very afraid of me comin to his house~~ he don wan let his parents know about us ma...
When He's Hot im COLD, When He's COLD, Im HOT!~ Hot seasons isnt comin....


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He's 20, dislikes photographers taking pics of models?

Sounds like this guy

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1048057

yea, either he's your real bf, or you're trolling around. hmm.gif

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