not bad.. not bad at all
TS, words spreads very fast.... dun say nobody warns you
how do u let a colleague know you want a fling?
how do u let a colleague know you want a fling?
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Jan 8 2009, 05:36 PM
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not bad.. not bad at all
TS, words spreads very fast.... dun say nobody warns you |
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Jan 8 2009, 05:41 PM
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QUOTE(yjeen @ Jan 8 2009, 05:31 PM) Well hopefully it just only for drinks and nothing more after that...however if anything does happen, be prepared....she might make your life miserable at the work place. Yes, i have heard this always as wellMost office flings never go well but i dunno why ppl say that i think it will be more awkward for her than me if something did happen |
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Jan 8 2009, 05:53 PM
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Jan 9 2009, 11:20 AM
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okay
went out for drinks in a club got her drinking but nothing happened but she had fun and wants to hang out again tonight does this mean anything? |
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Jan 9 2009, 11:37 AM
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WTH??? That's IT? Don't bother posting here until something interesting happens!!! lol just joking. c'mon man u can do much more!! Just Do IT
QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 9 2009, 11:20 AM) okay This post has been edited by yjeen: Jan 9 2009, 11:39 AMwent out for drinks in a club got her drinking but nothing happened but she had fun and wants to hang out again tonight does this mean anything? |
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Jan 9 2009, 12:33 PM
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Jan 9 2009, 01:34 PM
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Jan 10 2009, 07:11 PM
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hei guys... a little worried now...
slept with her at my place after she was a little typsy... but i then realized she is a virgin well, WAS a virgin... shit... she might think we should get serious or something...damn! |
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Jan 10 2009, 07:39 PM
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wtf. well, congrats i guess!
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Jan 10 2009, 07:58 PM
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YOU ROCK MY MAN!!!!!
YOUR MY IDOL NOW!!! At least you took the advice QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 10 2009, 07:11 PM) |
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Jan 11 2009, 01:32 AM
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couple of things that will happen now...
1. You are no longer available on the market (unless u guys breaks of or something) 2. You get to do it consecutively over the next couple of week (that is if you ar really really that good) until she gets really bored of it..n she finds a replacement.. 3. You get humiliated infront of her mates as you did not make a good impression at all.(this is if you are really really bad or she is just too damn drunk to feel a thing.....wait thats not good..) 4. You get married with her and live happily ever after.. either way...u r skrewed...but heck...it was worth it..(or was it not..?)..... Added on January 11, 2009, 1:40 amoh, yeah..and btw, mate.. no offence..but isnt your girl hot enough..i mean ....since you would go after .. this so called fling right up to the bed.......(interesting question..isnt it ...) This post has been edited by devilicd: Jan 11 2009, 01:40 AM |
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Jan 11 2009, 02:19 AM
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never ever go date someone in your office ..
watever shiet which happen will spread like wildfire... |
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Jan 11 2009, 02:42 AM
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The dude wants it and she wants it. Office matters who cares. As long he knows what he is getting himself into. muahaha
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Jan 11 2009, 04:11 AM
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QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 11 2009, 01:32 AM) couple of things that will happen now... i doubt number 3. would happen...coz she was not too drunk to not remember...had a really good time...1. You are no longer available on the market (unless u guys breaks of or something) 2. You get to do it consecutively over the next couple of week (that is if you ar really really that good) until she gets really bored of it..n she finds a replacement.. 3. You get humiliated infront of her mates as you did not make a good impression at all.(this is if you are really really bad or she is just too damn drunk to feel a thing.....wait thats not good..) 4. You get married with her and live happily ever after.. either way...u r skrewed...but heck...it was worth it..(or was it not..?)..... Added on January 11, 2009, 1:40 amoh, yeah..and btw, mate.. no offence..but isnt your girl hot enough..i mean ....since you would go after .. this so called fling right up to the bed.......(interesting question..isnt it ...) number 4 is out of the question since it's just a phase for me...she only has a hot body... my girl is definitely hotter...but if u have a Ferrari, doesnt mean you cannot want a Jaguar too right? I'm just worried tat she might think this is not a fling...as she was a virgin... |
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Jan 11 2009, 06:55 AM
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Dare to eat dare to bear the consequences bro.
Thats my only advice QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 11 2009, 04:11 AM) i doubt number 3. would happen...coz she was not too drunk to not remember...had a really good time... number 4 is out of the question since it's just a phase for me...she only has a hot body... my girl is definitely hotter...but if u have a Ferrari, doesnt mean you cannot want a Jaguar too right? I'm just worried tat she might think this is not a fling...as she was a virgin... |
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Jan 11 2009, 09:16 AM
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wat is fling means btw?
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Jan 11 2009, 11:42 PM
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QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 11 2009, 05:11 AM) i doubt number 3. would happen...coz she was not too drunk to not remember...had a really good time... here's the thing though, mate.....ur have "exploited" her ...now if you want to break it off...dun you think that no. 3 would happen (regardless if it was good enough)..and trust me i know this from experience thats why i brought it up in the first place and no, i'm not the victim....as i would rather be driving a ferrari and hear it purr 24/7 then to try on other cars...number 4 is out of the question since it's just a phase for me...she only has a hot body... my girl is definitely hotter...but if u have a Ferrari, doesnt mean you cannot want a Jaguar too right? I'm just worried tat she might think this is not a fling...as she was a virgin... And unlike cars..your situation may create a backlash of issues......so...either be an a$$...or be a gentlemen (hahahaaahaha..sorry cant help myself there..)...but either way..like i've said before, you're skrewed.... Added on January 11, 2009, 11:57 pm QUOTE(AHBOON @ Jan 11 2009, 10:16 AM) To answer that interesting question of yours ...http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fling....in case you still dun get it.. click on casual relationship..This post has been edited by devilicd: Jan 11 2009, 11:57 PM |
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Jan 12 2009, 12:11 AM
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oh you shat where you eat.
That's gonna be difficult day in day out. |
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QUOTE(reinhard @ Jan 8 2009, 10:03 AM) I have this colleague who is very very average face wise...but atheletic body... The basic rules of attraction apply.so, she gives me the hots when at work... the problem is that she's a very hostile person... how do i indirectly let her know i want just a fling with her? Eye Contact. Body language. Confidence. If you are finding it difficult to even maintain eye contact casually, then she probably doesnt see you as a prospective partner/loverboy - ie. she thinks she can do better or she knows that there are more attractive guys available to her. |
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Jan 12 2009, 03:48 AM
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QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 11 2009, 11:42 PM) here's the thing though, mate.....ur have "exploited" her ...now if you want to break it off...dun you think that no. 3 would happen (regardless if it was good enough)..and trust me i know this from experience thats why i brought it up in the first place and no, i'm not the victim....as i would rather be driving a ferrari and hear it purr 24/7 then to try on other cars... honestly, i dun really care too much if number 3 happens...And unlike cars..your situation may create a backlash of issues......so...either be an a$$...or be a gentlemen (hahahaaahaha..sorry cant help myself there..)...but either way..like i've said before, you're skrewed.... but i am a little worried that she might want something more serious as i took her virginity... she did sms me today asking me how was my day...the 1st time ever she sms me after working together for 2 years... this worries me...should i at least reply her sms? did i exploit her though...? i mean, she probably knew wat was coming when i invited her to a club twice and then suggested we go back to my place...she agreed...dunno if this qualifies as exploitation...i dont think so... This post has been edited by reinhard: Jan 12 2009, 03:50 AM |
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