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Kampung2005
post Dec 27 2008, 06:48 PM

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QUOTE(fastcx @ Dec 27 2008, 06:45 PM)
o tat, yea i was in sc tis afternoon, bz with something do din post much...now free, n in buaya mode brows.gif
not really into clubbing girls...hv the impression of shallowness, sorry if i offended ppl
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As long as she is properly behaved, clubbing or not is not a question.......but smoking is a big NO
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post Dec 27 2008, 06:53 PM

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QUOTE(fastcx @ Dec 27 2008, 06:51 PM)
agree smile.gif but somehow i generalise girls tat go clubbing
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I don't know true or not, or this maybe stereotype for some...

My observation is that girls who wear specs, less seen in clubs.....(probably they wear contact lens)
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post Dec 27 2008, 06:56 PM

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Does people need to go to club solely for mating?
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post Dec 27 2008, 06:57 PM

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QUOTE(shinjo @ Dec 27 2008, 06:56 PM)
Hi Hi`... Long time haven been here.. findin ppl accompany me these few days.. If not boring to lepak at home..

Well, for me.. As said, Club= an easier way to approach someone..
But ain't the perfect place for me to really findin a partner there.
I ain't gonna find a drunk meow back with me there..
UNLESS ( u r lucky enough) to have able to find some nice group of girls/guys jus went there to have some social drink and enjoyin the music only.
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With your POV, then would it be hard to hitch someone in cafe?
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post Dec 27 2008, 06:59 PM

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QUOTE(siestz @ Dec 27 2008, 06:58 PM)
haha.. club is not a place fo mating
but maybe I'm old jor... i prefer to go for some place to chill duing happy hour instead..  at least not so smokey and dangerous..
club give me the creep
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For a private reason, club is banned....

Ah bengs and ah lians, i feared the most in club
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post Dec 27 2008, 07:04 PM

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QUOTE(siestz @ Dec 27 2008, 07:02 PM)
kampung: clubbing age are just over.. kopitiam also not bad smile.gif
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I prefer :

- Pub

- Mamak

- Kopitiam

- Cafe

I wonder, if i go to club, will i ever find a down to earth girl?
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post Dec 27 2008, 07:05 PM

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QUOTE(shinjo @ Dec 27 2008, 07:03 PM)
Probably hard.. let's think. u go to cafe alone on the first place is for wat`??  enjoy the coffee and have a nice time relax alone de ma.. then wifi.. I personally have this behaviour also where i wanted to be alone too to have my mind quiet and better off alone (sometime).

So, u know how annoyin would tat be if u come and talk to me suddenly and being so obviously interested in me..(something like tat)

I dunno la.. diff ppl have diff character. see lor how is the reaction
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That's enlightening, thanks smile.gif
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post Dec 27 2008, 07:06 PM

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QUOTE(siestz @ Dec 27 2008, 07:05 PM)
down to earth? hmm. try library *wink*
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Humble girl.......as simple as that smile.gif

But i felt they are rare breed these days

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post Dec 27 2008, 07:11 PM

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Do you notice that girl's hairstyle changed when they shift from school to college?
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post Dec 27 2008, 07:13 PM

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QUOTE(siestz @ Dec 27 2008, 07:12 PM)
hehehe.. u really funny..
hmm..  i think that makes her sexy le.. girls reading porn.... hmmm..
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That's perfectly acceptable
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post Dec 27 2008, 07:17 PM

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QUOTE(siestz @ Dec 27 2008, 07:16 PM)
shenay.. haha.. good question .. i also dunno.. up to my dad.. kaka..  *sigh* hate holidays...
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Do you think that end of the year is a boring period of the year?
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post Dec 27 2008, 07:41 PM

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QUOTE(gsrc @ Dec 27 2008, 07:39 PM)
Yeah Penang alot of schools like that, St Xavier la, Convent la, Chung Ling la, Phor Tay la, Peng Hwa la, speaking of which I think the only school that has both gender is Jit Sin only.  shocking.gif
Yeah shy + quiet + dunno talk one + didn't dare to look into people's eyes one. That's because I don't have confident at all when I'm young. Kena rotan by parents kao kao  sweat.gif

But I guess I'm lucky to realize my weakness and started to brush up on it before I get into the working society. If not I guess I would still be one of those unemployed grads. So even if my CGPA is not eye-catching enough, my personality will still make it up good. YOU HEAR ME ALL THE PEOPLE OUT THERE?  vmad.gif  vmad.gif  vmad.gif
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I have one question, is it possible for you to talk with stranger, a female in public area?

