She's just not that into you.

Bang your head to the wall and hopefully after that you'll realised that she's avoiding you because she dont want to give you the wrong signal because she treats you as a normal fren only.

If you still can't accept the truth and still wanna keep on sms-ing and calling her, go on and I assure you that you'll end up being an anoyying bug in her daily life.

This post has been edited by Evangelistica: May 5 2009, 02:20 PM

+1

Beautiful tl:dr!

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Added on May 5, 2009, 2:47 pmNo need so drama, bang head on wall will only cause :stars:ache

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Added on May 5, 2009, 2:48 pmHAHAHA!!! You listen but you do not hear anything!!!

This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: May 5 2009, 02:48 PM

well, how should i put this,

lets just say this, in short, if she ever liked you before, she will definitely not distant herself from you

if she distant herself from you, she told you why, to be really honest, i think she value you as a friend, and is really not interested in you

if she continues to distant away from you, just leave her alone, you are not worth her time, and, you should not put so much of your time into her as well, go find someone else...no use harping over someone...=)

well, i really wonder how much she value you before though, if she called you back, there are many things that can change, but lets put that for later...~

This post has been edited by LostWanderer: May 5 2009, 05:38 PM

ok, most likely this will be 99.9% no turning back. it will be forever in the "break" mode, as you have already freaked the girl and you left a creepy impression inside her.

go out, get a new target, but dont freak anyone this time. leave her alone, smile and friendly nod when you see her. sooner or later, you guys will become...normal friend. stop sms her, stop stalking on her. go out and have fun with others.


oh yeah, i understand you have this "but she is this one girl...bla bla...", it is obsession. obsession is bad. it's not love.
i learned from bad experiences and i think there're some books out there confirming my "findings". lmao.

This post has been edited by SpikeTwo: May 5 2009, 07:35 PM

i rarely..i mean it..rarely i sms anybody..unless it like callin ppl out...so..tat the case...i am nt realli good with girls..girls tend to hate me quicker den the speed of light..zzzz

This post has been edited by kirashin: May 5 2009, 08:13 PM

Sometimes it just not abt how well u guys chat together...whether got topic or no topic...did u treat her well?Or when u dun hav topic,u kept ask..u took ur breakfast?took ur lunch?took ur dinner?

It sometimes kinda annoying though...

Haha im so guilty of that sometimes!

I notice alot of my fwen oni know how to ask this kinda stuff...I am not suprise if that girl get bored..

She look at her watch...1pm...beep beep... "Dear,taken ur lunch?"

hmm, honestly, i can see the "pattern" you had written there...it's so "generic" now that it is obvious...but is the above really the best way?...well, it's up to the individual to decide i guess...but yea, i chose the above way anyway...XD


do you think that they hate you or they really hate you?...you really sound like you think that they hate you that's why they hate you i guess...
try to take things lightly and yea, you will see a brighter world i guess...=)

yes. it is so generic and obvious but people still can't see it. the so called blind...

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This post has been edited by chuanway: Nov 1 2012, 10:06 PM

well, there are a few level of weirdness, i guess, but you know, being too normal is too safe, you won't get your catch anyway, for being both normal or weird

if you went beyond the comfortable level of weirdness, you are creepy
if you don't know how to be "normally weird" you can just say that you both are just "merely" friends

anyway, you can start by observing how others interact, how other couples interact and how you interact with other people and probably you get an idea where to start...=)

im having the exactly same problem. our relation stay for one year, then she starts to ignore me, and tell me not to waste time waiting over her (she having SPM this year). Since then she never sms me again, im kinda hurt. i think she quite selfish, when i having spm, she msg me everyday, but when she having the test this year, she msg me not even once a week, i doubt she felt in love with other...Then i decide, let her off, although i really miss her a lot. MAy be its time for both of us to clam down...

2 words..."let go."

My advice is...do some research on her hobbies, things she like, movies she like to watch, etc.

Then pick up more information on those, you have the internet for goodness sake...we have everything there.

Then once you have lots of info, you can talk to her about that. Everybody loves to talk to someone who share a common hobby.

Heck, you can even try talking about peoples you both know, talk about general news, talk about family...things you seen, places you visited, interesting stories (real or fake also nevermind), etc.

You need to talk more to learn the trick

All the wise/sweet talk in the world wont matter AT ALL when the girl has absolutely NO interest in you.

Damn true. Usually, the key to tackle a girl < age of 25 is NOT to confess first. Don't even go on and drop hints for at least half a year or more. Young girls usually just wouldn't give a crap if she got no interest on you.

To make it short and simple : Start from a friend to a good friend to a couple. That's the safest way, and you can even change your mind if you think she is not right for you.

Remember guys/gals, the more shortcut you take, the more likely you'll fall. Slow and steady beats the race. By being slow and steady you may not guarantee to win her heart, but at least you have time to even look around at the other choices you have. You'll eventually get to know more people through time.

Unfortunately in my case friends first then close frens then confess usually fails, no matter how long I waited, I always ended up being "just a good fren" but then they all avoiding me and vanishes from my life. I did nothing except confess, and NOT in a creepy way.

How do you explain that?