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TSreinhard
post Jan 8 2009, 10:03 AM, updated 17y ago

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I have this colleague who is very very average face wise...but atheletic body...
so, she gives me the hots when at work...

the problem is that she's a very hostile person...
how do i indirectly let her know i want just a fling with her?
TSreinhard
post Jan 8 2009, 10:07 AM

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examples of a pass?
the hostileness kinda adds to the attraction i guess
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post Jan 8 2009, 10:10 AM

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very difficult person to work with...
typical hostile chick...

i just want a fling...nothing serious...
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post Jan 8 2009, 10:11 AM

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good suggestions...but a little more direct perhaps?
looking for a hot night maybe...tat's all
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post Jan 8 2009, 10:18 AM

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QUOTE(yjeen @ Jan 8 2009, 10:15 AM)
Dude,

Not sure if you heard of this phrase " Don't shit where you eat" ?
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hmmm....u might be right...
but can't really concentrate of the work when she's around...b****ing and making life difficult...
i'm in some kind of crazy lust phase now...
the more she acts hostile...the more turned on i am...
what's wrong with me?
TSreinhard
post Jan 8 2009, 10:24 AM

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QUOTE(JinXXX @ Jan 8 2009, 10:20 AM)
the reason is to ask her if she wants to be f*ed... smile.gif
is she that HOT until you can't concentrate ?

or you just plain horny and needy ?
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her face can use some improvements definitely...
but man...is her body hot...
and she wears this hot clothes which always allows one (me) a few previews!

the problem is she knows i have a girl already...
might get complex...
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post Jan 8 2009, 10:48 AM

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been fapping for too long already...want some real action...
TSreinhard
post Jan 8 2009, 05:23 PM

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*Update:

She said yes to hanging out at a club tonight for drinks...
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post Jan 8 2009, 05:41 PM

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QUOTE(yjeen @ Jan 8 2009, 05:31 PM)
Well hopefully it just only for drinks and nothing more after that...however if anything does happen, be prepared....she might make your life miserable at the work place.

Most office flings never go well tongue.gif
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Yes, i have heard this always as well
but i dunno why ppl say that
i think it will be more awkward for her than me
if something did happen
TSreinhard
post Jan 9 2009, 11:20 AM

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okay
went out for drinks in a club
got her drinking but nothing happened
but she had fun and wants to hang out again tonight
does this mean anything?
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post Jan 10 2009, 07:11 PM

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hei guys... a little worried now...
slept with her at my place after she was a little typsy...
but i then realized she is a virgin well, WAS a virgin...
shit...
she might think we should get serious or something...damn!
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post Jan 11 2009, 04:11 AM

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QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 11 2009, 01:32 AM)
couple of things that will happen now...

1. You are no longer available on the market (unless u guys breaks of or something)
2. You get to do it consecutively over the next couple of week (that is if you ar really really that good) until she gets really bored of it..n she finds a replacement..
3. You get humiliated infront of her mates as you did not make a good impression at all.(this is if you are really really bad or she is just too damn drunk to feel a thing.....wait thats not good..)
4. You get married with her and live happily ever after..

either way...u r skrewed...but heck...it was worth it..(or was it not..?).....


Added on January 11, 2009, 1:40 amoh, yeah..and btw, mate.. no offence..but isnt your girl hot enough..i mean ....since you would go after .. this so called fling right up to the bed.......(interesting question..isnt it ...)
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i doubt number 3. would happen...coz she was not too drunk to not remember...had a really good time...
number 4 is out of the question since it's just a phase for me...she only has a hot body...

my girl is definitely hotter...but if u have a Ferrari, doesnt mean you cannot want a Jaguar too right?
I'm just worried tat she might think this is not a fling...as she was a virgin...
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post Jan 12 2009, 03:48 AM

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QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 11 2009, 11:42 PM)
here's the thing though, mate.....ur have "exploited" her ...now if you want to break it off...dun you think that no. 3 would happen (regardless if it was good enough)..and trust me i know this from experience thats why i brought it up in the first place and no, i'm not the victim....as i would rather be driving a ferrari and hear it purr 24/7 then to try on other cars...

