Why 25?

Anyway, I don't know about "slow and steady beats the race", whether the girl is young or old. There's such a thing as being swept off your feet - if it happens to you and the girl you like, then woohoo for you!

Then ur doin it rong.

Seriously, maybe you're just not reading their cues right. If a girl is interested in you, it should be pretty damn obvious - and if she's not, that should also be pretty damn obvious. And you'd only pursue a girl who shows some signs of interest in you, right? You'd only strike at targets with high chances of success, right?

Tackling a girl isn't like climbing a mountain where she's at the top waiting for you. Girls are looking for love and affection too. Unless you're a total hermit, you will someday meet a girl who likes you - as long as you're not a total creep around her.

The msg is pretty clear, just let go...

getting swept off your feet is almost exactly as getting really impressed with your talent, or probably you did something which is really meaningful for her, even helping her to pick up her pen would do, or even just a simple smile (that is she has been longing for that for dunno what reasons, lol)

seriously, that sentence is too objective, and each person has their own "feet sweeping moments", so, to be really exact of the meaning, be yourself and just don't go out of your way to impress her

of course, you need to be around her but not cling on to her for that to happen, as you really don't know when such an event will occur

that is why people always say, enlarge your social circle and just go out and have fun, gather with people, you won't know who might fall for you next...=)

My friend, you're still thinking of love as something that happens only when you make it happen. That you'll find it when you "successfully tackle" her. Like it's a video game with many puzzles and levels, and you need to use the right moves otherwise it's Game Over.

It's not. Seriously, it's not.

Love is something that happens to you.

yea, though luck sitting at home without interacting with anyone and lets see the sky will drop him or her for you...>.<"

i think you don't get what i mean, but i'll try one more time

just live your life as it is but interact with more people, and be a fun person around them, and you might get someone interested in you without you knowing it...=)

is that a better understanding of the statement?

if girls start ignoring you, no chance for friend anymore la, don't waste ur time

No disagreement here.

TS made a mistake..last time it happened to me with the girl i obssesed.. she sense that i acted weired and turn annoying like stalking her and asking much personal questions and too much sms..she avoided me..my good look not really help much to salvage the friendship...in the end ugly guy with big stomach become her bf..i cant believe i lost to fat boy.

second time i fall with another girl..that time i changed my style..i act as a normal friend..and make it as natural as possible. this time i got what i wanted..love is really wonderful ...but believe me love can come and go just like that. and it really suck when we lost the feeling and have to break up.

now i am loveless..i wonder if love will come in my way again

you know what, you should just give her her space and time. Leave her alone for awhile. If you're lucky, she may realize that she misses you talking to her and might wait for you to sms her again. So you stay out of contact with her for a couple of month. Then you try your lucky again by smsing or calling her, just asking how is her and stuff. Just to show you still concern about her well being.

On the meantime, you can keep urself busy with whatever work you can find.

to be really honest, i recommend you not to contact her, but let her contact you, that is if she wants to...

you can have your wishful thinking for her to reply your messages, but honestly, what's your motif behind it?...seriously...~

GG.

tarak reply from TS, he cabut already?

sometimes, as far as we are aiding in one's problem, if the person is not here, and since this is at the forums, it will benefit others as well, don't you agree?...as long as there is facts to the words people are contributing...=)

This post has been edited by LostWanderer: May 7 2009, 11:40 AM

Agreed.

i saw biased view from ts. it's a 1 sided story, but never elaborate what really happened. not to blame ts, but he might not even know he did to the girl was "wrong". it might not apparent to ts, but it is to the girl.

旁观者清，当局者迷。

to be honest, i had fallen into that shoes before as well,

as far as 'wrong' goes, well, i guess it's more like a mistake but actually, one really doesn't need to play avoid in this...but where will things go if the person continues to creep you out, then well, you can reconsider...XD

oh well, if you never make someone avoid you i guess, you will never learn how to attract the correct way, i guess...lol