im having the exactly same problem. our relation stay for one year, then she starts to ignore me, and tell me not to waste time waiting over her (she having SPM this year). Since then she never sms me again, im kinda hurt. i think she quite selfish, when i having spm, she msg me everyday, but when she having the test this year, she msg me not even once a week, i doubt she felt in love with other...Then i decide, let her off, although i really miss her a lot. MAy be its time for both of us to clam down...

My advice is...do some research on her hobbies, things she like, movies she like to watch, etc.

Then pick up more information on those, you have the internet for goodness sake...we have everything there.

Then once you have lots of info, you can talk to her about that. Everybody loves to talk to someone who share a common hobby.

Heck, you can even try talking about peoples you both know, talk about general news, talk about family...things you seen, places you visited, interesting stories (real or fake also nevermind), etc.

You need to talk more to learn the trick

Damn true. Usually, the key to tackle a girl < age of 25 is NOT to confess first. Don't even go on and drop hints for at least half a year or more. Young girls usually just wouldn't give a crap if she got no interest on you.

To make it short and simple : Start from a friend to a good friend to a couple. That's the safest way, and you can even change your mind if you think she is not right for you. 

Remember guys/gals, the more shortcut you take, the more likely you'll fall. Slow and steady beats the race. By being slow and steady you may not guarantee to win her heart, but at least you have time to even look around at the other choices you have. You'll eventually get to know more people through time.

sometimes, as far as we are aiding in one's problem, if the person is not here, and since this is at the forums, it will benefit others as well, don't you agree?...as long as there is facts to the words people are contributing...=)