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Chat Gf left me, she say i am poor, 4 years relationship,fail future wedding

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post Feb 19 2009, 05:16 PM

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Girls wan money, guys wan beauty.

SO girls, keep up your beauty always. ho ho ho.
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post Feb 19 2009, 05:17 PM

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QUOTE(genesic @ Feb 19 2009, 04:54 PM)
girl are materistic even they admit they are not..
you get them something expensive, they treat you like hero..
you get them somethting cheap, you get nothing ...
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I seen many of them during my college days until now!

QUOTE(devil_x @ Feb 19 2009, 04:59 PM)
not all girls are materialistic
probably coz she was exposed to wealthy environment/frens
sooner or later, they will want more, they will nid more

its just reality....
just let her be a reminder for u to move forward
excel in ur career
may not have to be rich
but at least make ur life a better one financialy
one day, prove to her right in her face that u got wat it takes to succeed!
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As for me,I will nvr fall bcos of women! I will nvr ever repeat like those happened in history such as:

-Helen of Troy : The face who launched a thousand ships
-Samson & Delilah
-Mark Anthony & Cleopatra
-吕布与貂婵

This post has been edited by b3rnard7: Feb 19 2009, 05:20 PM
hoilok
post Feb 19 2009, 05:19 PM

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yeah... campaign against the woman
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post Feb 19 2009, 05:25 PM

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QUOTE(barista @ Feb 19 2009, 05:14 PM)
If your job is a problem, did you try other means of making more money? Did you try looking for other jobs?

A girl doesn't just leave because the bf has no money. She will leave when the bf is comfortable at where he is now. That means, he doesn't do anything to improve his situation. He does not put in more effort for his own good.

You must know your gf has a job too. She comes from a better family than you. Do you think she needs to depend on some guy? She needs someone who has self-respect and dignity for himself.
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excellent insight. TS should reflect on that.
there's nothing more of a turn off to a lady than to see her man comfortable just having enough and not motivated to achieve more in life.
when your parents say she is useless, do they mean that because she's not willing to strive with you?
as a man, you are to marry this woman. you are to bring her into your family.
as a girl with a decent background, imagine her situation if she had to struggle not only to survive with you, but to contribute to your parents expenses too. is that fair for her?


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post Feb 19 2009, 05:40 PM

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That's why parents always say don't pak toh while still young. Some might not know what they want yet, until later, until they are grown ups and know what they want.

She has changed, and one of the human feature is we can change!! Can't blame her, no one blame you too. Things are just not meant to be.

But I think she has grown up, while you still not yet.
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post Feb 19 2009, 05:48 PM

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yes, people change. what they liked before, may not be what they like now. and what they want before, may not be their want now. that's how life is.

it seems to me that you're stuck in a moment, and you're not getting out of it. and sad to say, she's moved on. however, i'm sure this didn't happen overnight, and must have been a buildup of things between you two. what really happened, only you know. but the important thing for you is to move forward.

key word: move forward
tips: don't wallow in self pity
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post Feb 19 2009, 05:49 PM

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Move on TS. There are many women in this world, like grains of seeds. There are many to pick on, just you have to know which is compatible with you. Try to change your environment, that will give you a good start. Think positive. nod.gif
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post Feb 19 2009, 05:55 PM

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QUOTE(Eric_Almighty @ Feb 19 2009, 04:50 PM)
人又老, 钱又无, 老婆又走路

Anyway, life move on. Don't always linger onto your past.
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dam...i was eating spaghetti when i readed this post...i laugh like hell dam u.... sweat.gif
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post Feb 19 2009, 05:55 PM

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QUOTE(LiewFreddy @ Feb 19 2009, 04:42 PM)
How to use tangan kanan...will it pancut many???? thumbup.gif  thumbup.gif  sweat.gif  sweat.gif
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sad.gif TS, u more strong than me even my relationship juz 2 months...u still able to joking in tis moment, but i unable to do it... now.. i juz trying to separate my attention with work n study...
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post Feb 19 2009, 06:04 PM

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go out and sell karipap and earn more than RM2000 a month garantee
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post Feb 19 2009, 06:15 PM

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money > girls. You forgot this before going to date.
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post Feb 19 2009, 06:16 PM

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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Feb 19 2009, 06:04 PM)
go out and sell karipap and earn more than RM2000 a month garantee
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vmad.gif ur avatar spoiling my mood...
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post Feb 19 2009, 06:20 PM

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QUOTE(Fruit @ Feb 19 2009, 06:16 PM)
vmad.gif  ur avatar spoiling my mood...
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Agreed sweat.gif

TS, start revenge by getting yourself a honour .Work hard, save money and show off your new no money minded gf. OK? icon_rolleyes.gif
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post Feb 19 2009, 06:25 PM

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Or don't move on, if it is not your pace. Since you only just broke up, maybe there is still hope if both of you are meant to be together.

But definitely grow up, upgrade, MOVE UP your level. Don't blame her for her family background. No matter how good is her background, she has to put in the EFFORT herself. You cannot force knowledge into her, or pour wisdom into her.

She had the chance, the opportunity, and she also had the means to be better and she made used of all that is available to her. So ask, why didn't you? Why did you only focus on non-important things, and now time wasted, money wasted. Ah moi also lari.

Good news is, it is never too late to realize and to change. Maybe after you have move up your level, you'll find that you actually like other types of girls, and not her.

Good luck.
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post Feb 19 2009, 06:26 PM

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aiyo, when you got gf, this kind of money u had to standby liao, if not , later sure kena teruk.
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QUOTE(Getz @ Feb 19 2009, 06:20 PM)
Agreed  sweat.gif

TS, start revenge by getting yourself a honour .Work hard, save money and show off your new no money minded gf. OK?  icon_rolleyes.gif
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doh.gif i agreed with u but the last sentence i was strongly disagreed to u , it was like children fighting each other n revenge, dun think too childish thing, positive minded, take ur effort and invest to the others...
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post Feb 19 2009, 06:31 PM

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good thing she dump u.
else u will suffer for the rest of your life for this money sucker
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post Feb 19 2009, 06:43 PM

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TS, stay strong. I believe someone is out there who will love you for who you are, not how much you earn
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post Feb 19 2009, 06:53 PM

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earn $ time...
when evy1 is retrenched... time to earn more $$$$$

so eventualy u become rich faster...
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Quoted : Warren Buffet
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QUOTE(Fruit @ Feb 19 2009, 06:26 PM)
doh.gif i agreed with u but the last sentence i was strongly disagreed to u , it was like children fighting each other n revenge, dun think too childish thing, positive minded,  take ur effort and invest to the others...
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nah, I just want to cheer him up. most post quite serious. hehe laugh.gif

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