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Girls are money minded, And be proud of it.
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POYOZER
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 Oct 7 2009, 02:54 PM
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QUOTE(7chai @ Oct 7 2009, 02:44 PM) i tell u this, not all gals are money minded. Those gal who money minded i've meet in real life, never rely on their boyfren and husband, they made their own single cent, this is what i looked up. Some even support their boyfren, of course their boyfren own some decent quality as well. And because of that, i look at this thread title, and see what other replying. It gives me a feeling that "Guy who not rich = not self motivated, and is a huge sin for not getting rich." Do u get what i mean. these people live in their own world. I don’t like when some spoilt girls trying to brainwash the good girls.  QUOTE(Deimos Tel`Arin @ Oct 7 2009, 02:47 PM) kawan, i dun think they will understand even after they watched that movie.  Must be they are ego to understand because too much fantasy playing in their head.  |
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POYOZER
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Oct 7 2009, 03:04 PM
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QUOTE(caesar18 @ Oct 7 2009, 03:00 PM) Totally understand what you mean  I agree what you said, it's kind of insult for those guys who work out of their socks and still not rich. Do they not self motivated? Not all people are lucky. Some people work gawd dang hard until retire also didn’t reach 5 figures of monthly income. Some people no need to work hard but money is like drop from the sky for him to enjoy. |
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POYOZER
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Oct 7 2009, 08:34 PM
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Silverhawk is our hero like alwayz. =)
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POYOZER
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Oct 7 2009, 10:27 PM
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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 7 2009, 10:13 PM) Human are money minded, you;re money minded, will u accept a job offer half the salary you;re drawing today? you wont right, because you;ve commitment. does it make you evil? does it make you any less a man? you;ve set a standard and you keep your standard because you believe you deserve more. same as I beleive in more.
Added on October 7, 2009, 10:17 pmI believe you still own me a reply...are you looking down on fulltime mother? Have you heard about Seven Deadly Sins? Greed (covetousness, avarice) — Greed is when somebody wants more things than the person needs or can use. Dante wrote that greed is too much "love of money and power".
Envy (invidia) — Like greed, Envy (Latin, invidia) may be characterized by an insatiable desire; they differ, however, for two main reasons. First, greed is largely associated with material goods, where as envy may apply more generally. Second, those who commit the sin of envy resent that another person has something they perceive themselves as lacking, and wish the other person to be deprived of it. Dante defined this as "love of one's own good perverted to a desire to deprive other men of theirs." In Dante's Purgatory, the punishment for the envious is to have their eyes sewn shut with wire because they have gained sinful pleasure from seeing others brought low. Aquinas described envy as "sorrow for another's good".
Pride (vanity) — In almost every list Pride (Latin, superbia), or hubris, is considered the original and most serious of the seven deadly sins, and indeed the ultimate source from which the others arise. It is identified as a desire to be more important or attractive than others, failing to acknowledge the good work of others, and excessive love of self (especially holding self out of proper position toward God). Dante's definition was "love of self perverted to hatred and contempt for one's neighbor." In Jacob Bidermann's medieval miracle play, Cenodoxus, pride is the deadliest of all the sins and leads directly to the damnation of the titulary famed Parisian doctor. In perhaps the best-known example, the story of Lucifer, pride (his desire to compete with God) was what caused his fall from Heaven, and his resultant transformation into Satan. In Dante's Divine Comedy, the penitents were forced to walk with stone slabs bearing down on their backs in order to induce feelings of humility.source: 1. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_Deadly_Sins2. http://simple.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_deadly_sinsThis post has been edited by POYOZER: Oct 7 2009, 11:13 PM |
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POYOZER
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Oct 8 2009, 02:14 PM
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I just realize you just edited your first post. QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM) From the topic http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/967243 it made me think deep why are girl money minded. Thousand s of years ago, money do not exist, girl will choose their partner base on security, they look for well built male who can protect them from wild animals and wild man or whatever wild things,they're vulnerable when they;re pregnant, and the years when they need to raise children. This has been genetic in female. Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi. So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.to avoid repeating myself 1000X I'm not saying choose money but no love, no romance, your husband only love you for sex, and so on, I'm saying you hv a normal couple life just that your husband is rich. I'm not saying when he is rich you flaunt his wealth and spend lavishly, as pointed up there, the intention is SECURITY. I'm not saying aim for DATUK! The purpose of the wealth is SECURITY, so you can have children with him and knowing he is capable. Have you heard about Seven Deadly Sins? Greed (covetousness, avarice) — Greed is when somebody wants more things than the person needs or can use. Dante wrote that greed is too much "love of money and power".
