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Do guys prefer gals to wear high heels?, I am so sick...
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  Dec 11 2008, 12:02 AM, updated 14y ago
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Dec 11 2008, 08:01 PM
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haha it depends. but i just feel qeird if guys dun mind gf taller than them. mayb u should tell himhonestly ur feelings. guys sometimes is quite stubborn if u dun tell them straight forward.
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Dec 11 2008, 09:27 PM
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High heels can really make shorter girls look more attractive bringing them up to eye level~
You're tall enough, should be okay if you dont wear. How does it feel to wear heels anyway ? |
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Dec 11 2008, 09:51 PM
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if gal not comfort when ware the high heels then i wont ask her to ware one. to ask her is just ignorant of her feelin'.
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Dec 11 2008, 09:56 PM
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QUOTE(Joyuan @ Dec 11 2008, 12:02 AM) [ALL NEW THREADS HERE ARE SUBJECT TO MODERATOR REVIEW BEFORE APPEARING ON THE INDEX. Did u ask him why he wants u to wear high heels? Maybe he finds u attractive in high heels? Mine does, but Im really a sneakers kinda person. BUT, weneva we go on dates, i try my best to accommodate his likes - eg wearing heels for him. When I wear heels its very obvious that im taller than my bf (im already 1 inch taller than him in bare feet) but he's the kinda guy who doesnt mind the height difference. I mean, how often do u get to go on dates? (In my case once a week cuz we're both fulltime students) .... So.. A MODERATOR WILL ENDEAVOUR TO APPROVE OR DISAPPROVE ALL THREADS WITHIN 24 HOURS. IF YOUR THREAD DOES NOT APPEAR WITHIN 48 HOURS, PLEASE PM A STAFF MEMBER] My height is 169cm and my bf's 173cm. It is like everytime we going for a date, he really prefer me to wear high heels. But whenever i wear high heels, i ll look more taller than him(i got long legs). I dont reall like this kind of feelings. The wearing high heels will make me very tired and sick of it. I will only wear high heels for my presentations in Uni. I want to make him happy.. but i cant do the things he want me to do... sigh... Do guys really mind and prefer gals do wear high heels?  OR, if u date very often, u can explain to ur bf ur discomfort of wearing heels... Tell him u will wear them every two dates, he shudnt mind to "compromise" abit? ^^ |
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Dec 11 2008, 10:10 PM
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erm... don't see the significant point of high heels or no heels. Well, high heels may make a girl appears more attractive but to request gf to wear it is a little bit too ... demanding. I mean, it's just shoes. summore, wearing high heels is painful and inconvenient. In fact, high-heel shoes are n0t good for us (in long term) although it may burn more calories. Anyway, perhaps, u may wear not-so-high-heels say 1 inch ? moderation is the best. give and take between lovers. hehe.
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Dec 11 2008, 11:09 PM
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Dec 12 2008, 09:48 AM
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hmmm..
i think maybe ur bf think that girls in heels are more sexy and of course more attractive. my bf always tell me he likes girls in those heels with lots of strips.. aahahhahah~~ personally i like to wear heels!! it makes me more confidents and look thinner... hee hee but depends on where am i going la.. if got dinner with him or working then i will wear heels.. if go shopping i will choose flat or wedges.. i think that tell him ur feeling is the best way.. say that u would love to wear heels but it just too tired and painful to wear it to shopping and la la la.. |
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Dec 12 2008, 10:45 AM
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High heels forces you to walk with your chest out (which pushes the breast out) which enhances the curve on your bust line and waist and therefore look sexier.
If i'm not mistaken there are high heel crocs, not very fashionable but I presume it's more comfortable, why don't you give it a try? |
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Dec 12 2008, 10:46 AM
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I would say as long as you are comfortable wear whatever you like.
I hate it when my wife keep complaining that her leg is painful when she can just wear normal shoes rather than high heels |
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Dec 12 2008, 06:01 PM
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Frankly saying, i dun rly enjoy seeing her wearin heels. I alwiz afraid she might fall down, twisted her ankle, muscle pain, or break the heels which cost her lots of money.. or tht heels is one of her fav. In other words i juz dun wan her to upset.
