well, how should i put this,

lets just say this, in short, if she ever liked you before, she will definitely not distant herself from you

if she distant herself from you, she told you why, to be really honest, i think she value you as a friend, and is really not interested in you

if she continues to distant away from you, just leave her alone, you are not worth her time, and, you should not put so much of your time into her as well, go find someone else...no use harping over someone...=)

well, i really wonder how much she value you before though, if she called you back, there are many things that can change, but lets put that for later...~

This post has been edited by LostWanderer: May 5 2009, 05:38 PM

hmm, honestly, i can see the "pattern" you had written there...it's so "generic" now that it is obvious...but is the above really the best way?...well, it's up to the individual to decide i guess...but yea, i chose the above way anyway...XD


do you think that they hate you or they really hate you?...you really sound like you think that they hate you that's why they hate you i guess...
try to take things lightly and yea, you will see a brighter world i guess...=)

well, there are a few level of weirdness, i guess, but you know, being too normal is too safe, you won't get your catch anyway, for being both normal or weird

if you went beyond the comfortable level of weirdness, you are creepy
if you don't know how to be "normally weird" you can just say that you both are just "merely" friends

anyway, you can start by observing how others interact, how other couples interact and how you interact with other people and probably you get an idea where to start...=)

getting swept off your feet is almost exactly as getting really impressed with your talent, or probably you did something which is really meaningful for her, even helping her to pick up her pen would do, or even just a simple smile (that is she has been longing for that for dunno what reasons, lol)

seriously, that sentence is too objective, and each person has their own "feet sweeping moments", so, to be really exact of the meaning, be yourself and just don't go out of your way to impress her

of course, you need to be around her but not cling on to her for that to happen, as you really don't know when such an event will occur

that is why people always say, enlarge your social circle and just go out and have fun, gather with people, you won't know who might fall for you next...=)

yea, though luck sitting at home without interacting with anyone and lets see the sky will drop him or her for you...>.<"

i think you don't get what i mean, but i'll try one more time

just live your life as it is but interact with more people, and be a fun person around them, and you might get someone interested in you without you knowing it...=)

is that a better understanding of the statement?

to be really honest, i recommend you not to contact her, but let her contact you, that is if she wants to...

you can have your wishful thinking for her to reply your messages, but honestly, what's your motif behind it?...seriously...~

sometimes, as far as we are aiding in one's problem, if the person is not here, and since this is at the forums, it will benefit others as well, don't you agree?...as long as there is facts to the words people are contributing...=)

This post has been edited by LostWanderer: May 7 2009, 11:40 AM

to be honest, i had fallen into that shoes before as well,

as far as 'wrong' goes, well, i guess it's more like a mistake but actually, one really doesn't need to play avoid in this...but where will things go if the person continues to creep you out, then well, you can reconsider...XD

oh well, if you never make someone avoid you i guess, you will never learn how to attract the correct way, i guess...lol