Envy (invidia) — Like greed, Envy (Latin, invidia) may be characterized by an insatiable desire; they differ, however, for two main reasons. First, greed is largely associated with material goods, where as envy may apply more generally. Second, those who commit the sin of envy resent that another person has something they perceive themselves as lacking, and wish the other person to be deprived of it. Dante defined this as "love of one's own good perverted to a desire to deprive other men of theirs." In Dante's Purgatory, the punishment for the envious is to have their eyes sewn shut with wire because they have gained sinful pleasure from seeing others brought low. Aquinas described envy as "sorrow for another's good".
Pride (vanity) — In almost every list Pride (Latin, superbia), or hubris, is considered the original and most serious of the seven deadly sins, and indeed the ultimate source from which the others arise. It is identified as a desire to be more important or attractive than others, failing to acknowledge the good work of others, and excessive love of self (especially holding self out of proper position toward God). Dante's definition was "love of self perverted to hatred and contempt for one's neighbor." In Jacob Bidermann's medieval miracle play, Cenodoxus, pride is the deadliest of all the sins and leads directly to the damnation of the titulary famed Parisian doctor. In perhaps the best-known example, the story of Lucifer, pride (his desire to compete with God) was what caused his fall from Heaven, and his resultant transformation into Satan. In Dante's Divine Comedy, the penitents were forced to walk with stone slabs bearing down on their backs in order to induce feelings of humility.source: 1. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_Deadly_Sins2. http://simple.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_deadly_sinsThis post has been edited by POYOZER: Oct 8 2009, 02:17 PM |
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POYOZER
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Oct 8 2009, 02:54 PM
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QUOTE So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice. Since this statement is really goes wrong, so I would like to share to you my personal story. You can ignore this story if you want to. » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «
I would like to share a story with you guys. It’s about my parents. Last time my dad can consider a poor guy because that time he served as a fighter under the government. Even though he came from rich family, but he didn’t enjoy the wealth from his dad. My family practiced this in every generation. If want to get something, need to work for it. Compare to normal family, normally parents will fund some money to their children for entertainment, education and health. My dad didn’t get those privileges including me. After few months of graduation, my dad got to know with my mom and she was a Chinese. That time my dad is still poor. But she don’t mind much about money and get married with my dad. We live with poor lifestyle even many years after I was born. We stayed at low-class flat also no problem. And now, my dad’s income, the tax itself is already above the average of income in Malaysia. And he is still practicing a medium lifestyle where people who have a same income as him already bought few luxury cars and bungalow.
This case is not only happened to my dad, but many people around me too. I’m sharing this story not to show off. But I want to correct your statement.
To TS, don’t tell me you label my mom as immature. Plus, I totally don’t agree with your topic especially when you said “Girls are money minded, and be proud of it”.
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POYOZER
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Oct 8 2009, 03:03 PM
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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 8 2009, 02:57 PM) I think I've mention it b4, last time 1.8k salary can raise 6 children, nowadays in KL, you still think a 2k salary man can do the same? If you want luxury lifestyle with that income, of course cannot. » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « Like my dad’s case, my mom doesn’t mind to staying with him even that time they are staying at low-class flat. Eat cheap foods and rarely go to shopping.
If you think that time my dad got enough income, then why we are staying at low-class flat even few years after i was born?
