how do u let a colleague know you want a fling?
how do u let a colleague know you want a fling?
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Jan 12 2009, 04:50 AM
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Just curious how old is you and her ?
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Jan 12 2009, 08:06 AM
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QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 12 2009, 04:48 AM) honestly, i dun really care too much if number 3 happens... Well, actually the end result is this....she may keep calling you and etc......and there are two things that may happen...she may already know its a fling and that she just cant get enough of it ..(which is good for you..) ...or she just does not get it and take it serious...(this is the part where you are skrewed..) ... i think the best thing is to either...be direct with her.. or continue this ...secretly......but again.. watch your back...if you know what i mean....but i am a little worried that she might want something more serious as i took her virginity... she did sms me today asking me how was my day...the 1st time ever she sms me after working together for 2 years... this worries me...should i at least reply her sms? did i exploit her though...? i mean, she probably knew wat was coming when i invited her to a club twice and then suggested we go back to my place...she agreed...dunno if this qualifies as exploitation...i dont think so... what happen has happened.....so you will have to live with it one way or another...either follow through and hope that it does not leave to disastrous results....(where you lose the ferrari etc....i believe you have seen enough movies or dramas to know about this ...).......so best of luck.... Added on January 12, 2009, 8:09 am QUOTE(Bakmoi @ Jan 12 2009, 05:50 AM) I dun think age is in question here... this mate is just worried that his fling goes serious on him...i mean...losing her virginity, mate.......well, as the saying goes...come what mayThis post has been edited by devilicd: Jan 12 2009, 08:09 AM |
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Jan 12 2009, 09:50 AM
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Jan 12 2009, 10:44 AM
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LOL so many judges here. I just wanna know the outcome.
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Jan 12 2009, 02:16 PM
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TS,
I can only think of one word that can describe your situation... Screwed he he he....maybe it's not that bad. Give her some time...she might forget about ya This post has been edited by yjeen: Jan 12 2009, 02:18 PM |
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Jan 12 2009, 03:56 PM
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QUOTE(Bakmoi @ Jan 12 2009, 04:50 AM) she's 28, i'm 24...i dont think it matters too much... okie...a little update: din reply her sms...saw her in office, it's awkward... i dunno if anyone else knows... worrying thing, she asked me...what about my gf... i just kinda grinned... din really talk much the whole day but she send me a YM and said we needed to talk... Added on January 12, 2009, 4:01 pm QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 12 2009, 08:06 AM) Well, actually the end result is this....she may keep calling you and etc......and there are two things that may happen...she may already know its a fling and that she just cant get enough of it ..(which is good for you..) ...or she just does not get it and take it serious...(this is the part where you are skrewed..) ... i think the best thing is to either...be direct with her.. or continue this ...secretly......but again.. watch your back...if you know what i mean.... i think the 2nd thing is happening...what happen has happened.....so you will have to live with it one way or another...either follow through and hope that it does not leave to disastrous results....(where you lose the ferrari etc....i believe you have seen enough movies or dramas to know about this ...).......so best of luck.... she doesnt get it... should have known she's a virgin or not 1st... since this is the 1st time, she might feel something more... if i knew tat she is a virgin...i wouldnt have gone near her... damn it... This post has been edited by reinhard: Jan 12 2009, 04:01 PM |
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Jan 12 2009, 04:47 PM
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damn, read this thread abit too late... else i would've told you to stop.
dude dun la cheat on ur gf... if need s*x go ask ur gf for it... if you malang, get this girl pregnant, alot complication. talking from experience here. worst case scenario is very easy to kena - gf leave you, u marry avg girl who is older than u by 4 yrs, raise baby at young age. seriously would suck man. |
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Jan 12 2009, 05:31 PM
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QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 12 2009, 04:56 PM) she's 28, i'm 24... I think you have finally come down to reality....now comes the tricky part...How to not let your ferrari know that you have been taking the jaguar for a night drive.....thats why no matter how perverted you are...YOU ONLY FLIRT!!!i dont think it matters too much... okie...a little update: din reply her sms...saw her in office, it's awkward... i dunno if anyone else knows... worrying thing, she asked me...what about my gf... i just kinda grinned... din really talk much the whole day but she send me a YM and said we needed to talk... Added on January 12, 2009, 4:01 pm i think the 2nd thing is happening... she doesnt get it... should have known she's a virgin or not 1st... since this is the 1st time, she might feel something more... if i knew tat she is a virgin...i wouldnt have gone near her... damn it... This post has been edited by devilicd: Jan 12 2009, 06:03 PM |
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Jan 12 2009, 06:01 PM
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TS, you are screwed
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Jan 12 2009, 06:15 PM
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QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 12 2009, 05:31 PM) I think you have finally come down to reality....now comes the tricky part...How to not let your ferrari know that you have been taking the jaguar for a night drive.....thats why no matter how perverted you are...YOU ONLY FLIRT!!! yea, but honestly, how many girls are still virgin at aged 28+?in this time and age especially... Added on January 12, 2009, 6:18 pm QUOTE(tajukagebunshin @ Jan 12 2009, 04:47 PM) damn, read this thread abit too late... else i would've told you to stop. yea...a little worried about the pregnancy thing as well...dude dun la cheat on ur gf... if need s*x go ask ur gf for it... if you malang, get this girl pregnant, alot complication. talking from experience here. worst case scenario is very easy to kena - gf leave you, u marry avg girl who is older than u by 4 yrs, raise baby at young age. seriously would suck man. but as I did not deposit inside...should be fine... This post has been edited by reinhard: Jan 12 2009, 06:18 PM |
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Jan 12 2009, 06:19 PM
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TS don't you know that there's a 70% chance of pregnancy if you don't use condom??
yes... 70% even if you ejaculate outside. This post has been edited by rourou: Jan 12 2009, 06:20 PM |
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Jan 12 2009, 06:25 PM
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Virgin at 28??? Wow.....update update, these days no fat story very sian here.
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Jan 12 2009, 06:29 PM
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dude. i got my ex pregnant from pre-cum.
do the check up. and dont repeat. |
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Jan 12 2009, 06:35 PM
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Jan 12 2009, 06:51 PM
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bravo TS.. damn lucky dude.. a hot girl age 28 and still virgin...
anyway, you have done what you had wish for don't worry so much... mission accomplished. |
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Jan 12 2009, 07:07 PM
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Jan 12 2009, 07:29 PM
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![]() I'm sure you had one of your legs on the mines already. |
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Jan 12 2009, 07:39 PM
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QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 12 2009, 07:15 PM) yea, but honestly, how many girls are still virgin at aged 28+? You did not deposit does not mean anything mate.....there is pre and other stuff that would get your armies marching in... if you get what i mean..in this time and age especially... Added on January 12, 2009, 6:18 pm yea...a little worried about the pregnancy thing as well... but as I did not deposit inside...should be fine... |
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Jan 12 2009, 07:47 PM
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QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 12 2009, 07:39 PM) You did not deposit does not mean anything mate.....there is pre and other stuff that would get your armies marching in... if you get what i mean.. hmmm, should definitely ask her when is her period cycle thingy...shit... i avoided her, din meet for the "talk" gave her an excuse tat i have something important to do... |
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Jan 12 2009, 08:04 PM
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QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 12 2009, 08:47 PM) hmmm, should definitely ask her when is her period cycle thingy... You can avoid today but how long do you think you can run...but i thought that you would know about the consequences......well i guess your thread would be one learning point where all would learn...and that is never think its too expensive or tedious to buy that rubber.... shit... i avoided her, din meet for the "talk" gave her an excuse tat i have something important to do... |
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