Girls or guys you meet in clubs will almost never be serious or will not have a good happy ending. Sheeshhhh.
Lu sudah umur berapa? So easily get fooled.......well we all get to be young and naive.

Leave him...
Wasting time only if wait him...

He might bring a japanese girl back =X

But if the other way round bring japanese car bad also not bad ma.
That time you could sit nice car lo.

before u left him ask him buy u a lv bag lar~ go shopping spree with his credit card

Since you're at it, can you get him to buy me a Tokyo Flash watch??

There's more people out there that would love and appreciate you.

Depends on da quality, outlook n personalities.

Girl,
Leave him.

And then stop going out with your friend whom sent you to his house when you were drunk. Weird friend.

Trust your heart. You knew it isn't a relationship.

yes, agree with the comments that given by these guys. i once get fooled by a guy in a club, he's my fren's fren. thn the nxt day my fren hint me that it's not necessary to be serious in club. guys jz wan to hv fun. so i learnt to b a smart gal after that. luckily that time i din rugi to him. haha

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Added on April 28, 2009, 3:05 pmyes, agree with the comments that given by these guys. i once get fooled by a guy in a club, he's my fren's fren. thn the nxt day my fren hint me that it's not necessary to be serious in club. guys jz wan to hv fun. so i learnt to b a smart gal after that. luckily that time i din rugi to him. haha

TS, You love Him and does he do the same thing to you?
Very common things de lor, inside the club out of 0.01% are good guys and the rest.. noneed mention.

The relationship moved to fast and very unstable for both side. i think that he wanted is s3x only, but your looking for a long term relationship.
still got alot udang out there la~ will u give up others udang just for 1 udang only? 



anyway~ decision is in your hand. You able to rise the problem already, but it's up to u how to solve it.
CC community can give advise only, in the end you was the one will choose what is the best for yourself.

i'm one of the 0.01% 

the 0.01% doesnt exist

he just want sex thats all. Hw cud u didnt realise it ?

before u left him ask him buy u a lv bag lar~ go shopping spree with his credit card

You come my house la, if you want some advice. My house got chivas and martell.

Here's some woman survival guide.
What a man really mean when he says..

"I'm hungry." = I'm hungry.

"I'm sleepy." = I'm sleepy.

"I'm tired." = I'm tired.

"Do you want to go to a movie?" = I'd eventually like to have sex with you.

"Can I take you out to dinner?" = Same as Above

"Can I call you sometime?" = Same as Above

"Nice dress!" = Nice cleavage!

"You look tense, let me give you a massage." = I want to feel your bare skin

"What's wrong?" = I don't see why you are making such a big deal out of this.

"What's wrong?" = What meaningless self-inflicted psychological trauma are you going through now?

"I love you, too." = Okay, I said it...we'd better have sex now!

"Yes, I like the way you cut your hair." = I liked it better before.

"Yes, I like the way you cut your hair." = $50 and it doesn't look that much different!

"Let's talk." = I am trying to impress you by showing that I am a deep person and maybe then we can get down to business

"Will you marry me?" = I want to make it illegal for you to have sex with other guys.

(while shopping) "I like that one better." = Pick any freakin' dress and let's go home!

let him go, girl..
he's goin japan u see...
japan....hmm.......

u see, both of u cant even have a good relationship in this short distance, how can u two be able to mantain for a long distance one?

u r wasting ur time~

But end up I bump back to him. Just the night I bump back to him, he wanted to drag me home. I told him the next day I won't be free since I'm having family trip, but he insist to bring me home. He himself requested to Call my mom, and tell her to let me sleep over at his house. Seriously I'm shock =.=

At the next thought, I felt so, SO annoyed of what he did, I really feel like slapping him hard, eventhough he wanted to show his love using his dainty body, but sorry, I don't like it. He really call up my mom, and keep on request and request eventhough my mom decline his request, until at last my mom threaten him that she might launch a police report.

Luckily you did not fall to that... 

oh dang, force to remove topic (: sister found my account 

sorry for not replying soon or neglecting any of you peoples.
This few days, it happened. I broke up with him, but I felt empty in the heart. I don't regret dumping this shit guy. But end up I bump back to him. Just the night I bump back to him, he wanted to drag me home. I told him the next day I won't be free since I'm having family trip, but he insist to bring me home. He himself requested to Call my mom, and tell her to let me sleep over at his house. Seriously I'm shock =.=

At the next thought, I felt so, SO annoyed of what he did, I really feel like slapping him hard, eventhough he wanted to show his love using his dainty body, but sorry, I don't like it. He really call up my mom, and keep on request and request eventhough my mom decline his request, until at last my mom threaten him that she might launch a police report.

