life goes on bro, i'm studying in a private school now, the girls there like money eventhough their bf damn kao yong shui, money will be everything

Cut your kuku, be a trans and find a richer man.

Then flaunt in front of her.

Dear Ts,

I think you should focus on your career right now. I imagine that your lack of good job and lack of opportunities must be tearing your confidence down. It becomes an extra thing that your ex had to cope with.

Also, love is important but so is money. Why? Well, so you and your gf/wife will not have to argue about money all the time. Girls want financially stable men because they don't want to suffer every month from the lack of cash. They want to know that if they marry the guy, their children will not have to starve and their life will not be lacking of necessities.

Love turns sour when 1 argues too much about the same thing and money is a gigantic cause to arguments.

So for now, just work, seek opportunities and so forth. Asking a poor person to cope with being a rich guy is hard. Asking a rich person to cope with a poor partner is practically impossible. they are used to luxuries.

girl are materistic even they admit they are not..
you get them something expensive, they treat you like hero..
you get them somethting cheap, you get nothing ...

Not all, especially me.

wonder how u can be jobless for a year .... addicted to something ?

not all girls are materialistic
probably coz she was exposed to wealthy environment/frens
sooner or later, they will want more, they will nid more

its just reality....
just let her be a reminder for u to move forward
excel in ur career
may not have to be rich
but at least make ur life a better one financialy
one day, prove to her right in her face that u got wat it takes to succeed!

your parents cheat u, ur the one who useless.

can''t blame her for wanting to find stability in life.. i suppose you guys are at the age of settling down... but.....

she has been seeing someone even when you two are still together...
ever wondered where she went or wat she did with the other guy?

you are considered lucky to be able to see her true face before u are married...
you might still wan to linger on yr sadness and past... but it will only bring u harm...

cherish yrself.. only you and only u can save yrself...
take a moment and think for yrself... wat do you have to lose if u live yr life without her?

5 years from now, she sits at home
feeding the baby, she's all alone
she turns on tv, guess who she sees
skater boi rocking up mtv


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dude, you took 1 year to get a job? and that time economy wasn't even bad...

Love also need $$$ to maintain 1,nothing is free under the sky!

without $$$,gal will look down on u at all times!

without $$$,a love relation will nvr last long.

There is no gals will say this word to their bf "I dun mind to eat roti everyday & share any burden with u,as long as both of us can b together" (In movies/dramas got la)

Every girls are materialistic, but it depends, some are like that because they are realistic too...

Love is just like a set of wheels, you need money to maintain one...

haha, modern days cannot like that
in the ancient days only can. can still grow own vege and breed chickens.

put this on your mind,

women are only good for sex
women are only good for sex
women are only good for sex

you'll be fine.

fong sau .. fong hoi soh yao!!

This post has been edited by AhS4b: Feb 19 2009, 05:12 PM

Hopefully most guys will wake up and realized that girls are a peace of assets for you to invest as well.

Well they're old saggy and ugly, dump them for a new one too.

time to move on lol...when you are in diff stage is not talk about love only , material , security all is put into consideration

move on ..get better to show her what u're capable

TS,

i have been married for more than 9 yrs...believe me the problems that always.. is "money"

She want somebody with good or stable financial status and job...

My advise is ....update yourself...

Move on ...find other girlfriend....

Find truth love... Hidup & Senang Bersama

If your job is a problem, did you try other means of making more money? Did you try looking for other jobs?

A girl doesn't just leave because the bf has no money. She will leave when the bf is comfortable at where he is now. That means, he doesn't do anything to improve his situation. He does not put in more effort for his own good.

You must know your gf has a job too. She comes from a better family than you. Do you think she needs to depend on some guy? She needs someone who has self-respect and dignity for himself.

money talks, bullsh!t walks.