May 6 2009, 06:15 PM
QUOTE(kazuki85 @ May 6 2009, 05:41 PM)
Damn true. Usually, the key to tackle a girl < age of 25 is NOT to confess first. Don't even go on and drop hints for at least half a year or more. Young girls usually just wouldn't give a crap if she got no interest on you.
To make it short and simple : Start from a friend to a good friend to a couple. That's the safest way, and you can even change your mind if you think she is not right for you.
Remember guys/gals, the more shortcut you take, the more likely you'll fall. Slow and steady beats the race. By being slow and steady you may not guarantee to win her heart, but at least you have time to even look around at the other choices you have. You'll eventually get to know more people through time.
Why 25? To make it short and simple : Start from a friend to a good friend to a couple. That's the safest way, and you can even change your mind if you think she is not right for you.
Remember guys/gals, the more shortcut you take, the more likely you'll fall. Slow and steady beats the race. By being slow and steady you may not guarantee to win her heart, but at least you have time to even look around at the other choices you have. You'll eventually get to know more people through time.
Anyway, I don't know about "slow and steady beats the race", whether the girl is young or old. There's such a thing as being swept off your feet - if it happens to you and the girl you like, then woohoo for you!
QUOTE(Evangelistica @ May 6 2009, 05:54 PM)
Unfortunately in my case friends first then close frens then confess usually fails, no matter how long I waited, I always ended up being "just a good fren" but then they all avoiding me and vanishes from my life. I did nothing except confess, and NOT in a creepy way.
How do you explain that?
Then ur doin it rong. How do you explain that?
Seriously, maybe you're just not reading their cues right. If a girl is interested in you, it should be pretty damn obvious - and if she's not, that should also be pretty damn obvious. And you'd only pursue a girl who shows some signs of interest in you, right? You'd only strike at targets with high chances of success, right?
Tackling a girl isn't like climbing a mountain where she's at the top waiting for you. Girls are looking for love and affection too. Unless you're a total hermit, you will someday meet a girl who likes you - as long as you're not a total creep around her.
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