IMHO.

he sounds so lame.
when he wanna try his chances with someone else he puts you aside.
when he PHAILED he come begging back for you like a hungry ghost.
and now is a control freak.
it is not like time stood still while you two were apart.
u have moved on and have a life.
and now getting back together doesn't mean you have to give it all up.

a relationship is supposed to make you feel good. if it isn't doing that, you need to get rid of it.

I am appalled at how many girls stay with their boyfriends for long periods of time out of 'comfort' and using the excuse 'used to him being around'. You are all lying to yourselves and that shows me how much self esteem you have.

If he's treating you like crap, LEAVE HIM. No lady should have to put up with that, and a gentleman wouldn't do that kind thing to his lady.

probably a troll like happy4ever said.

regardless, if i had a gf i would not be happy if she went on a photoshoot alone with another guy. if it was in a group i would be more trusting.

yes i am an insecure guy. u can blame my ex for making me that way by cheating on me.

what kind of statement is this......

tell your bf that, you want your gf obey you rather than love you? get a doggy then instead of gf !!!

its just like you obey your teacher but that doesnt mean that you love your teacher aint you !!! No?

if you feel tired in one relationship, its mean you are heading to a noway road but sad and heartbroken !!!

love wont tired ~~

You will tired after all those exhausting sports sex marathon sessions.

Anyway I met some guys that responded the same way as TS bf did, all I can is lol at their lack of maturity and security.

tired physically and tired emotionally is kinda different dear

I want moar moar moar.

don mess up other ppl thread

I am not laughing at u. I laughing at him...................for saying out such reason...

Sounds like your bf is insecure. Probably after he left you the first time he felt really depressed and decided that he couldn't live without you so this time around he's being extra nice and caring to u. But if u don't want him to be controlling u need to come to a compromise with him. Sit him down and talk about what he wants from you and whether you can accept it. I remember my first gf I told her that I want her to miss call me everytime she reaches home so I know she is home safe. Some ppl might intepret that as being overly controlling but at that time I felt i was looking out for her. So talk with him and find out what he wants and what you can accept and come to a compromise.

lol baby.

being possesive is not good.

you just need to do what u need to do, then his view on u will slowly change.

he sounds like your dad, not your boyfriend. Is he retarded?

At first I wanted to tell you to sit down and talk to him properly. Maybe there is a chance he doesn't even realize that he is being controlling.....

....but after I read all this, only thing I can tell you he is a piece of trash not worth your affection.
Who the %^&*( breaks up with his gf and come crying back to her and then goes on to tell her that 'he was teacher her a lesson for not obeying him'. ftw is that? Who does he think he is? You have to obey him? Are you his slave?
I'm sure he realizes how much you want to keep the relationship and he's probably using you. Sooner or later he'll find some other girl to have fun with and when you blow again, he'll come begging for forgiveness at your knee but will be off to his bad habits again when you cool off.
Have some pride left and kick this trash out of your life. You've broken up with him like what 3-4 times right. He has had enough chances already.

This is controlling behaviour. You should not tolerate it.

This is disrespectful and insulting. You should not tolerate it.

This is passive-aggressive behaviour. You should not tolerate it.

This is manipulative behaviour. You should not tolerate it.

This is disloyalty. You should not tolerate it.

This is disrespectful of your interests. You should not tolerate it.

This is arrogance. You should not tolerate it.

This is manipulative behaviour. You should not tolerate it.

This is a threat. You should not tolerate it.

I really gotta wonder... WHY are you staying with this guy?

Y'know, when you mentioned there's another girl he fell for... I think I can guess what's really happening here.

You're his 2nd choice. A distant 2nd.

He liked this other girl, but for whatever reason couldn't get her. So he's using you as his spare tyre. Only thing is, he wishes you were more like her. He wishes you were exactly like her. So all his frustration at not getting her, he's taking it out on you. He's trying to turn you into her.

Your interests, your feelings, your very personality... all of these mean nothing to him. You are not a person to him. You are only a substitute for her.


This post has been edited by n00b13: Jun 3 2009, 11:53 AM

I'm the "he" ...ok people ..come flame me

And Im your father.

http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=1048057&hl=

How about you respond to the flames?

Do you think the way you've been treating her is right?

yes..i was here to respond to the flame...
Em, for me... i was neglected but her busyness...and getting me crzay/ worry for her...so what is right or wrong? maybe i just need some cooling ...or maybe learn how to life without partner

This post has been edited by Doopleganger: Jun 3 2009, 02:53 PM