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 how do u let a colleague know you want a fling?

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rourou
post Jan 8 2009, 05:36 PM

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not bad.. not bad at all

TS, words spreads very fast.... dun say nobody warns you
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post Jan 8 2009, 05:41 PM

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QUOTE(yjeen @ Jan 8 2009, 05:31 PM)
Well hopefully it just only for drinks and nothing more after that...however if anything does happen, be prepared....she might make your life miserable at the work place.

Most office flings never go well tongue.gif
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Yes, i have heard this always as well
but i dunno why ppl say that
i think it will be more awkward for her than me
if something did happen
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post Jan 8 2009, 05:53 PM

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lol..well wish you all the best!!! Keep us updated on ya progress. smile.gif

QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 8 2009, 05:41 PM)
Yes, i have heard this always as well
but i dunno why ppl say that
i think it will be more awkward for her than me
if something did happen
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post Jan 9 2009, 11:20 AM

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okay
went out for drinks in a club
got her drinking but nothing happened
but she had fun and wants to hang out again tonight
does this mean anything?
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post Jan 9 2009, 11:37 AM

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WTH??? That's IT? Don't bother posting here until something interesting happens!!! lol just joking. c'mon man u can do much more!! Just Do IT tongue.gif But remember, when u play with fire u sure get burn.

QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 9 2009, 11:20 AM)
okay
went out for drinks in a club
got her drinking but nothing happened
but she had fun and wants to hang out again tonight
does this mean anything?
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post Jan 9 2009, 12:33 PM

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QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 9 2009, 11:20 AM)
okay
went out for drinks in a club
got her drinking but nothing happened
but she had fun and wants to hang out again tonight
does this mean anything?
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Means u get to f*** her on the next date. Or at least a *******
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post Jan 9 2009, 01:34 PM

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QUOTE(vey99 @ Jan 9 2009, 12:33 PM)
Means u get to f*** her on the next date. Or at least a *******
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Manyzer dun so jin kak....

please respect what u have said
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post Jan 10 2009, 07:11 PM

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hei guys... a little worried now...
slept with her at my place after she was a little typsy...
but i then realized she is a virgin well, WAS a virgin...
shit...
she might think we should get serious or something...damn!
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post Jan 10 2009, 07:39 PM

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wtf. well, congrats i guess!
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QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 10 2009, 07:11 PM)
hei guys... a little worried now...
slept with her at my place after she was a little typsy...
but i then realized she is a virgin well, WAS a virgin...
shit...
she might think we should get serious or something...damn!
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post Jan 11 2009, 01:32 AM

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couple of things that will happen now...

1. You are no longer available on the market (unless u guys breaks of or something)
2. You get to do it consecutively over the next couple of week (that is if you ar really really that good) until she gets really bored of it..n she finds a replacement..
3. You get humiliated infront of her mates as you did not make a good impression at all.(this is if you are really really bad or she is just too damn drunk to feel a thing.....wait thats not good..)
4. You get married with her and live happily ever after..

either way...u r skrewed...but heck...it was worth it..(or was it not..?).....


Added on January 11, 2009, 1:40 amoh, yeah..and btw, mate.. no offence..but isnt your girl hot enough..i mean ....since you would go after .. this so called fling right up to the bed.......(interesting question..isnt it ...)

This post has been edited by devilicd: Jan 11 2009, 01:40 AM
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post Jan 11 2009, 02:19 AM

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never ever go date someone in your office ..
watever shiet which happen will spread like wildfire...
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post Jan 11 2009, 02:42 AM

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The dude wants it and she wants it. Office matters who cares. As long he knows what he is getting himself into. muahaha
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post Jan 11 2009, 04:11 AM

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QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 11 2009, 01:32 AM)
couple of things that will happen now...

1. You are no longer available on the market (unless u guys breaks of or something)
2. You get to do it consecutively over the next couple of week (that is if you ar really really that good) until she gets really bored of it..n she finds a replacement..
3. You get humiliated infront of her mates as you did not make a good impression at all.(this is if you are really really bad or she is just too damn drunk to feel a thing.....wait thats not good..)
4. You get married with her and live happily ever after..

either way...u r skrewed...but heck...it was worth it..(or was it not..?).....


