QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Dec 27 2008, 07:41 PM)
I have one question, is it possible for you to talk with stranger, a female in public area?
I felt it is strange to talk with them at such condition...
Rule #1: Girls will not feel anything when you approach them in the public, meaning: DO NOT THINK YOU CAN COURT HER ON FIRST TIME, also can be translated as YOU CAN TALK TO HER AS LONG AS YOUR INTENTION IS GOOD. (Or bad, depending on what you are thinking

)
Okay I'll not use the word "approach" here, but instead "talking" just to let you think differently.
A very good way to practice talking to a girl in public is to have some reason to talk to them. For example, you and your friend wanted to take photo, you tapped a girl's shoulder, ask her "Hey can you help take a picture of us?" (I would lean in closer

Makes her feels paiseh)
Actually talking to stranger is a skill, you just need to learn to "let go" of your fear, that's all.
QUOTE(ghoul88 @ Dec 27 2008, 07:43 PM)
@shinjo,
yo shijo...long time not see
^^
@gsrc,
so..

already 4 people here..one gender school..

i think, most of us got same problem..haha

too bad...
Haha, yeah, every problem is just there to let us grow.
Scenario:
Just like you have a frog (Sorry hairy and sasaug, no offense) in front of you, waiting to be sticked to the cutting board and slice open for biological experiment, but you don't dare to do it because you're afraid of blood, so you cannot solve the problem. You might be able to do it with eyes closed on first time, but the fear will not end. It might takes multiple operations to make your fear go away, that's true but that's also what helps you to develop and reprogram your mind so that it will not be afraid anymore.
QUOTE(Shenay @ Dec 27 2008, 07:43 PM)
AngelWings, i thought saturday normally its half day.
why work till so late one ah?
go gai gai? i just came back nei

gsc, u must be a naughty boy thats why u kena rotan!!
LOL so how's ur personality like =x
relax doh !! dont be so angry
More like silent & mischievious but think alot of things type of people. Always do something weird and kena rotan lo
QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Dec 27 2008, 07:44 PM)
I thought some female will run away if a stranger suddenly appear to talk with them in public zones?
They will if you're flashing your little bro. (Or they will kick it so hard you'll regret showing it)