And unlike cars..your situation may create a backlash of issues......so...either be an a$$...or be a gentlemen (hahahaaahaha..sorry cant help myself there..)...but either way..like i've said before, you're skrewed....
honestly, i dun really care too much if number 3 happens...
but i am a little worried that she might want something more serious as i took her virginity...
she did sms me today asking me how was my day...the 1st time ever she sms me after working together for 2 years...
this worries me...should i at least reply her sms?

did i exploit her though...? i mean, she probably knew wat was coming when i invited her to a club twice and then suggested we go back to my place...she agreed...dunno if this qualifies as exploitation...i dont think so...

This post has been edited by reinhard: Jan 12 2009, 03:50 AM
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post Jan 12 2009, 03:56 PM

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QUOTE(Bakmoi @ Jan 12 2009, 04:50 AM)
Just curious how old is you and her ? tongue.gif
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she's 28, i'm 24...
i dont think it matters too much...

okie...a little update:
din reply her sms...saw her in office, it's awkward...
i dunno if anyone else knows...

worrying thing, she asked me...what about my gf...
i just kinda grinned...
din really talk much the whole day but she send me a YM and said we needed to talk...


Added on January 12, 2009, 4:01 pm
QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 12 2009, 08:06 AM)
Well, actually the end result is this....she may keep calling you and etc......and there are two things that may happen...she may already know its a fling and that she just cant get enough of it ..(which is good for you..) ...or she just does not get it and take it serious...(this is the part where you are skrewed..) ... i think the best thing is to either...be direct with her.. or continue this ...secretly......but again.. watch your back...if you know what i mean....

what happen has happened.....so you will have to live with it one way or another...either follow through and hope that it does not leave to disastrous results....(where you lose the ferrari etc....i believe you have seen enough movies or dramas to know about this ...).......so best of luck....
i think the 2nd thing is happening...
she doesnt get it...
should have known she's a virgin or not 1st...
since this is the 1st time, she might feel something more...
if i knew tat she is a virgin...i wouldnt have gone near her...
damn it...


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post Jan 12 2009, 06:15 PM

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QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 12 2009, 05:31 PM)
I think you have finally come down to reality....now comes the tricky part...How to not let your ferrari know that you have been taking the jaguar for a night drive.....thats why no matter how perverted you are...YOU ONLY FLIRT!!!
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yea, but honestly, how many girls are still virgin at aged 28+?
in this time and age especially...


Added on January 12, 2009, 6:18 pm
QUOTE(tajukagebunshin @ Jan 12 2009, 04:47 PM)
damn, read this thread abit too late... else i would've told you to stop.

dude dun la cheat on ur gf... if need s*x go ask ur gf for it... if you malang, get this girl pregnant, alot complication. talking from experience here.

worst case scenario is very easy to kena - gf leave you, u marry avg girl who is older than u by 4 yrs, raise baby at young age. seriously would suck man.
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yea...a little worried about the pregnancy thing as well...
but as I did not deposit inside...should be fine...

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post Jan 12 2009, 07:07 PM

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QUOTE(tajukagebunshin @ Jan 12 2009, 06:29 PM)
dude. i got my ex pregnant from pre-cum.

do the check up. and dont repeat.
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u are worrying me... sweat.gif
maybe the baby is not yours?
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post Jan 12 2009, 07:47 PM

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QUOTE(devilicd @ Jan 12 2009, 07:39 PM)
You did not deposit does not mean anything mate.....there is pre and other stuff that would get your armies marching in... if you get what i mean..
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hmmm, should definitely ask her when is her period cycle thingy...
shit...
i avoided her, din meet for the "talk" gave her an excuse tat i have something important to do...
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post Jan 13 2009, 08:39 AM

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QUOTE(Vinspire @ Jan 13 2009, 01:40 AM)
Within less than a week and you already create a legend.

Very fun la now?

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IDIOT ... shakehead.gif
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wat's with the venom? sad.gif


Added on January 13, 2009, 8:42 am
QUOTE(Vinspire @ Jan 13 2009, 04:56 AM)
LOL ... Yep. I would agree with Tak-kasi Kanasairo this time. The storyline moves too fast and it sounds rather too fake smile.gif
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thanks but u're no help...
why not take your butt off to somewhere else...

This post has been edited by reinhard: Jan 13 2009, 08:42 AM

 

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