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POYOZER
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Oct 8 2009, 10:43 PM
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QUOTE So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice. Fuahh fuah...until now I still cannot tahan with this statement. I don't know why. Frankly speaking, my view about money-minded girls, I feel like those girls who think like that are pure weak, not well-educated and also less exposure to the real world. They like got stuck at their small circle too. That’s why they choose shortcut because they want to skip the hard part of life. Scared and feel insecure with the life. For me this type of girl is really immature. From my opinion, those girls who choose wealth for the main criteria on husband to get married are totally a loser. No hard feeling. This is just my view. If you don’t like, just ignore it. Take it or leave it. |
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POYOZER
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Oct 8 2009, 11:07 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Oct 8 2009, 11:01 PM) girls who choose only money or only looks are just bound for a failed marriage. Those things are so flimsy ... here today, gone tomorrow. +1  For me, balance in life is the key for happy relationship |
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POYOZER
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Oct 8 2009, 11:42 PM
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 8 2009, 11:26 PM) Poyozer, told you already. Gals who go after financial security is not because they aim for materialistic enjoyment, but for uncertainties in the future. What are you trying to say is totally different than Moorish’s statement. |
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POYOZER
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Oct 8 2009, 11:51 PM
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QUOTE(Drian @ Oct 8 2009, 03:23 PM) Shallow ...haha, the pot calling the kettle black. Yes yes I'm very shallow, I go only for rich wives and guys who go for poor wives are stupid and immature. And to those guys who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the father instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice. Yes I'm so shallow. God help me. LOL. 2nd version
So guys, be proud when you choose a sexy wife with big booby and long legs, and to those guys who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the father instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.How do you feel Moorish? This post has been edited by POYOZER: Oct 8 2009, 11:55 PM |
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POYOZER
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Oct 9 2009, 12:37 AM
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Oct 9 2009, 12:25 AM) LOL This is just words, what should I care for? I'm not telling lies and all the scenarios I shared were true. This is a great chance for me to speed up my typing skill so that I can think fast and type fast! I hope all of you can prove that I'm wrong. And I hope one day I would regret this mindset grown in my mind since I was secondary school. I seriously do hope so. So come and prove me that I'm wrong, you all guys who claim that gals look for financial capable men are evil!Everyone also wants financial security. It is not a sin. Even god ordered us to work to find money to support the family. But not until... So girls, be proud when you choose a rich husband, and to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice.This post has been edited by POYOZER: Oct 9 2009, 12:38 AM |
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Oct 9 2009, 12:46 PM
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QUOTE(viper88 @ Oct 9 2009, 12:08 PM)  If girls have this mature mindset like spunkberry, my respect for them.  U have my respect too spunkberry  Totally agree. Thumbs up to Spunkberry. For me, money minded girl is just one of the entertainment for guys. When want to go for serious relationship, normally guys will choose the good one. Even bad guys also know about this. Except to the guys who don’t have any other alternative. This post has been edited by POYOZER: Oct 9 2009, 12:53 PM |
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POYOZER
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Oct 9 2009, 12:51 PM
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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 9 2009, 08:20 AM) correct...balance. money and love...very balance If I’m not mistaken, last time you said money is more important than the love. How come suddenly you agreed about “balance”? QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 9 2009, 08:48 AM) its like prehistoric woman shout chose a guy that can hunt n bring back food n protect the family...be proud of it. but modern incapable man seem to have a problem with this theory, are you a lesser man? You can label me as a lesser man.  |
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Oct 9 2009, 12:57 PM
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QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Oct 9 2009, 12:54 PM) Are you going to kill yours? Have you ever felt that you were going to? Because if not, I don't see how this is relevant to the discussion. They lack of self-control? Too much fantasy. Materialistic is more important than love. That’s why can become like that. This post has been edited by POYOZER: Oct 9 2009, 12:57 PM |
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Oct 9 2009, 03:04 PM
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QUOTE(cynthiacassandra @ Oct 9 2009, 03:02 PM) i duno wat u all talking bout here..... but i agreed for this !!!! Girls are money minded, And be proud of it !!! who's no?? not even girls...its applied on guys as well.... sumore...wat century is this?? everythg is all about money.... eventho money cant buy any happiness...life or wat so ever...but if without money u ar nobody.... hik  cheerzz !! Everyone also money minded. But to choose a husband because of money, that is totally cheap. |
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Oct 9 2009, 03:12 PM
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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 9 2009, 03:07 PM) fulltime mother need to makan right? or you expect the baby to earn her milk and diapers? Do you mind to tell to your husband that you chose him because of his wealth and love is the second? |
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POYOZER
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Oct 9 2009, 03:31 PM
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Moorish, I was wondering about your education level. Mind to tell?
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Oct 9 2009, 03:46 PM
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QUOTE(7chai @ Oct 9 2009, 03:42 PM) thats the difference between u and me, mine is feeling come 1st, while urs are money come 1st. That what u self proclaimed "I am money minded" +1 |
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