Hello.

Recently at the 7-11 near my house theres this cute malay girl starts working. Shes so softspooken, welldressed and very polite. She's so cute. Sometimes she wear glasses and sometimes she wear contacts. Both are very cute... Anyway...

I'm very interested in her. She is the reason of my frequest visit to 7-11 these few weeks. I've attempted small talks with the girl and know some little info about her. And finally last week I managed to get her name.

The question. How should I get her number? Isit too soon? I'm really seriously interested in her. And remember, before you give your advice, we're talking about those good malay girl type, not the social and casual kind of girl. She'll only work there till the end of this year (semester break). I think I dont look too bad, and have a steady job. Do I have a chance?

Should I go for it?

p.s. NO PICTAR!

Chronological of Events:
Asked for her number but got shot down. Although she asked me to leave MY numbers instead.
She starts texting me.
Confirmed a movie date with her.


This post has been edited by emino: Dec 25 2008, 10:39 AM

absolutely. i lurve nasi lemaks at 7-11.

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Added on December 15, 2008, 2:44 pmi also alwiz buaya the 7-11 gals at my side.

This post has been edited by vey99: Dec 15 2008, 02:44 PM

You must start a talk to know her name? All 7-11 staff got name tag lar

lolz

She's a temp. They dont give nametags to temps. Plus, its more polite to ask. I dont want her to feel like I'm stalking her (even though I partly do) .

Go for it!!!!! dont wait!!!!! ask her out for a drink! make friends 1stlah..

asking while the tag is showing, feel like nub or cute?

This post has been edited by N's: Dec 15 2008, 02:55 PM

Dah dpt nama, next step nombor

Nola, find out when her shift ends and if it's late at night, offer a walk back or to LRT station or stuff like that.

that is more scary.. if i was her.

NO PICTAR IS FAIL!!

...but since i'm kind:
Write your number on a piece of paper, then pretend to drop it in front of her and go:
you: "oh, you dropped something!"
gurl: "this isn't mine.."
you: "its not? oh! must be mine then... oh well, you can have it, i've already memorized it anyways ^^"

if shes interested she will call. if not good luck la haha

So lame.........

maybe try to ask her colleague?
or straight away ask for her number. if she willing to give then congra, else jz good luck.

do a series of muscle flexing then only u ask her phone number.

show her you manliness

got chance or not is not for us to determine.go and ask the lady out and find out the answer. be brave.

Ok, I forgot that I'm a girl chasing a girl. That won't work.

frequently go buy thing and make fren wif her

or

buy a pack of extra large size d*r*x..

open a burger stall right in front of that 7-11. that way u get to stalk out ur prey.

would it be much more easier for TS to work for 7-11?

1% the gurl will call.

justgoandtalktoher

kthxbye

SHOW YOUR MUSCLE !! ASK ! DO YOU LIKE IT ? LOL

Suggested and it won't work

Buy slushie....and don't forget to flirt with her...

just dont make obscene, be funny and frenly, sure o.k. one.

ask ur fren act robber den go in rob.
Den u go in see ur fren robbing den u be an hero go fight with him.
Actually dunit fight just pull him into the store room n make some punch sounds. During this time faster use water colour to paint bruises.
Den use ur shirt to tie his hands ( can show ur abs ).
Finally let him use knife cut u abit n let him run.
Den she will help u stick bandage n she will say thank you.
Den u say dunit say ty, jz buy me dinner.
Shes urs.

WTF? this is lamer than my idea!!
+2 for lamer than my idea

ppl might get killed. its happen many times before, so pulis kata jangen.

ya dats y ts shud just go ahead and ask for her number.
Kana reject kana reject lo, still got many girls.

um u suggest it didn't you?

Sorry for late reply guys. Just back from a very long meeting.

I think she would spray me with pepper spray on the spot.


that's lame lor...

lol, most of the colleague seems to also want to be with her .

flex what? i'm all skin and bones oni...

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Added on December 15, 2008, 5:16 pmthats what i'm doing right now

...
serious la wei.

i have a fulltime job aledi la...

This post has been edited by emino: Dec 15 2008, 05:16 PM

She's new there izzit??? Just create small talk with her lar to test water. Try asking her, were you from other 7-11, just finished studies, blah blah. I'm sure you can think of something. And always smile.