Added on January 11, 2009, 1:40 amoh, yeah..and btw, mate.. no offence..but isnt your girl hot enough..i mean ....since you would go after .. this so called fling right up to the bed.......(interesting question..isnt it ...)
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i doubt number 3. would happen...coz she was not too drunk to not remember...had a really good time...
number 4 is out of the question since it's just a phase for me...she only has a hot body...

my girl is definitely hotter...but if u have a Ferrari, doesnt mean you cannot want a Jaguar too right?
I'm just worried tat she might think this is not a fling...as she was a virgin...
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post Jan 11 2009, 06:55 AM

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Dare to eat dare to bear the consequences bro.

Thats my only advice

QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 11 2009, 04:11 AM)
i doubt number 3. would happen...coz she was not too drunk to not remember...had a really good time...
number 4 is out of the question since it's just a phase for me...she only has a hot body...

my girl is definitely hotter...but if u have a Ferrari, doesnt mean you cannot want a Jaguar too right?
I'm just worried tat she might think this is not a fling...as she was a virgin...
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post Jan 11 2009, 09:16 AM

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wat is fling means btw?
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post Jan 11 2009, 11:42 PM

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QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 11 2009, 05:11 AM)
i doubt number 3. would happen...coz she was not too drunk to not remember...had a really good time...
number 4 is out of the question since it's just a phase for me...she only has a hot body...

my girl is definitely hotter...but if u have a Ferrari, doesnt mean you cannot want a Jaguar too right?
I'm just worried tat she might think this is not a fling...as she was a virgin...
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here's the thing though, mate.....ur have "exploited" her ...now if you want to break it off...dun you think that no. 3 would happen (regardless if it was good enough)..and trust me i know this from experience thats why i brought it up in the first place and no, i'm not the victim....as i would rather be driving a ferrari and hear it purr 24/7 then to try on other cars...

And unlike cars..your situation may create a backlash of issues......so...either be an a$$...or be a gentlemen (hahahaaahaha..sorry cant help myself there..)...but either way..like i've said before, you're skrewed....


Added on January 11, 2009, 11:57 pm
QUOTE(AHBOON @ Jan 11 2009, 10:16 AM)
wat is fling means btw?
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To answer that interesting question of yours ...http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fling....in case you still dun get it.. click on casual relationship..

This post has been edited by devilicd: Jan 11 2009, 11:57 PM
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post Jan 12 2009, 12:11 AM

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oh you shat where you eat.

That's gonna be difficult day in day out.


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post Jan 12 2009, 12:20 AM

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QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 8 2009, 10:03 AM)
I have this colleague who is very very average face wise...but atheletic body...
so, she gives me the hots when at work...

the problem is that she's a very hostile person...
how do i indirectly let her know i want just a fling with her?
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The basic rules of attraction apply.


Eye Contact. Body language.

Confidence.

If you are finding it difficult to even maintain eye contact casually, then she probably doesnt see you as a prospective partner/loverboy - ie. she thinks she can do better or she knows that there are more attractive guys available to her.
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post Jan 12 2009, 03:48 AM

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QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 11 2009, 11:42 PM)
here's the thing though, mate.....ur have "exploited" her ...now if you want to break it off...dun you think that no. 3 would happen (regardless if it was good enough)..and trust me i know this from experience thats why i brought it up in the first place and no, i'm not the victim....as i would rather be driving a ferrari and hear it purr 24/7 then to try on other cars...

And unlike cars..your situation may create a backlash of issues......so...either be an a$$...or be a gentlemen (hahahaaahaha..sorry cant help myself there..)...but either way..like i've said before, you're skrewed....
honestly, i dun really care too much if number 3 happens...
but i am a little worried that she might want something more serious as i took her virginity...
she did sms me today asking me how was my day...the 1st time ever she sms me after working together for 2 years...
this worries me...should i at least reply her sms?

did i exploit her though...? i mean, she probably knew wat was coming when i invited her to a club twice and then suggested we go back to my place...she agreed...dunno if this qualifies as exploitation...i dont think so...

This post has been edited by reinhard: Jan 12 2009, 03:50 AM

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