ai.. well.... thats life... people will only tend to be learned after mistake.... BUT throw your damn friend that who sent you to his house when u were drunk.. as most probably both of them planned it as they are friend right? OR u r the one screaming want to go to his house at that time?? In the matter of Sex if u didnt being forced to do should be no question and i suppose u already awake if not how r u going to do oral with him?