If you want drastic measure, ask her to set up burger stall with u. Then everyday, you can see her, talk to her and go out with her. Cheers.

why stoop so low?

eh, 7-11 gal is also ppl. what low?

Smalltalks like that are already been done lor... I already know which uni she goes, what is she currently studying, where she's from, how long is she staying in kl, where in kl she lives etc etc etc.

Damn right. Kudos to you.

she might works in 7-11 now, but she is a degree student working during her semester break. i love independant girls rather than those who milks their parents monies.

Ok....does she know those stuff about you??? Anyway, wat are you waiting for? Just ask her out for dinner or something lar. If you're scared, just bring along a female fren. Go nearby the 7-11 where she works. Then from there you test further lor. Or just buy some movie ticket then say you got it free, ask her wanna go watch. Invite a bunch of ppl lor. I dunno man, it's your own creativity from here on.

so you do know about her. thought you dont.

Well if you don't want to ask her phone number, ask her email, or ask her if she's on facebook, then from there on, getting her phone number will be easier

This post has been edited by yjeen: Dec 15 2008, 05:51 PM

geez.. sounds like stalker / rapist / kidnapper / murderer

Try to bring your gliders.

I think you shouldn't get her number TOO FAST. In my personal opinion, you should somehow go to the 7-11 store each and every time during her shift, of course, she will realized and ask you why do you come everyday? or maybe she will ask is it you on purpose or just coincidence happen to buy things. you should remain silence and don't answer her question. curiosity kills! so, keep doing that and around 26-28 almost month ends then you got to saying stuffs like you are going to stop working soon right and just said too bad that you cannot see her anymore. see what is her respond. if she really no response, u should pass her a note saying you are shy but would like to know more bout her. give her ur number & see if she sms u. hee.. sorry for the long post!

I am going there everyday. But I cant wait till 26-28 months. she's a temp and her uni sememster starts on january.

go and get her..
if failed..
try others..
^^
wait new workers there

i like ur spirit

I think is very easy if u got the guts ..

^^
haha.. thanks2...
spirit for a loser like me



just try...failed or succeed.. its your fate..
^^
dont regret in future..

Dunwan new girl la... want this girl...

1st - Ger her attention by frequently buying the same stuff again and again
2nd - Once she recognizes you, ask for a receipt and a pen. Write down your number on the receipt

how you know she work during her semester break? you already know so many things liao, time to ask contacts already la.

if hard to ask for hardphone number, just ask for msn or email lo, at least not so ganas like asking for number. then you can say something like "everytime i also come buy stuffs and talk so little, hope to chat with you more, we can be friends".

remember to buy a pair of balls off seven eleven...

worse come to worst, show your muscles and say "want die or not? don't want then give me your hp number!".

This post has been edited by little ice: Dec 15 2008, 09:15 PM

Maybe i can help u,where this 7-11 located...im might sapuing her as well...ROFL!

I once overheard a conversation in 7-11.

guy: "I lost my number. Can I have yours?"
girl: "..."

omg..go and get her..
where she study? how much do you know about her?

hehe 7-11 in shah alam?
i notice a cute one start working at tadisma harta area

i think then you should act fast before it's too late. you just give her your number and ask her to sms you if she thinks is alright. assure her that u r not a bad people & just intending to make friend. also emphasize that u dun mind if she doesn't msg you or anything & what u care most is she is happy with what she is doing.

u r new in this area?
i in charge of this area...
every1 know me...
u need to give me protection fee

Tell her not to work in convenient store anymore, you'll take k of her, everything, money, good life, and good sex.

This morning I tried to ask her her number, since there are only 2 girls on the counter. But theres someone behind me was very impatient to get his cigarettes.

Then I go and pretend to read the papers while she was attending him.

When I look back, 2 more 7-e staffs are lepaking there.

Chickened out and go to the office ler...

Got lui in front of u u dont want to kao... when u cant find her anymore or not available anymore u cry also no tears i tell u.

well, honestly, you can always start off with her e-mail...

talk to her for a while, then while you are leaving the door, just turn back and say...

hey, do you have e-mail?

you think of the following script yourself...=) (if she didn't answer this first time, call her name, and ask again...do you have e-mail...=)?)