Anyhow, i do agree heels are needed during important function where certain dress code needed. But if you sayin juz for normal dating, heels is not needed. |
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Dec 12 2008, 08:02 PM
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uhm .. it doesnt really matter either.. cuz if the heel too high, might cause injury
and the personally, i dont really like .. cuz im short  she'll become taller than me if she wear heels ! lolness |
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Dec 12 2008, 08:12 PM
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i like girls who wear boots during the winter season ..does that count lol
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Dec 13 2008, 02:20 AM
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QUOTE(Joyuan @ Dec 11 2008, 12:02 AM) [ALL NEW THREADS HERE ARE SUBJECT TO MODERATOR REVIEW BEFORE APPEARING ON THE INDEX. not necessary...as long as the girl is good and i love her...is ok....but it might differ from individual A MODERATOR WILL ENDEAVOUR TO APPROVE OR DISAPPROVE ALL THREADS WITHIN 24 HOURS. IF YOUR THREAD DOES NOT APPEAR WITHIN 48 HOURS, PLEASE PM A STAFF MEMBER] My height is 169cm and my bf's 173cm. It is like everytime we going for a date, he really prefer me to wear high heels. But whenever i wear high heels, i ll look more taller than him(i got long legs). I dont reall like this kind of feelings. The wearing high heels will make me very tired and sick of it. I will only wear high heels for my presentations in Uni. I want to make him happy.. but i cant do the things he want me to do... sigh... Do guys really mind and prefer gals do wear high heels?  u should ask him, why he like it so much |
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Dec 13 2008, 03:33 AM
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that's why i prefer a gf who is just 2 inches shorter
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Dec 13 2008, 08:55 AM
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i think there 3 reasons why girls will wear high heals
1-Its during office hour so that she'll more presentable and corporate like 2-That she's short and wants to look taller 3-That they have small or flat buttocks that by using high heals, it'll bring out the "buttocks" in them. So i guess is that yrs is the 3rd...................... |
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Dec 13 2008, 10:44 AM
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i have no worries.. cause i am 18x CM @@
but wear high heels will make girl look different ^^ for me i think if girl taller than boy.. maybe will look like bring small kid go gai gai @@... just my opinion.. |
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Dec 13 2008, 12:44 PM
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QUOTE(Joyuan @ Dec 10 2008, 12:02 PM) [ALL NEW THREADS HERE ARE SUBJECT TO MODERATOR REVIEW BEFORE APPEARING ON THE INDEX. seeing I'm 5'2 and my boyfriend is 6'3, I cannot relate xDA MODERATOR WILL ENDEAVOUR TO APPROVE OR DISAPPROVE ALL THREADS WITHIN 24 HOURS. IF YOUR THREAD DOES NOT APPEAR WITHIN 48 HOURS, PLEASE PM A STAFF MEMBER] My height is 169cm and my bf's 173cm. It is like everytime we going for a date, he really prefer me to wear high heels. But whenever i wear high heels, i ll look more taller than him(i got long legs). I dont reall like this kind of feelings. The wearing high heels will make me very tired and sick of it. I will only wear high heels for my presentations in Uni. I want to make him happy.. but i cant do the things he want me to do... sigh... Do guys really mind and prefer gals do wear high heels? but no I don't like heels. they hurt. |
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Dec 14 2008, 09:30 PM
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hate heels before.
but love heels now. tho that is suffering but i knew in the future we need it for everything =D start with a lower inch heels / wedges then only proceed to 2.5 inch and then 3 then 4 =) |
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Dec 15 2008, 02:04 PM
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just wear heels that are not too high.. Kitten heels, we call it. about 1 inch or 1.5 inch only... Very casual looking. i think once you get used to it, it will be ok. Later when you are working in the corproate world, you need to wear them sooner or later.
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