well, honestly, you can always start off with her e-mail...

talk to her for a while, then while you are leaving the door, just turn back and say...

hey, do you have e-mail?

you think of the following script yourself...=) (if she didn't answer this first time, call her name, and ask again...do you have e-mail...=)?)

not really, there are obviously destructive and also constructive advices out there
the only difference is up to you to judge who is being which...
some can say A is destructive while another saying that A is constructive...
there are also ppl like you, who generalize advices as all bad...

different ppl have different opinions, thats all...=)

honestly, asking her phone number and instead, she ask it back demonstrates that she has a higher value than you...you can either close game here, or just go back to her and say that...i thought about it for a while, and i still think that it's best for you to leave me your phone number...

if you know her background as in her study area and so on, lets say pharmacy...just say that i would like to make friends with a future drug dealer or if she is going for law, just say that if i needed any future lawyers, i know who i have in mind to probably pick it out...honestly, being cocky funny here is one thing, but...it does not guarantee success as well, just put it in mind as, well, if she doesn't give it, it's her loss...no big deal...and don't go there anymore until she left...just my thoughts...

if she really had interest with you, she will give you her phone number...nuff said...=)

honestly, you told ppl to forget about PUA things...and you are recommending to use it yourself, daygame, nightgame...still, it's just socialization...and believe me...i see a whole lot of PUA techniques in your conversation above...=)

i ain't saying that it's bad, but well, one really needs to know how to open to game...XD, and even better, you have quite a success rate there...for strangers (random people) that is..

to another person:
if she dunwan to shake the hand at all ler? i got this kind of experince b4, so shame
just tell her that be sporting abit, and it's fine shaking hands...and give her a smile...unless you look pretty creepy...

This post has been edited by LostWanderer: Dec 24 2008, 02:08 PM