Your best bet is to NOT seek advise from here

totally agreed with tat..
except you wan some crazy advise, dude..

I would suggest get her e-mail address instead and then hang out using msn, facebook or anything you can think off.

Reason is for a girl to give out her number is like giving out something personal. Don't you agreed hp is a very important stuff to anyone of us. A hp number can lead to many many stuff such as harassment and etc. I'm not saying TS is some sort of pervert or what but I think this is what many normal decent girl will do.

not really, there are obviously destructive and also constructive advices out there
the only difference is up to you to judge who is being which...
some can say A is destructive while another saying that A is constructive...
there are also ppl like you, who generalize advices as all bad...

different ppl have different opinions, thats all...=)

just go there buy condom eevryday ... preferably if u try to cheat a female fren to come along (but make sure ur female fern never see u buying condom...) and den everyday different gals sure she think WOW THIS GUY IS THE SHIT..... i must sleep with him too.

What part of good malay girl you dont understand?

so did u approach her

go up to her, "hey miss you're attractive, can i have you're hp no. ?"

it's just one shot, cheers

-edit- anyway do it with a decent smile, not hamsup smile =P

This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Dec 16 2008, 11:30 AM

let me knoes the branch. i kau tim for you.

agreed...

Asked her for her phone just now.

She was suprised, and did not give her number.
Although she did ask me to leave mine instead.

Any hope left? Rejection?

is the malay girl very comel? intro me which 7-11 is this i want to go c c

no freakin way. haha.
she'll be quitting by the end of december anyway. her uni semester are about to start.

shyt la you, if she no give you hope what for she ask you to leave your number?

told you already, ask for number is like asking where she live. ask for msn or email better la at least she still got privacy.

Already asked. she says she's not really into internet. yeah, thats a real shocker for me, being an IT guy and all.
She might asked me to leave my number so that I wont feel bad.

This post has been edited by emino: Dec 16 2008, 08:21 PM

oooo then no choice lo. pray hard for her to call you. she might off to get a new DiGi simpack to call you. at least it's not her private number.

anyway, have to wait till tomorrow. I've "conveniently" left the phone at office before heading home today.

steady man, steady.

Good luck TS !

honestly, asking her phone number and instead, she ask it back demonstrates that she has a higher value than you...you can either close game here, or just go back to her and say that...i thought about it for a while, and i still think that it's best for you to leave me your phone number...

if you know her background as in her study area and so on, lets say pharmacy...just say that i would like to make friends with a future drug dealer or if she is going for law, just say that if i needed any future lawyers, i know who i have in mind to probably pick it out...honestly, being cocky funny here is one thing, but...it does not guarantee success as well, just put it in mind as, well, if she doesn't give it, it's her loss...no big deal...and don't go there anymore until she left...just my thoughts...

if she really had interest with you, she will give you her phone number...nuff said...=)

cute story...anyway gud luck ts...

Well said If she was interested, she would have gave you her phone number Good Luck

Told you edi ler, bring your gliders la..

Girl : Eh! Cutenye!!

Instant win.

TS, why don't you flex your muskel like you do in you avatar and goes, sayang, abang nie keras tak? Boleh kita berkawan?

hahaha..

seriously, you should just approach her and ask her POLITELY. If she reject your advances, then end of your curiosity about any what-ifs. If she gives you her number, then, take it slow from there.

This post has been edited by gsuave: Dec 17 2008, 01:53 PM

this is a potentially bad plan

Ask her to recommend a brand of condoms, and whether she would like to experiment it on you.

I'm Looking forward to this
GL bro

Got some unknown number msg me today.

"Salam... Selamat tgh hari..."

Me - Selamat tgh hari.. Sape ni?

"Kawan awk.. tp jauh.. "

Me - Hmm... Sape yer... Kasila clue sket...

You guys think its her?

You will never know if you call her...

She just replied... ITS 7E GIRL! WOOHOO!!!

Happy for you bro... now go start knowing her...

go for it start usha that girl

I liek how things progressing now.

binggo..
you won..


lets make party tonight...

classic epic. good job TS you rock

Good job

Just finished exchanging texts with her. She's working right now so its impolite to disturb her by calling i guess.

Asked for a movie date this friday (the last day she'll work at the 7-e) she says insya-allah.

Wish me luck!