TS, dont waste your time in this relationship. Since he just dont give a shit on what you are talking about. So other than his friends issue. Both of u got no topic already, how can both of you maintain this relationship with only talking about his friend. And now he is going to Japan, you think he will call u everyday, pay attention to what you are trying to share with him? Sorry to say that, but i dont think both of you can maintain this relationship, since too many attractions in Japan. As if he got a gf in Japan, and come back to Msia and ask for your forgive, will you accept him? No way.gal.LEave him