Heh, after that day, I seldom text him, and stop calling him and answering his phone call anymore. Who knows what is he thinking? Even my girlfriend whom introduced me to my current boyfriend also shock after I told her about it.

I get over him already.
I am a happy happy girl already, forumers! (: admit that I'm quite naive and stubborn, but it's not easy to get in love or even falling in love.
Yes yes, I'm just a youth.

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Added on May 5, 2009, 9:41 pmoh dang, force to remove topic (: sister found my account 

most guys want sex, and i think only like what 0.0001 doesnt want it?

n about guys in clubs..don think so need to elaborate. ive been to a bar before and theres this guy, he kept on bugging one gal for hp number or something..geesh its so irritating when everyone is trying to dance. then i ask my fren wheteher that gal (my fren's fren) knows that guy. she said no he is a total stranger.

i think gals shouldnt layan so much this kind of guys. first of all, they gv us some kind of bad impresion expecialy when theyre a total stranger. even if  that guy is a friend's fren, dont put too much trust also...don think so club is such a good place at meeting new ppl. not saying all ppl in clubs are bad, but then lots of things usually happen there n beyond

i used to be crazy at clubs or bar (im not into drinking, just like to dance around) and when guys come approach my frens or me, we usually just ignore them haha. and the toilet...omg. dont want to mention it. full of (*)(*!$ all over n its a gal toilet sumore.

anyway to TS, dont think so much. thx goodness u both din go beyond the boundaries...so at least u dont feel bad for urself. he is not worth it, i mean since he doesnt even wan to meet ur parents. the reason is because he dont want ur parents to recognize who is he and in case anything happen, he doesnt want ur family to go after him. i think meeting one's parents is often the sign to acknowledge that ur ready to go steady and take responsibility of one's daughter or son... just forget about him alright?  good  luck  and tc

Hey peoples. I need help, tremendous help in my confusing relationship. 
Yes I know I'll be answered with 'too fast' about my relationship, and that's the cause.

We recognized each other in club introduced by my friend.  We had a few days chat, as in 2 weeks, or even lesser? The next time we met, still, in club. & that's where we end up as a lovebird stepping out the club going home that night, and we tongue-kissed during the night and he did some touching under there *you know what* and I was shock but I've no opinion during that time.

I think perhaps I'm tipsy, he either. But we still use to sms the next day, we called each other baby, bii, whatever sweety pie, cherry pie, vodka, whatever nick name we can do. lol, but okay, the next day, I was drunked in the club, my friend sent me to his house, and we did oral sex. AND, he nearly get my virginity when i'm in a tipsy mode. But then he didn't. I was really, really drunk that night.

After that, we did some talk, but he doesn't really care about what I say. All he want is just, 'come to my house la if you wanna understand me more' I was like, wtf seriously. The first few weeks we couple up, yes I got lied to go to his house to have dinner, end up I overnight at his house, cause I wanted to. But he just, well, quite wild? I met his parents already, just for the freaking 1st week, I so feel ashame. My mom complained alot of times, so I asked him to meet my mom, but he rejected. I felt dissapointed and I can feel our love flows slower than before, because I don't like guys who reject to meet parents, I feel that they've no brave at all --  I spent times with him and his friends, every night went for yumcha session with them, but instead I talked more to his friends more than him.

Yes, we've no topic. Or should I probably say, he doesn't even give a shit to my topic -.-
I discussed to him several times, he said sorry, he'll improve, but when we met face to face, he goes lazy to care about what we had mention.

and now, I tried not to even reload a sen to my phone and it continued for around 5 days, he only give me a call, ask me where am I, wanna go out or not, sometimes he even call just to chat a few moments, but what we do, is, how are you, and that's it, we stayed quiet for a moment. Seriously, I'm those common girl which hope that my relationship will stay alive every moment, stay talkative. So I couldn't bare with the second we gotten silent. I know sometimes stay quiet might be a good ending but not all time?!?! 

Whenever I stories to him about what happened, he's like replying with a "mm." then when I talked about his friends stuffs he like picturing dongeng stories that can talk alot  

I then talked to him again, I told him did he felt weird about what happen to us recently? He's like, is it? I don't think so. 
and that's it, he's going to Japan next week, he mention to wait for him, but I'm confuse, shoud I? I love to hang out with his group of friends. I llike him, but we hardly can maintain as a lovebird anymore.

I wanna rescue it........
or should I let go?   

I'm not sad, I'm just hestitating how. 

Ok... that is something I just can't stand about girls. Putting guys to the test!