I felt it is strange to talk with them at such condition...
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post Dec 27 2008, 07:44 PM

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QUOTE(fastcx @ Dec 27 2008, 07:43 PM)
hmm.gif kampung, perhaps u just need to convince urself, n dont worry about mistake..more u tries doing it, sooner u'll feels its fine
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I thought some female will run away if a stranger suddenly appear to talk with them in public zones?
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post Dec 27 2008, 07:48 PM

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QUOTE(Shenay @ Dec 27 2008, 07:46 PM)
Kampung, we should start talking one day smile.gif
after awhile, u will feel its actually nothing that ure worrying about!
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shocking.gif rclxub.gif

QUOTE(fastcx @ Dec 27 2008, 07:46 PM)
ofcz, be friendly, n dont rush..they might looks nervous, dont worry smile.gif if u dnt nervous as well, it can be done, when u nervous, u might looks weird but strangely sometimes some girls dig tat laugh.gif
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That's my first time to see this...
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post Dec 27 2008, 07:51 PM

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QUOTE(Shenay @ Dec 27 2008, 07:47 PM)
dont approach strangers!
approach people whom u know !
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I think my friends are all 100% males now........female contact, this year only talk with them 2 times....
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post Dec 27 2008, 07:53 PM

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QUOTE(Shenay @ Dec 27 2008, 07:52 PM)
nola blush.gif
how can i make silentz belanja smile.gif
gsrc will treat us both ^^b
hmm mix with ur male mates & get to know their female friends smile.gif
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Problem is, they themselves rarely meet with females, and only one of my coursemates got GF...
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post Dec 27 2008, 07:56 PM

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QUOTE(Shenay @ Dec 27 2008, 07:54 PM)
=/
icic were u from a one gender school ?
thats why u should go for cc gatherings & make new female friends smile.gif
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Not at all...

Co-ed school...

Let us put it as ratio...

Form 2 : M (75) : F (25)
Form 3 : M (90) : F (10)
College : M (100) : F (0)
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post Dec 27 2008, 08:00 PM

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QUOTE(gsrc @ Dec 27 2008, 07:57 PM)
Rule #1: Girls will not feel anything when you approach them in the public, meaning: DO NOT THINK YOU CAN COURT HER ON FIRST TIME, also can be translated as YOU CAN TALK TO HER AS LONG AS YOUR INTENTION IS GOOD. (Or bad, depending on what you are thinking  tongue.gif )

Okay I'll not use the word "approach" here, but instead "talking" just to let you think differently.
A very good way to practice talking to a girl in public is to have some reason to talk to them. For example, you and your friend wanted to take photo, you tapped a girl's shoulder, ask her "Hey can you help take a picture of us?" (I would lean in closer  brows.gif Makes her feels paiseh)

Actually talking to stranger is a skill, you just need to learn to "let go" of your fear, that's all.
Haha, yeah, every problem is just there to let us grow.

Scenario:
Just like you have a frog (Sorry hairy and sasaug, no offense) in front of you, waiting to be sticked to the cutting board and slice open for biological experiment, but you don't dare to do it because you're afraid of blood, so you cannot solve the problem. You might be able to do it with eyes closed on first time, but the fear will not end. It might takes multiple operations to make your fear go away, that's true but that's also what helps you to develop and reprogram your mind so that it will not be afraid anymore.
More like silent & mischievious but think alot of things type of people. Always do something weird and kena rotan lo  sweat.gif  sweat.gif
They will if you're flashing your little bro. (Or they will kick it so hard you'll regret showing it)
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Well, i want female friends just to enlighten my life which is currently 100% males...

Certainly, relationship is out of question at the moment, owing to current circumstances and past history in female diplomacy...not to mention, freedom is in jeopardy...

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