I would like to propose something , and I really hope to get a participation of all of you that is involve in this. I would like to propose a small gathering session ( like I proposed earlier to all of you ) , a gathering cater for all of us and those affected. The objective of this gathering is just to have a small meet up, and discuss things out. And formally I would like to apologize to all of the parties involved ( those that I have hurt or done damage ), and with this :

1- those feels that I have owed them something, cud voice out and ill settle it with them
2- any money that I owe u guys, I will pay to what ever money I owe ( if there is one )
3- any misunderstanding / unhappiness of members/collectors , then ill personally apologise and make it up
4- and so on…

From this gathering a bunch of u , cud slamp me / Fk me / scold me wat ever u guys want to, and after the session I will ( like I said ) take the opportunity to say SORRY to all of you.

And let us be friend friend and continues to be collectors fren. Like wise man say : there is no point having an enemy than to have a Friend .

I appreciate the friendships I have gathered ( and understand some friendship might have damaged ) therefore I am trying to put things right back on the track.


What I am doing all this is SINCERELY comes from my heart and feelings. All of this are NOT trying to BUY / PLEASE yr heart. I know when I proposed this out , some or most of you will definitely slamp me back and might even say that im trying to Sweet Talk out and buy ppls heart out ! . But swear deep in my heart this is not my intention. My intention is purely to make everyone here happy, lets have a win win happy situation and no point continuing this .

With this thread , it has already caused me A LOT of damages. Not only damages on my image and reputation here also in other forums , worst still it has affected my work badly and worst of all it affects me mentally and emotionally.

Come on friends and members, does this damages is not Good enuff for u all ? until you all still cant give one a chance to change ? an individual that has learn its mistake but cant be given a chance ? Just take 3 minutes

If most of u think that, I do not deserve to be forgiven or be given just 1 chance and I should not be a collector anymore . then alright ill respect all of your suggestion , and I will officially quit collecting n and quit being a collector and lelong off all my collection 1 by 1. if that’s wat you guys really want, and if you think with this issue and after all this, I have tried to be a better person and try to change but yet you guys rather and will be happy that short of another collector; another fren . then I will respect you all and quit collecting .


( All statement above are written and presented in a Sincere and Humble manner , pls do not take it as I am talking arrogantly or any negative remarks . it is purely from my heart )

like i say i have learnt my mistake and will NOT repeat it. wat i will do in future is to make sure the deal is ON and confirm the price once both seller buyer ok, then only meet up and COD.

wat i want is just a chance to let myself stand up and make frens with all instead of arguments. that is why im suggesting for a gathering... u guys can always take it as a small gathering session not more than that .


like i also said , i am not trying to take and be proud of my ebay or lelong rating and show the world how good i am. but rather to show and tell ppl i was never a CON man or ppl that try to cheat ppls money.

pertaining to this issue i believe it is more on my bargaining attitude. maybe i am no good in bargaining attitude. but i believe i have no problem in becoming a fren. <- ( correct me if im wrong )


from this i have learnt....

Bak Kata Orang :

" Tak Jatuh Tak Tahu, Dah Jatuh Baru Tau Sakit, Dan Dari Situ Baru Ambik Pengajaran. Bangun Dan Berjuang Lagi "

is this right ???